[Emmy]

Does anyone know much about Chiron's effect on relationships (synastry)? Would another person with their natal Chiron conjunct your Sun heal you or wound you? (I have natal Chiron conjunct my natal Sun within an orb of 5 degrees,and my friend's Chiron is only 1 degree from my Sun.) He could help matters in my profession or hurt them,I guess (in that I would say the greatest wound of my life has been not to be able to be involved in music for many years due to a long illness which caused me not to have the strength,energy,or concentration available for it-- I did finally get well and become involved in music again and became a much better teacher for having the experience although I'm still a little socially "flat" because of a tremendous loss of confidence in myself and life in general; healing is still in process,I suppose).My friend who is also a professional musician could be very supportive in the long run or on the other hand just be a constant reminder of what I lost--he has had a long,successful and uninterrupted career-- and make me more accutely aware of it rather than allowing me to continue "adjusting" to performing again,knowing that it will never be "what it could have been". How should I think of this aspect with my friend?
Does it heal or harm in relationships? Thanks!--Emmy