As I look over his chart now, a thought that comes to mind for me is, if Shawn were still able-bodied, the two of you -- it seems -- might really get under each other's skin! he's got that Capricorn stuff squaring all your Aries planets, and then he's a Taurus Sun, which is just so different from you with your Arieis/ Gemini mix!
Do his Earthy planets make you feel completed, or does it drive you crazy that he's so pokey and slow (or at least, his chart says he would be pokey and slow)?
Pokey and slow...I love it! My brother is such a Taurus, autistic or not! :mrgreen:
Even when my brother and I were infants, my mother was able to sense these differences in our personalities and temperments; while I was a somewhat fussy child and constantly needed attention, Shawn was easy-going and could be left alone for long periods of time. He hated to see me cry and would immediatley stick a pacifier in my mouth as soon as I showed signs of distress; he'd even give up his toys if he thought it would make me happy! If that's not love, I don't know what is!