Shining Ray
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Here is the explanation of North Node in Cancer 1st House/South Node in Capricorn 7th House
by Kevin Burk (Can't you tell I have been buying Astrology books. )
Shining Ray
Here is the explanation of North Node in Cancer 1st House/South Node in Capricorn 7th House
by Kevin Burk (Can't you tell I have been buying Astrology books. )
With your South Node in Capricorn in the 7th house, you will encounter your South Node gifts of ambition, responsibility, and self-reliance through your relationships. One of the challenges of the 7th house, however, is that we tend to give away planets in this house, projecting them on others. You may feel you lack the Capricorn qualities, and therefore you tend to attract people into your life who embody them. Until you are able to accept the gifts of the South Node in Capricorn as being part of you, you will experiance and encounter them through your relationships. You may feel you lack the ability to be grounded, and responsible, and therefore you tend to attract and be attracted to people who embody these qualities. This can manifest as partners who are controlling and authoritarian, who seem emotionally distant, and who are rigid in their agenda. You must learn to recognize that these relationships are meant to teach you to own your South Node in Capricorn and to learn to maintain and establish your own interpersonal boundaries so that you won't have to be limited by those other people. The trap of the South Node in Capricorn in the 7th house is to buy into the illusions of these relationships, and to decide to become entirely self sufficient and not rely on the support of others for any reason; or to go to the opposite extreme and decide you will always need someone to take care of you and as a result never learn to take responsibility for your actions and your relationships.
Working with your North Node in Cancer in the 1st house can help you balance this energy. However we face a similar challenge with planets in the 1st house-while we tend to project the 7th house on others, we tend to overlook planets in the 1st house because they are such a fundamental part of who we are as an individual. With Cancer in your 1st house, you have a tremendous ability to nurture, and an ability and need to connect with others on an emotional level. You must first cultivate a greater awareness of this fact, and then begin to apply it to your relationships. Your partners may always be the ones who provide more of the boundaries and structures in your relationships, but you must learn to focus your ability to share emotional bonds within these relationships. Much of the important give and take in relationships has to do with being able to support and nurture each other on an emotional level. Maintaining an awareness of your South Node in Capricorn gifts can ensure you don't overdo the emotional aspects and become too needy or dependent on your partners, instead, you can discover the appropriate balance between individual responsibility and shared emotional needs.
Shining Ray