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[lolomo]

Hi everyone

This composite chart is of my boyfriend and I. We've been together for nearly 2 yrs. 9 months ago, we moved to another part of the world together. We met at work.

Him: Born 4 sept 81 2 am in whangarei New Zealand
Me: Born 5 sept 79 7:25 pm in Northampton, UK

I am really interested in hearing what others think when looking at the chart, it is just general interest more than anything else!
There seem to be quite a few Chiron contacts in our synastry and composite charts. I have read about some aspects, but I cannot do predictive astrology and am not good (or experienced) enough to get a general feeling of charts.

Thanks, it would be much appreciated!!!

[rahu]

hi lolomo,
this reply may not be what you want but......
you seem to be totally in love with him.he makes you tingle when he touches you and your sexual relationship is intense ,off the scale.
he seems to be devoted to you.
mercury/jupitwer conjunction indicates a good intellectual relationship with talk of marriage in the indistinct future.but neptune is square this conjunction,whcih usually indicates that there are hidden motives and possibly outright deceit.the saturn/sun midpoint conjunct jupiter indicates that he is actually very resistant to marriage or a biding relationship.the saturn/chiron midpoint is conjunct to mars which indicates that he is domineering and always wants it his way.this domination is also indicates by the saturn/pluto midpoint square the moon.again indicating he wants it his way.this aspect also shows that you are a times very desponent and lonely in the relationship as there is not a spontaneous flow of emotions except during sex.this relationship seems to keep your either very high or very low.but thiese extremes are not good for normal emotional growth.
the saturn/sextile mars indicates that he is very competent in practical matters but the sun/saturn midpoint conjunct jupiter shows he has financial problems due to extravagance or dissapative habits.
you ,on the other hand ,with the moon/jupiter midpoint at midheaven,have sound finances and may be footing most of the bills.
this relationship seems to have a psychic quality to it.it seems you can read each other minds and answer questions before that are spoken.but this also indicates that one mind takes over the other .in this case,it seems that he can control you opinions and thoughts to coincide with his desires.i would think that whenever you have differences in opinions,that his view always wins.
in closing i feel he is manipulating you through your mind and through sexuality.
he is being deceptive and a marriage or longterm relationship will not occur unless you always bicken to his whims.there is a healing energy in the relationship ,which makes me think that you were treated badly in another relationship and this one has provided a soothing and secure feeling to you.
rahu

[lolomo]

Dear Rahu,
Thank you so much for having a look. I can relate to lots of what is said.
My partner is very strong willed and does want is his way. He is also dominant and competitive!. I as well am quite stubborn, albeit less than he is. But I am not a doormat if that was your concern. You are right about the intensity; it is definitely there. It does consume me more than him. The deceit, I cannot see, he is very down to earth and if anyone is secretive, it would be me. Also, he is very good at his finances (not a big spender) and I am quite bad.
It is true that I feel good about this relationship in a past-healing sense but more the sense of stability it gives me. He is the more grounded one. He is not going anywhere (I feel). I guess it makes me feel comfortable that I am the rebellious one in the relationship. It is however true that the flow of emotions isn't always smooth. I am spontaneous whereas he has inhibitions showing emothions and being spontaneous. In a month orso I will have my own means of getting around (have been depending on him as I had no car/licence, not good!), so I am interested to see how that goes. I have not really sensed manipulation but perhaps I will when I regain my freedom? I have seen small sparks of it but I think with me have been around him alot over the past months, It has not needed expressing.
But well, you are right about lots of it, allthough I wonder what sort of deceit you mean because I really honestly don't see that. (realising deceit is always invisible in the beginning to the deceited)
In a way I was a little surprised as I'd expected more positive stuff as it is not all bad and it is also a strong relationship. But by no means calm and quiet! Thanks so much for your time& effort, I really appreciate it!

Kind Regards!