Dirius
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Arena remember that the methods, while accurate, are not "exact". And every chart is a bit different.
Also remember that these methods need to be updated to apply to our modern society. For example, bonatti lived in medieval Europe (13th century):
- Getting married "young" was getting married at age 13-17, for both male and female (although particularly for females). Getting married "old" could be considered from ages 25-30, and something like that.
- There was no divorce or breaking up in those times. A marriage was over when one of the spouses died. And in those time's with no proper medicine, simple complications could take someone's life, and people did die much younger, or for simpler causes than today.
So according to Bonatti's method someone could, perhaps, have like 4 husbands in their natal chart. Yet since, it is more likely that these "husbands" will be alive, its also likely those relationships will endure much longer.
Of course I am NOT talking about your particular case, just mentioning there are some stuff we need to take into consideration, so we can understand that the method, while extremely good, is not 100% accurate, because "marriage" in the traditional sense is not the same now (neither is age, life, work, etc).
Also remember that these methods need to be updated to apply to our modern society. For example, bonatti lived in medieval Europe (13th century):
- Getting married "young" was getting married at age 13-17, for both male and female (although particularly for females). Getting married "old" could be considered from ages 25-30, and something like that.
- There was no divorce or breaking up in those times. A marriage was over when one of the spouses died. And in those time's with no proper medicine, simple complications could take someone's life, and people did die much younger, or for simpler causes than today.
So according to Bonatti's method someone could, perhaps, have like 4 husbands in their natal chart. Yet since, it is more likely that these "husbands" will be alive, its also likely those relationships will endure much longer.
Of course I am NOT talking about your particular case, just mentioning there are some stuff we need to take into consideration, so we can understand that the method, while extremely good, is not 100% accurate, because "marriage" in the traditional sense is not the same now (neither is age, life, work, etc).
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