Another synastry chart

[Mr. Conjunct]

Hi. For my entire life I know a certain girl from whom I cannot put my eyes of. But I fell in love with her when my progressed Venus conjunct my natal Sun and my progressed Moon conjunct my natal Jupiter in Taurus, now you can imagine how I felt at that time. Another proof that she is truly the love of my life is that her Venus falls in my 8th house and her Moon is on my Vertex in 7th house. Her ASC is Cancer so that makes the Moon ruler of her chart. She is Virgo, my DESC is in Virgo. Looking at the predictive point of view, when transiting Jupiter hits my Venus (in late 2008), it hits her 7th house. Both of our Ascendants are in water so they are trining. So IS ther any future for us?
I'm the inner, she is the outer circle.

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[Lissa]

Hi there Mr.Conjunct,

May I ask you,what is your current relationship with this girl?I'm sorry if you feel this is me being big nosed but my personal experience tells me that looking at synastry charts for you and people that are only your acquaintances can be dangerous,for you can get too much involved in all those magical aspects and the wonderful potential you saw in the chart and forget to take care of the actual relationship with the person:p.Been there,done that.

As for the synastry itself,I see her Sun/Moon/Mercury sitting on your DC,and your Venus/Mercury conjunction sitting on her DC as well and your Ascendants trine too,so I'd say there's defintely some mutual atraction involved here.What worries me about this chart is that her Pluto opposes your Mars,this can give some rise to some very nasty conflicts that may end up in the public eye(your Mars falls in her MC),and you're the one who would be the most hurt by this,as your Mars is detrimented in Taurus.Her dignified Venus squares your Mercury/Venus conjunction,any conflicts that may arise would be due to a certain incompatibility in personal tastes and values,and communication problems may be present too,not on your side,but on hers;you may not be able to explain yourself clearly or get your message through to her.

On the other hand,there are some good aspects into this composite too.With her Moon trining your Venus there may be a certain fondness between the two of you,even if you feel unable to openly express this to one another,since both your Venus and her Moon aren't in happy positions.Her Sun/Mercury trine your Saturn Neptune and your Mars,where as your Mars trines her Neptune too and her Mars sextiles your Pluto,I'm thinking the two of you could generate a lot of enthusiasm together and maybe do some volunteer/humanitarian work(Neptune) that will benefit society(Saturn).I believe your Mars's are the most aspected planets in this synastry charts,so the relationship may be more focused on the physical aspects than on the sharing of values,hopes and feelings.

But I am not a pro so please don't take my words as a rule.

Good luck to you,
Lissa

[Mr. Conjunct]

Interesting. We aren't in any relationship right now. What did you mean by when you said that some nasty conflicts would end in the public eye? Would others know about it? What about having south node in her sign Virgo?

[Lissa]

Hi Mr.Conjunct,

I said there may be some conflicts ending up in the pucli eye because her Pluto opposes your Mars,and your Mars falls in her10th I believe.

What do you mean about the North Node?

Cheers,
Lissa

[Mr. Conjunct]

I meant is it bad having south node in her sign?

[Lissa]

Ahh,now I understand!You are talking about your Sotuh Node conjunct her Virgo planets.Now I get it.

The South Node is a karmical point;it shows what you feel comfortable with,but also the type of behaviour you can easily fall into.

With her Virgo planets conjunct your South Node,I'd say you feel very comfortable around her.This 'easyness' can be either good or bad,depending on what you do with it;on one hand,it can make it very easy and natural for the two of you to be around each other but things can also fall into a ruth and get a little bit boring.

But,remember,astrological charts are what you make of it,and not what they make of you.It's up to the two of you to use this energies in a proper way.

Best wishes,
Lissa

[Mr. Conjunct]

Is my Vesta (9H, Sag) conjunct her Vertex, Saturn and Juno in her 5H of any significance? They are squaring her Sun and Mercury in 3H and trining my Sun in the 12H in Aquarius.

[Lissa]

Hi again,

I don't work with asteroids.

Best wishes,
Lissa