What does it imply?

[Boodica]

Hi, my knowledge of transits is very limited. I've been warned that forthcoming 7th house transits to my chart and my boyfriends in Mar 08 could spell trouble.

Can anyone please advise what I may expect from these transits as it sounds so ominous... :confused:

Many thanks.

[smilingsteph]

Hi!
Could you give your charts with the transits...I am a visual person that way I could see what is where in 2008.
What did you hear that was so bad?
I hope it is not...
Thanks

[Boodica]

Smilingstef, thanks for getting back to me so quickly. I've attached the transit charts and hope they're legible.

Apparently there will be many confrontations - which is obviously a worry. I haven't got any information as to what transits are involved, so any wisdom you have to offer will be gratefully received.

Kind regards,
Boodica

[smilingsteph]

Well if anyone sees that I am wrong please correct me
It looks like your b-friend is going to have a lot of his time and energy in the placement of his social status between his friends and career. He might even go back to school or focus on becoming stronger in his field of work.

You on the other hand are focused more on your children (if you have them, if not you might want to have some), fun, creativity (lots of fifth house transits). You are also going through a mid-life transit of sorts (40-41 years of age). Neptune squares your natal neptune making your decisions in life a bit clouded. Any transit leads a person down a path to making a firm decision, but with this transit it can cloud your perception of the problem leading you to making rash decisions that you may not usually choose.
How to battle:

Slow down, physically and mentally
Stay away from drugs, including resisting the temptation to use prescription drugs to numb your feelings during this time of life
Acknowledge that you have no control in life and that you must let the Divine/the Universe work in its own time and its own way.
Focus on developing, exploring and enriching your spiritual life
Do not make any significant decisions
Take up a watersport – swimming, sailing, waterskiing, surfing
Ask yourself what you can do in this hour, this day, this week (make a list of small things you can accomplish, such as home projects
Read inspirational material
Journal and reflect upon your dreamsThis is also a time for you to become creative and do something you like to do, I emphasize you. You have the fifth house packed and you have this transit, leading to increased creativity and thoughts about things that you want to do for fun.

Saturn is transitting his seventh house. This could mean that he wants to re-evaluate his relationships and either become more committed or less committed. So it seems that he is going to really be focused on working, job matters, social placements and status and you want to focus on fifth house matters.
Also dont let things stress you out. You have a sun that is in watery pisces and you have neptune square neptune, in the sixth house which can lead to stress on your body and taking in substances such as medications can cloud your perceptions even more.
Your north node is transitting your seventh house. You might increase your personal relationships with others by new interactions and such. You might want more of a committment from relationships.
I hope I have helped.

[Boodica]

Smiling Steph thank you for taking the time to provide such a detailed response. You have helped.

So is it a fair assumption that these transits can imply either an increased commitment between us or a divide?

[smilingsteph]

When you were told that there would be some major events taking place what were you told?
I think that you both are going into different directions, but with your neptune in the position it is in you might take things out of context and overanalyze the situation with clouded judgement. I think it would be best to see this one out and wait a little to see where the relationship is going, without making any decisions yet. I guess I am interested more in your north node, I dont know much about the nodes as there are many books out to read up on them, it may indicate you might find a new relationship or meet new people that will influence you. It would be good to see what others think about this. I am just reading up on transits and trying to figure them out myself let alone do it as a synastry thing.
Are you both having problems now?

[Boodica]

We're not having problems. However, we split 16 years ago (he ended it) and re-united 6 months ago. It's feels intense but positive. We both feel it's karmic and are afraid of losing eachother again.

The information I was given is below, but with a limited knowledge of transits, I'm simply freaked out;

The Feb 08 Lunar elipse in Aqua 24 (almost exact on my DC) I'm trying to understand the implication...a crisis?

He has Uranus in Leo (detriment) in 7th house...maybe this is activated?

In addition:
March 08 both you and your boyfriend may experience many events relating to your 7th house of relationships, power plays confrontations

I'm attempting to expand my knowledge...but my mind is working over-time.

Thank you for pointing out the Neptune position. Perhaps I am analyzing too much.:confused:

[Boodica]

Thanks for your kind words Smiling Steph. I found this link which may interest you regarding Nodes. http://www.moonvalleyastrologer.com/moon_nodes.htm

[Lin]

I see both core issues here and also transit issues.
The core issue is that you see to be very partner oriented, needing another person in your life for many reasons, preferably one who will stay forever.
He has Uranus in his 7th house, opposing Venus in the first. They both square his Neptune in Scorpio... he is not as committed to the idea of "forever' as you are. He also has 3 planets working for or in the 12th house of secrets.
Now....Transitting Jupiter may cause a crisis to ensue. Why? Because he has Sun, Merc, and Moon all in Capricorn, the sign Jupiter will enter in December. The activity will take place mostly in the 12th house.
At the same time Jupiter, and then Pluto, will both square your Saturn and oppose your moon....These are very disruptive transits.
I see your chart is rectified.... if it is a "true" chart, then the issues are "values" and "goals." You need to figure out how your innermost value system and goal orientation may be different from his.
Two people either walk the same path toward the same goals or they don't. You can't "make" it happen. We are born with our values and although they might morph over time, they don't change because we want them to or because of another person.
Values are a big issue. And that means all things valuable. Sex, money, time, valuables, independence, spirit.... everything you own that you can either give away, get, take, earn, desire. When two people don't have the same values, there is a core issue that almost never gets solved.

If a person says he wants certain things, but uses his time, energy, money, etc, to get different things than he says he wants, then he is not being honest. Watch his actions. Those won't lie. Unfortunately, he is good a misdirection and knows how to be dishonest in his ways of doing things. This may be conscious or unconscious. We often are deceitful to ourselves most of all.
You seem to have a lot of history. I think you need to honestly examine this relationship and focus on the real issues. What you want. What he wants. Can you get your needs met and your goals achieved in this relationship, and can HE. For this you and he need to communicate openly.

This may not be easy because your Mercury trines his Neptune and he finds it easy to not be straight with you. His Mars squares your Mercury so if you DO take a stand and want honest communication, he might use anger or misdirection or intimidation to throw you off the track.

Sorry to tell you these things, because it sounds so difficult to deal with... but you did ask.
If you feel I'm way off the track on anything I said, let me know.
LIN

[smilingsteph]

Oh great find!!! Did you read the transits between the seventh house north node and the first house south node....marriage or finding someone else to lean on....
Interesting...
Lin is really great, she was pretty right on with one of my questions on the forum...
I found Neptune to be a big issue in a chart of me and anothers...which led to not necessarily lies to me, but him not wanting to be honest with his feelings..he was also very secretive about what he was doing and saying to me..not that it was a cheating thing, but I dont think he was ever really honest to himself, so what Lin said is true about us not being honest with us to begin with...if that cannot happen then we cannot be honest in a relationship..
When you think about the fact that you have been together six months around march would be almost a year...and that lovely honeymoon phase tends to leave the relationship so it just may be a thing you both have to work on...
It is good to know these things now so that if and when these issues arise you know what you want and wont budge with the strong value system you have established for yourself
Good luck- and thanks for the wonderful site!!!