Originally Posted by VenusInAries
Thank you for your frankness Cat, as you can tell I'm sure my mars in sag prefers and respects directness.
Yes I have seen these things, worried about these things, but there also has to be some other stuff going on there is a very strong pull for both of us, very strong love for both of us. That keeps pulling us together. Do I worry about that you bet.
Also just to throw out there as a possiblity. When Saturn transits my moon in that ooogly opposition, I'm sure to expect depression. I have suffered from that time to time. And when I was younger tried several times to hurt myself. So I wonder too could those transits that will be affecting both of us; could the possiblity be he becomes angry and has an outburst and I kill myself? Then his Saturn return in the 8th house could be him experiencing a painful death; I do know he loves me deeply. Just throwing that out there instead of him hurting me. Or I mean Saturn conjuncts his saturn in the 8th house, it will be conjunct my pluto and moving into the 12th house for me, I'm not a violent person but what if I hurt him and saturn in the 12 house is jail..confinement. Sorry just throwing that out there because there is another person involved here that's not speaking up for themselves and want to be fair that maybe he is not the one that directly hurts me or even hurts me at all.
But I did send you our birth info, I am very grateful and open to hearing all that you have to share. ::big hug::
I got your message. Here's a new technique that I am using and may prove to be more explanatory than others. First of all, your Saturn is in the 12th, but it's also in its JOY.
I don't know about him, I don't know who he is and what he's after which is why it's hard for me to say. Considering your Mars squares HIS Saturn in 8th, that looks like you making him mad and him hurting you in response to that.
Saturn opposition Moon comes out as depression a lot of times, but it doesn't have to be that way if you haven't done anything to deserve it. It gets lonely, it gets sad, memories come back. You only get sucked in if you let yourself.
I had Saturn square my Sun, Moon, Mercury, and Pluto. Ive also experienced Saturn oppositions. Both experiences stripped me of many things I worked for. In fact, they were both 2 of the most dark periods of my life. I almost drowned during a vacation, but luckily it was my Jupiter return and someone saw my arms from out of the water and pulled me out.
I want you to understand that this is serious. You're putting your life on the risk, and you're trusting this guy with your heart and soul after speaking to him for 1 year. You need to wrap yourself up in friends, don't isolate yourself. Take on a new hobby. Join a gym, start a new class.
The new technique I was talking about was the whole house system. That puts his Saturn in the 8th. It's part of a very angry, violent, deadly t-square that falls in his 8th house.
I received your messages and i looked at the charts. You have some basic compatibility that a couple should have, but not nearly enough for me to tell you that you belong together. It's just not true.
Consider your Sun opposite his Saturn, for one. His Sun happens to be opposite your Saturn as well. I am sure he likes your Aries Venus a lot, but you're for love and closure and he's looking someone to *****. He's an Aqua ascendant - which points to detachment. Furthermore. his Scorp Sun is square his ascendant.
He's got an Aries Moon - conjunct your Venus. He was to g-e-t i-t o-n.
I think that the only reason you're getting into this is because your history is getting at you with the upcoming Saturn opposition to your Moon.
Please, rethink what you're wanting to do. If you associate yourself with new groups of people I am sure you'll be able to score yourself a good man IN PERSON.
Luck and Best Wishes, and also will get back to you. Stay strong!