Not getting married till

[Circe]

I went to an astrologer when I was younger, and he told me that I`ll not "settle" down at love matters till I will be 30 years old. I cannot say that this makes me a little bit sad, because I`m not a freedom fan and I really like being with someone seriously, in fact, I`m coupling since two years and I`m 22 so that`s pretty much.
Could anyone tell me where did that astrologer got that information? I thought about Saturn because of it`s 29 years transit. but I canot see much of love issues there.

Is that true? He told me it`s was too possible :(

(my natal chart is in my profile, if that graphic is not enough here are my natal information:

April 6th 1985
1:47 am
Buenos Aires, Argentina

[Virinchi]

jimena
you've 3 retro planets mercury,venus,saturn
all retro planets will slow down their effects and only give them after testing your patience
SAT being retro will delay it further
ideally, you should find the BEST partner between 2012-15

[Circe]

Does this ALWAYS happen? Because I`m pretty sad thinking that any couple I choose before 2012 will not be the correct for me :(

[Virinchi]

venus affliction and retro will delay but thats the way it has to go
decison making will be afflicted till that time coz ascendant lord is retro too

[wilsontc]

Circe,

You are the master of your life and your chart: your chart is not the master of you. If you take a chance with someone and it doesn't work out, then it doesn't work out. But if you let some astrologer keep you hostage to their readings of how they think things SHOULD work out for you, you could end up missing out on a lot of opportunities! Good luck to the two of you, and may you soon settle down and show up that astrologer's nasty predictions! :)

Rebelliously relating,

Tim

[Carole]

Circe:

You have several indicators which could make marriage difficult or delayed for you:

- Moon was going from the full to the new when you were born.
- Sun, Venus and Mars are below the horizon.
- Saturn is in Scorpio, and it's retrograde.
- South Node in Scorpio.
- Sun is in 3rd. house.
- Venus afflicted by Sun and Neptune.

Remember that the stars incline, they do not oblige. You are very young, so relax and don't worry about your relationships too much. Enjoy your life as it comes. That's my best advise.:)

[Lissa]

I just wanted to chime in to say that an astrologer said the exact same thing to me,not a very long time ago-that I should not marry before I'm28.

He didn't say why,he said I would understand it later on,and since I'm only16,not thinking about getting married anytime soon and enjoy a little bit of mystery and unpredictability in my life I didn't bother asking lol.But it is indeed a very curious thing to say.

Kind regards,
Lissa

[Circe]

My problem it`s not thinking about marriage now because I`d love it but is not a drama for sure... the real problem is to think that I`m not with the right person now when I`m really happy with him.

[freedomlover]

Circe,

You wrote:
My problem it`s not thinking about marriage now because I`d love it but is not a drama for sure... the real problem is to think that I`m not with the right person now when I`m really happy with him
If you are happy with the person you are with now - if he is good to you, and you feel fulfilled in many ways, then this is who you need to be with now. Time may change things, and you may eventually grow apart as a couple, but if you are spiritually mature about it, you will remain friends, and there will be no hard feelings. OR you may be with him the rest of your life - who knows?

My advice is to stay in the NOW. Life is like one of those "choose your own story" books- you know, where if you want to do this, go to page 37, and if you want to do that, go to page 78. 37 leads you to pick either next step, 45 or next step 97. 78 leads you to pick either next step, 24 or next step 85, and so on, and so on. You are creating your future with every choice you make today.

Also, "marriage" that astrologers refer to often have to do with the "marriage" or karma calling for an inner balance of masculine and feminine within you- which is likely to occur around the age he/she told you. Some tests/or rewards may come for you around that time. Some astrologers tend to pigeonhole meanings and leave out other things that it could represent. In the meantime, every choice you make between now and then will take you one step closer or one step farther away to that time of inner balancing. If you are still with this same man at the time the astrologer said, your relationship may go through a transformation at that time. Follow your heart, and not what others tell you that you should do.

Hope that helps,

Freedomlover

[Circe]

Thank you so much... I`m sometimes a little overreactive about this whole love thing because I have many fears (I know having them does not help... indeed, mostly of my bad lifetimes happened because of my fears) so I have just to calm down and try to live the present time as you think, maybe worrying too much about future would lead me to lose what I have now.

thank you again.

this... for sure, teaches me a lesson about astrology, and it`s that when doing a report to another, is very important to clarify the meaning of possibility between the "unremovable destiny". that astrologer may say that to me as something cassual but suggested my mind many more problems. I`ll not going to do that if I see it in someone else`s chart!

[Neptune Rising]

This is an interesting thread. I saw a tarot reader/astrologer/palmist 2 and a half years ago - she told me I'd be married by the time I was 33/34 years. Didn't say why. I was 29 at the time going on 30. I really wanted marriage then and it seemed like ages away.

I forgot about it after a while, now there is no real urgency. If it happens it happens. There is still a year or 2 to go, and I am curious to see if she was right. I can't see the evidence in the lines of my hand, or chart, so I let it go. I still make connections with people that help me grow, but I would never marry them. I think you'll know when you meet someone and feel that this person is the one that will feel right to have marriage with. Any others you meet and connect with, enjoy the times you have, for you can remember them when you are older and settled with someone.

All the best

NR