Mars is the planet which is most like the Ascendant... they are both associated with physical appearance and puting yourself forward. Neptune on the Ascendant maybe makes you soft? And confronted by domineering parents on the IC?
Yes, Iīm soft sometimes. Thatīs because Iīm a very harmonic human (I got a very mighty taurus venus).
The reason why I can handle myself and find an order is because I got saturn in the asc too.
"Domineering parents in the IC".
Iīm the dominant one in my house.
Why wonīt we write our planet signs in a post? For knowing eachother better =)
Here they are:
Sun, mercury, moon: GEM.
Saturn, uranus, neptune: CAP.
Jupiter, chiron: CAN.
Pluto, lilith: Scorpio.
I find when I am tired I allow insecurity to take control. Feel that either i have offended or that I am rejected somehow... This works in sexual level as well... if i am really tired or depressed it has a physical manifestation, which can maybe the source of some of the anxieties with sex.
In this case, you have to really consider this awesome key word: RELAXATION.
The natural state of things around us is movement, flowing motion. If you constraint and get tense, you will have a neurotic emotion constipation. If you slow down the motion, then the pain will never go.
Relexation is a war tool. Once the mind is cool, the big surprise will be to discover how easy was to resolve the problems.
You did say physical manifestation. At getting tired you feel insecure, right? And when you feel insecure, you start to fearing that same thing and finally you get tense.
Your body gets tense, still or restrained. Thatīs why you feel thereīs a physical consecuence.
Thatīs when you order your body to relax. And as the body gets relaxed, you will find your ideas getting clearer.
Is very good to have the body and the mind balanced, because there is when you feel them integrated to eachother and you can work with your body. Doing what you want.
You said something about this in previous posts.
(waiting for your reply)