Should I contact him? Consequences, if I do?

[Moondance]

I refused a Scorpio male on a sexual issue, and if you know any, you know this pisses them off mightily. He will not call or answer an email. It's been a month, and I was thinking of trying to budge/nudge him into not taking it so seriously and being friendly again. Probably not possible with a sun/moon/mars/Neptune in Scorpio, but I really like him, and you know, the usual story. Here's the chart. I use Mars in Gemini as his significator a la Frawley, and note it is in his turned 3rd house of communications. Moi, as Venus in Cap angular in the 4th. No contact, no reception from his end, so it looks like a "NO" pretty clearly. It just bugs me that the point of fortune is in his 3rd house with his significator. Should I discount this and take the "NO" or is there someting I'm missing? Thanks
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[Moondance]

Well, nobody took a shot at it. Being bullheaded, I went ahead and did it, anyway. We'll have to wait and see if there are any interesting consequences.:D

[Moondance]

What do you mean "contact his mate and see if he can do anything to helP"? He's not married, and especially not to a "he"! Oh for heaven's sake- you mean a friend of his. LOL:D

Thanks for your reading, but you know what? I don't care how much I like somebody, if I find something demeaning, I'm not doin' it!!!!! :eek: Sex is a funny thing, isn't it? People have such different ideas of what's OK and what isn't. Thanks again.