[Claire19]

Originally Posted by Skillcoil

An older cousin of mine has Mars in Sagittarius rx conjunct Neptune in Scorpio rx in the 8th house. She gets along well with others, and I'm not sure if she has sex appeal, but her worry over having a family might prevent her from positively using this conjunction.

She tried to be the "fun cousin" but also "serious and strict" towards me. What concerned me was that twice she had me steal something. Once when I was a kid, she told me to grab a soda from a refrigerator in a store and that it was fine for me to drink it indoors, then we would pay later. We were in another country so I thought the rules were different, once we got near the counter, she said "quickly, throw it away!", I was like "what?" and I threw it out. I can't remember if she bought something else, I was confused. When I later tried to discuss this with her, she seemed shocked and in disbelief, she thought I was joking and said it never happened.

I wonder how those with Mars/Neptune aspects interact wiith others who also have Mars/Neptune aspects.

I have Mars in Aries rx 1st house square Neptune in Capricorn 11th house. I don't think I'm alluring, and I'm not photogenic, I rarely take pictures. I either look better or worse, different from how I really look. Actually I knew someone else who had Mars square Neptune as well. We were considered losers in high school, (both also have Venus in the 7th house, as if that makes sense). I think once we dated, a few people realized how attractive he was and began to compliment him. It might have been his friendly attitude towards them as well though.

If Mars/Neptune contacts, especially the conjunction are alluring, would it be something that comes naturally or based on how you perceive/project yourself?

In your cousin's case in different signs it is a dissociate conjunction and therefore weaker. It may be out of orb. What degree???

Your Mars square Neptune swayed you to go along with the theft and it is a difficult aspect that needs to be handled carefully. You were hoodwinked into it shall we say and you need to watch being persuaded for ill. It is the conjunctions and the easier aspects that make for glamour and attraction.