Who am I in his life?

[Moondance]

It's not quite clear if this is the right section for this question, but I put it here since I guess I am looking for a spiritual answer to guide me. I have a difficult, emotional relationship with this man, difficult since emotion and personal sensitivities often collide. We have known eachother many years and seem to stumble on intimate communication. My question reflects my confusion over whether I represent anything significant to his life development or not. I was not surprised, therefore to see myself signified by Mercury. Since I follow Frawley in relationship issues, he is Jupiter (Lord 7). However, I'm puzzled by my placement in his turned 10th house. What could this mean?I have no effect on his professional status, or public life. The moon represents the querent(me) near Saturn in his turned 7th, maybe showing our intense emotionality, constricted by Saturn? I am concerned about the weak retro Mars in his 5th- weak egos at work? Help is appreciated.

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