Hi all. I'm sun conj mercury in the eighth, in Libra. and Aquarius rising.
Strangely enough ( or not), I don't think consciously about that aspect of my chart as much as other issues. It's more unspoken , perhaps, in various subtle but /powerful ways.? I identify much more with my airiness, I guess.
I've always been a bit reserved socially, till I know people, , also have venus square saturn.. but 4 planets in leo..!

(I'm not all doom and gloom - but can have trouble sometimes getting people to see 'the real me').
I have intense brooding feelings at times that are hard to put my finger on. Also, I, too, often don't fit in with those around me - , and my libra sun wants to connect between different groups and approaches. and also is not at home in the 8th, arguably.
Fyrefly - according to Stephen Arroyo , yes you can most definitely interpret a planet as being in the house it's near, if that feels right. He says , if it walks and quacks like a duck, - it is a duck!!