Slothie
08-05-2007, 05:33 PM
*EDIT*
I just (with a lot of help) managed to do a chart of our first meeting, but finding it difficult to understand the numerical values and keys... could I ask someone to look over it, it's in my images and is public. I'm really sorry i couldn't work out how to put it directly on the thread...
Anyone know where I can have one done?
Or could anyone point me in the right direction of doing one?
I met this man in South West London, on the 9th of June, between 7:30 and 8:00pm. (We met incredibly randomly at an Irish dance event in a church Hall in a part of London that's pretty rural) I've worked out that I need at least that much information. His birthday is 27th of October 1982, and mine is 9th of July 1987.
And I don't know what on earth is going on, so I thought that I's have a look at the stars to make sense of it. We adopted the behaviours of a pretty stable couple... well we didn't. We just are stable and pleasantly synchonised. Getting to know each other was just arbitary, and a nice addition to our outings but really we're just happy to sit and joke, walk around, or observe each other. When we're in each other's company it's as though we've become a stable compound.
However he's not free, about a month or so in, I found out from an aquaintance on his part, and friend on mine. And I had to question him about his girlfriend. And since the only time he talks about her is when I bring her up. We had been seeing each other, and communicating via calls, and texts on an almost daily basis. And though he never brought up his girlfriend until I mentioned her, he has infact told his girlfriend about me, and how I feel about him. I don't understand why he is sabotaging himself in this way, he's said that he doesn't want to leave her, yet his behaviour is fairly destructive. I have since told him that I want to avoid him awhile, figuring that something decisive needs to occur.
I'd really like to see if a first meeting chart could shed any light on where this is all headed.
I just (with a lot of help) managed to do a chart of our first meeting, but finding it difficult to understand the numerical values and keys... could I ask someone to look over it, it's in my images and is public. I'm really sorry i couldn't work out how to put it directly on the thread...
Anyone know where I can have one done?
Or could anyone point me in the right direction of doing one?
I met this man in South West London, on the 9th of June, between 7:30 and 8:00pm. (We met incredibly randomly at an Irish dance event in a church Hall in a part of London that's pretty rural) I've worked out that I need at least that much information. His birthday is 27th of October 1982, and mine is 9th of July 1987.
And I don't know what on earth is going on, so I thought that I's have a look at the stars to make sense of it. We adopted the behaviours of a pretty stable couple... well we didn't. We just are stable and pleasantly synchonised. Getting to know each other was just arbitary, and a nice addition to our outings but really we're just happy to sit and joke, walk around, or observe each other. When we're in each other's company it's as though we've become a stable compound.
However he's not free, about a month or so in, I found out from an aquaintance on his part, and friend on mine. And I had to question him about his girlfriend. And since the only time he talks about her is when I bring her up. We had been seeing each other, and communicating via calls, and texts on an almost daily basis. And though he never brought up his girlfriend until I mentioned her, he has infact told his girlfriend about me, and how I feel about him. I don't understand why he is sabotaging himself in this way, he's said that he doesn't want to leave her, yet his behaviour is fairly destructive. I have since told him that I want to avoid him awhile, figuring that something decisive needs to occur.
I'd really like to see if a first meeting chart could shed any light on where this is all headed.