Is this relationship doomed?

[M_cutter]

Singapore
16 September 07
5:23PM
Cancerian
Partner is aries

I am very very keen to learn but I am so new to this. I've been reading online alot about natal and horary chart. But could you please guide me on this for now? I have a very pressing question. The guy I asked you about has left for the another country and my intuition was so right cos I believed that he would fall for someone else and he did. (he is so bad to deal with loneliness) As his impulsive nature is. It has happened before be he always comes back to me after he realised that I am still the one he loves. The story is complicated, she went to visit him, it was the very first time they met. And instantly he felt a connection and they slept together. Then he said he felt really remorseful for having hurt me but this girl is special. Yet, he doesnt' want to give her any promises and commitment so he is still single and she has left the country already. Now my question is, "Do you think I still stand a chance to have him back from this girl?" I really miss him alot and throughout my life, i never felt i wanted to commit to a relationship until I met him. :( But still I am feeling shortchanged.

[Buttercup]

Although I looked at your charts I really didn't need to. Don't waste one more second on this creep. Do you really want to end up at home with three kids while mister impulsive is out sleeping around? You are young with your whole life ahead of you! I am a Cancer too and I know how hard it is to let go, but there is not a happy ending in sight with this guy!

[M_cutter]

Hi
THanks for the reply! I need a wake up call. Being a cancerian it has always been so hard to let go, especially this guy has been my best friend for 4 years and we've been together for 2 years so 6 years of knowing him! I don't think I've ever given this much in any other r.s, he has helped me alot to come out of my shell as well, given me much confidence than before. Thanks for the advice but since you said you did analyse the charts, can you just tell me what you see? I am still curious about the way our relationship went.

[M_cutter]

HI can you help me compare his chart with this girl's chart too?

[Buttercup]

You and your BF? have a lot of conjunctions. What this means is that you have a lot of things in common, think about things similarly, and probably come from the same background. However, you have sun sq. sun and venus sq. venus. Squares are particularly difficult because if someone is opposite of you you can look them in the eyes and know that they are opposite. If someone comes at you from the side you may not see them coming. Which is probably what happened with this other girl. It blindsided you. You also both have Mars in Libra which makies you both a little passive aggressive. So, instead of just breaking up with you your BF? decided to cheat on you and then put it in your lap. Fortunately for you this new girl has some trines (some squares too) with your BF? so hopefully they will stay together and you can find someone who deserves you. ;)