Pluto in Synastry

miquar

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Who would feel love more? The Pluto or the venus?
I only ask because isn’t Pluto about obsession and stuff ? I think the Pluto person would love the venus more than the venus loves the Pluto
Just like I think venus would love The Sun more than The Sun loves the venus
Just my take
But just wanted to know what you meant as well lol

The Pluto person cam feel it strongly too. That's the main problem really - because the Venus person can be scapegoated by the Pluto people.
 
Hi I don't think it would lose its meaning. In this example the petson already has the natal Venus Pluto conjunction, and her early expwriences of tbis will affect the assumptions she takes into adult life. When she spends more time in mixed-age environments, the effect will not be there so much, but the early experiences will stay with her, especially since she will always have that natal comjunction on the lookout for similar experiences which reinforce the old ones.

Best wishes

Miquar

So basically every relationship the venus person has in her early life while she's constantly surrounded by people her age is gonna have that pluto conjunct venus feel to it right? Like it's sort of part of her personality, she's obsessive and that's how she lives love and relationships
 

miquar

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If she has a close natal Venus Pluto conjunction, her capacity to find beauty and value in herself and in the world around her (Venus) is going to work together with that Plutonian force for renewal and transformation. She won't be especially aware that these are two distinct functions as they are so closely entwined in her psyche. She may be obsessive about the things that she loves and values, and feeling the primitive and destructive power of Pluto moving within her, she may fear that others would find her unworthy and unlovable if they really knew her.

When she is around lots of people her own age, her expression of beauty, taste, affection, etc (or her inhibition in this area) may trigger the Pluto in others. Some might scapegoat her after projecting their own Plutonian drives onto her, and some might become very intrigued by her. And she might feel her Pluto energy more strongly around these people of her own age because they trigger it with theirs. So her inbuilt assumption that Venus interactions/experiences and Pluto issues go together will be reinforced. Those who have other planets in close aspect to their own Pluto, and thus her Venus and Pluto, are more likely engage with her Venus Pluto side (positively or negatively) and are more likely to attract her attention/love/fear.

She would need to own her power as consciously as possible, but also refrain from trying to manipulate others, in order to bring out the best of this aspect. She would need to disregard social values when exploring her feelings internally, but when deciding how to relate to others in the outer world she would need to be mindful of a possible ability/tendency to shock others. An intense relationship, getting into amateur dramatics, reading literature that is dramatic in some way, etc could serve as an outlet.

Ideally she would seek support from some kind of therapist - or teacher with a pastoral role - or anyone who could help her navigate any issues that arise. It can be difficult aspect, especially for an adolescent girl. The house placement of the conjunction should be considered carefully.

Best wishes

Miquar
 
If she has a close natal Venus Pluto conjunction, her capacity to find beauty and value in herself and in the world around her (Venus) is going to work together with that Plutonian force for renewal and transformation. She won't be especially aware that these are two distinct functions as they are so closely entwined in her psyche. She may be obsessive about the things that she loves and values, and feeling the primitive and destructive power of Pluto moving within her, she may fear that others would find her unworthy and unlovable if they really knew her.

When she is around lots of people her own age, her expression of beauty, taste, affection, etc (or her inhibition in this area) may trigger the Pluto in others. Some might scapegoat her after projecting their own Plutonian drives onto her, and some might become very intrigued by her. And she might feel her Pluto energy more strongly around these people of her own age because they trigger it with theirs. So her inbuilt assumption that Venus interactions/experiences and Pluto issues go together will be reinforced. Those who have other planets in close aspect to their own Pluto, and thus her Venus and Pluto, are more likely engage with her Venus Pluto side (positively or negatively) and are more likely to attract her attention/love/fear.

She would need to own her power as consciously as possible, but also refrain from trying to manipulate others, in order to bring out the best of this aspect. She would need to disregard social values when exploring her feelings internally, but when deciding how to relate to others in the outer world she would need to be mindful of a possible ability/tendency to shock others. An intense relationship, getting into amateur dramatics, reading literature that is dramatic in some way, etc could serve as an outlet.

Ideally she would seek support from some kind of therapist - or teacher with a pastoral role - or anyone who could help her navigate any issues that arise. It can be difficult aspect, especially for an adolescent girl. The house placement of the conjunction should be considered carefully.

Best wishes

Miquar

Thank you for this, I've done a lot of research on this aspect but they all sort of said the same things. Also it's VERY accurate!
 
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