a new rel composite chart

[jjj]

Hello,

I met this man on internet and we have been 2 months like friends, now the things got more intimate. He has helped me to get over a very very painful relationship (though I am not completely over yet). I am not in love with him, but we get along rather well, I feel easy with him. I am a divorced woman, but he is married, although not living with his family.

The stellium moon-jupiter-venus must be something good, but it is in capricorn. I have natally all these planets in scoprio and he in aquarius, so they clach in synastry (all squares). I have noticed that someone who has venus and moon in water sign needs his/her partner to have at least one of these two planets in water signs, otherwise there is no deep connection that we crave. He has an aqua venus (brr), but a pisces moon.
Ps his birth time is uncertain.

thanks for any comment,

Jan

[jjj]

Ohh... I couldn´t upload the chart, it is too small.

DOB (me) 23 december 1970 Tallinn (EStonia)
DOB (he) 6 february 1962 Brussels (Belgium)

[Lissa]

Hi JJJ,

I know I'm not exacly the right person to give moral advice on others,but careful with the involvements with a married man,especially over the Internet.I don't know his details but he probably has a family of his own,which means that,if something happens,people will get hurt,and those types of situations are always unpleasant for everyone involved.

This said,from what I could spot from the chart,I'm not sure about the7th house stellium,being it in Capricorn.The Moon is debilitated in the sign and Jupiter is in it's fall too,and we can't say Venus is really comfortable in the cold,uncaring domicile of Saturn.With the Pluto/Uranus conjunction in the5th house trining the Sun/Mercury,romance between the two of you may seem like a very exciting possibility but,with the Pluto/Uranus conjunction opposing the Saturn/Chiron conjunction in Pisces and making a t-square to Mars in Sagittarius(being Mars so close to the DC as well),there may be an element of violence here,and the relationship may experience sudden,unpredictable crisis.Don't forget the7th house is also the house of OPEN ENEMIES.When everything's going fine,you may be very loyal to one another but when trouble arrives,you will have the experience the typical Capricornian coldness.

Actually,this composite seems better for a close friendship,more based on intellectual interaction than feelings.The Sun and Mercury are in a close conjunction,with trines to the Pluto/Uranus conjunction and sextiles to Saturn/Chiron and Neptune,so there's a lot that you can learn from one another,particularly with Mercury in the9th house,and the interactions with one another may even be the source of much creativity.

[jjj]

Thanks for your input Lissa, it was rather accurate, beside the fact that we cannot consider houses as I do not have his time of birth.

Actually this rel seems more like a friendship to me, we meet every day and spend time together. We have a really sparkling intellectual connection.
I do not have love feelings for him, so no hurt here:).

ps I am not picking up married men deliberately, it is not my fault that they say on internet that they are divorced:)

Smiles
Jan

[rahu]

hi jjj
with a jupiter/moon/venus stellium,there is a warm,loving and optimistic relationship here.caring and nurturing.the mars/venus midpoint conjunct the ascendant indicates a affectionate quality with spontaneous attraction.the sun trine uranus indicates a interesting and motivating quality to this relationship.mercury conjunct suggests a open but rerserved approach verbally and the mercury sextile to saturn/chiron conjunction shows that you have talked about deep feelings and beliefs.this does indicate tha he is a bit reserved and could be hesistant in talking about deep subjects.
the only concern is the mercury/neptune and sun/neptune midpoints are conjunct the mars/descendant conjunction.this can indicate that he is not being completely truthful about his situation.with this being a internet relationship ,this deceptive quality becomes more ominious.
my personal feeling is that he is mispresenting a important issue about himself.obviously you are entranced by this relationship,but i'd be very cautious until you find out the unvarnished truth.
rahu

[jjj]

Thanks a lot Rahu, it seems that with the men you are not in love with, there are always wonderful perspectives...lol.

As I do not know his time of birth this ascendant and descendant thing does not come into account, but obviously he hides from me
that he is 1) homosexual 2) serial killer 3)has a harem (the last is most probable).

But I am careful, thanks!!!
Jan