OK Vesta, here we go:
Suns are compatible
Mercury could be challenging, you are stubborn, he is more flexible.
Venus: not compatible. He is much more caring, motherly, you are more in for excitement.
Mars: compatible but in both cases there are issues (quick to anger, acting out when emotionally feeling insecure).
Jupiters are incompatible, his in fire., yours in Virgo and both are conjunct
Saturn: His is on a critical degree in Scorpio, yours also in a critical degree but in Aries. (29°). Incompatible.
The slower planets do not play a role here.
Keep in mind as well that you have 5 planets in Earth and only 2 in Water elements.
He has 4 planets in Water and just 1 in Earth. He is far more emotionally inclined than you, much more the caring type, more of a homely man.
I hope this explanation reaches you. I don't know if you will look at your profile and it's messages. I hope so. All the very best! Starlink