Modcleopatra
Banned
So I have a friend that I keep at arms length, but only because I've recently learned I've had to.
She is a triple Leo, with her Sun conjunct her moon, with a Late Leo ascendant. She doesn't come across too strong because this conjunction is squarely in her 12th house. However, her sun and moon square pluto in the third house, a true blue scorpio pluto! Moreover, her sun and moon are inconjunct to a capricorn mars (located in the 5th house, of course!) She has no air signs in her chart (except a gemini chiron), with very little focus in the air houses as well (pluto alone). This is a problem for me, because even though I have no air signs (chiron in a gemini) I have a STRONG focus on the air sign houses. (saturn/chart ruler in the 11th house, north node in the 3rd, sun and mercury in the 7th house) She and I argue A LOT. I constantly feel like she is controlling me, though I can never quite pinpoint it. She mopes a lot, and even me, with my stellium of capricorn planets, can't take it! I always have to like, remind her to say goodbye to me, or like, be considerate of my personal space, or not interrupt me. She also puts me down a lot! The weird thing is she has mercury sextile venus, cancer and virgo respectively. You think she wouldn't need to be reminded to be considerate or at LEAST polite. I'm not sure what to do. I know I could really dig into her (mercury square pluto) and I have definitely sat her down and been really strong with her (not always easy for me, a 7th house cancer.) ANy thoughts as to how to tackle this? I want to be friends with her but I want her to be considerate of me!!!! How does one get through to this strong Leo type??
She is a triple Leo, with her Sun conjunct her moon, with a Late Leo ascendant. She doesn't come across too strong because this conjunction is squarely in her 12th house. However, her sun and moon square pluto in the third house, a true blue scorpio pluto! Moreover, her sun and moon are inconjunct to a capricorn mars (located in the 5th house, of course!) She has no air signs in her chart (except a gemini chiron), with very little focus in the air houses as well (pluto alone). This is a problem for me, because even though I have no air signs (chiron in a gemini) I have a STRONG focus on the air sign houses. (saturn/chart ruler in the 11th house, north node in the 3rd, sun and mercury in the 7th house) She and I argue A LOT. I constantly feel like she is controlling me, though I can never quite pinpoint it. She mopes a lot, and even me, with my stellium of capricorn planets, can't take it! I always have to like, remind her to say goodbye to me, or like, be considerate of my personal space, or not interrupt me. She also puts me down a lot! The weird thing is she has mercury sextile venus, cancer and virgo respectively. You think she wouldn't need to be reminded to be considerate or at LEAST polite. I'm not sure what to do. I know I could really dig into her (mercury square pluto) and I have definitely sat her down and been really strong with her (not always easy for me, a 7th house cancer.) ANy thoughts as to how to tackle this? I want to be friends with her but I want her to be considerate of me!!!! How does one get through to this strong Leo type??