Shining Ray, wow, many thanks for such indepth input! I've printed it out to have a read later. At first glance many things here I've actually seen already when we were together before - Uranus in 7th one of the main factors I couldnt handle before. Uranus being something you just cannot control, and me being a bit of a control freak with my bright Capricorn Sun!
Rahu, many thanks very much for your analysis. This Uranus on 7th - it always felt unstable, maybe thats why we split up before, as well as things outside our control. And the Chiron on Ascendant, lots of the critisism came from me!
He does seem to be making the effort to charm me again, and I'm responding in a warm way, some Jupiter influence.
Moon/Saturn conjunction in composite and synastry does give a very stable feeling that I think we both like. I'm wondering whether my Saturn in his 12house might make him feel a little uncomfortable? Especially since my Saturn squares my Pluto - maybe he might feel a little overpowered by me?
And I'm also very curious what it means when my Saturn sxact trines his Chiron? Could this be something to do with fatherhood issues? He is a single father.