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12-10-2007, 05:43 PM
12-10-2007, 06:16 PM
Is our AC in each others 5th and 7th significant pls? :)
12-10-2007, 08:16 PM
l am attracted to this guy online but l don't wanna even contemplate meeting him UNLESS you lovely astrologers give me the thumbs up!...he's really interesting...and i'm so bored with meeting/chatting to boring men that put my aries stellium into a coma
Regardless of how anyone replies, make sure you meet this person on "neutral ground" and that he doesn't follow you home if you don't "hit it off". Stalkers and everything else hang about online looking for their victims.
Now, with the obvious out of the way...here are my thoughts. He has a few Mars (being, also anger) oppositions to you, which could indicate he could get angry with you. Since Mercury (thinking, also talking) is involved, watch out for arguments. His Saturn (duty, also structure) opposes (energy is over-excited by) your Uranus, so you may rebel against his "structured" point of view.
Just be aware that the things which make him "non-boring" online might make him difficult to get along with in real life! If you BOTH are willing to work through your difficulties, this could work out.
Working it out,
12-11-2007, 03:20 AM
You might want to take a look at your respective Juno signs. They look pretty compatible to me, yours in Scorpio and his in Cancer...I have been doing a bit of research looking at past relationships and can definitely see a trend. This is a good link: http://www.fatewatch.com/women/juno.htm .
I have done a fair bit of online dating and I would suggest that you go ahead and meet him. I found that by communicating too long online, you can build up unrealistic expectations, and then when you meet you may find there just isn't any spark...which can be really disappointing. One additional note of caution...One guy I met online, turned out to be married...I found out after dating him 1.5 months. I asked him on the firsat date and he said he had never been married. Interestingly he had no planets in my 12th house.
Looks like his mars in Scorpio/and your Mars in Taurus could prove to be a passionate attraction. On the other hand you may find the opposite because there are no Venus - Mars connections by aspects. Or Mars/Mars connections by aspect.
I like his Sun/Mercury in Pisces-your Sun/Mercury in Taurus connection. I am guessing the conversation will work in person very well also.
I just noticed his Venus in Aries. A very good friend of mine, an Aries dated a Pisces male with Venus in Aries. I don't have his chart details anymore. She played the game, made him wait...the whole nine yards...they dated 3 weeks, seeing each other almost daily. When she finally slept with him...he totally lost interest, almost immediately...I looked into this a bit and read that men with Venus in Aries like the chase almost too much...not that every guy is going to be that way...just something to watch for.
This is what www.astrology-numerology.com (http://www.astrology-numerology.com) has to say about Sun in 12th house.
Sun 12th house The placement of the Sun in twelfth house of a partner's chart suggests a somewhat intuitive ability to communicate. You are well "tuned in" to him, and there is a somewhat subconscious connection. You may be something of a "help-mate" to the other, especially with regard to understanding life as a whole. Frequently, this placement brings a complete change of perspective to this person whose twelfth house is visited." and Mercury in 12th house:
Mercury 12th house Mercury in partner's twelfth house denotes a mutual interest in the hidden or the occult, psychology, or perhaps even creative endeavors. When Mercury falls in the twelfth house there is a special interest in the partner's attitude toward life in general, and with this a special understanding of this partner's vulnerable points, placing this Mercury native in a position to give helpful advice. If aspects are unfavourable, however, this advice giving may be resented.
Anyway, that's my 2 cents worth :-) Let us know how it goes!
12-11-2007, 08:56 AM
go girl.......good luck be careful and be safe!.............I know your aries stellium will look after you well
12-12-2007, 10:10 AM
Thank Tim - not sure l like those angry Mars oppositions - last thing l need is another angry relationship! I really need to find the anger that l must have stored up inside me that is making me attract angry men!! :)
Hi Fannie - thanks for your post. Is My Venus semi-sextile his Mars not an aspect? :( If not, l agree no aspects is not a good sign, although Venus/moon is a good one l think! I like the Juno article, thank you! :)
Yes, l can relate to the Venus in Aries "like the chase" aspect TOO MUCH, being a venus/aries girlie myself :D :D it's a real bummer !
Will get back to you on the rest ... have to run out now to do some errands before school run!
LG - hehe don't you just know it ;) It will look after me. Big hug to ya xx
the composite does have some "peasy" aspects.thje jupiter/mars conjunction trine to the moon/saturn/sun stellium does indicate a high degree of compatability.tyhe mercury/venus midpoint conjunct the sun show a congenial and joyous emotional and mental interplay.it is easy and fun to talk together.
the mars/venus midpoint square the juno/pluto conjunction certainly could be the intense sexual attraction you imply exist.a strange combination as the pluto tends to emphacize the physical component while the juno brings in more nurturing and caring characteristics.
the venus/chiron midpoint conjunct the moon/saturn conjunction brings a interesting edge to the relationship.it gives a kind of tit for tat emotional interaction,that is a bit of pointed criticism but done in good spirit.still there seems to be a edge where you both don't let the other get the advantage.
12-13-2007, 06:42 PM
Thank you Rahu for your analysis... I think l like peasy composites!
So no nasty aspects then? cool!!!
the composite does have some "peasy" aspects.thje jupiter/mars conjunction trine to the moon/saturn/sun stellium does indicate a high degree of compatability.tyhe mercury/venus midpoint conjunct the sun show a congenial and joyous emotional and mental interplay.it is easy and fun to talk together. WOW that sounds lovely.. nothing worse than when someone doesn't understand you is there?
the mars/venus midpoint square the juno/pluto conjunction certainly could be the intense sexual attraction you imply exist.a strange combination as the pluto tends to emphacize the physical component while the juno brings in more nurturing and caring characteristics.[quote]
Do you mean that there is a intense sexual energy but with lots of cuddling attached to it? :D
[quote=rahu] the venus/chiron midpoint conjunct the moon/saturn conjunction brings a interesting edge to the relationship.it gives a kind of tit for tat emotional interaction,that is a bit of pointed criticism but done in good spirit.still there seems to be a edge where you both don't let the other get the advantage.
So are you saying Rahu that this "edge" will keep us on our toes, so to speak? I am worried about our venus/aries's and us becoming bored in breakneck speed :eek:
yes i think the relationship will have a enduring spark.
the juno/pluto could be a bit confusing.if working well then ,yes sexual intensity and emotional security.but id askew,then a possibilty of alternating states of closeness vs distance.
12-13-2007, 08:16 PM
Oh no!!! A kind of Uranus playing peek-a-boo.
wow. You know i'm so excited that l actually found someone whom is compatible with me LOL :D:D:D
It's like playing the lottery with a 14million to 1 chance. Thanks Rahu :p
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