What does he Seem like?

[champagne truffle]

I have a chart here.

[Draco]

Hi Champagne.

How can anybody else tell you what kind of man you should be looking for, or what you should avoid? You ought to know that yourself.

Perhaps, however, if you were to tell us what you were looking for specifically in a man, or what you are seeking to avoid in someone, we might be able to give you some idea as to how likely you are to find someone to fulfill these criteria, according to your horoscope.

So, what qualities are you looking for, or not looking for in a man? Knowing this gives us something to refer to while looking at your chart.

Perhaps you are looking to marry a millionaire, or an artistic genius, or an ordinary bloke with an average job, or someone that you can mother and look after, or somebody that you could go into business with.

If you say what you're looking for, your chart may reveal how likely or unlikely such things are, but to dictate what you ought to be looking for certainly isn't any of the astrologers business, trying to inform you as to how likely or unlikely that your specifications will be met, is.

I'm not saying I'm the one that could give you the answers, just letting you know what information is sensibly required before proceeding to attempt making such judgements.

[champagne truffle]

well, i obviously don't...i'm clearly cluessless now.

[Sagmoon]

there might not be right or wrong answer to this. on one hand i can see where you coming from: people tend to have different pscycoloical qualities that makes them to be attracted to particular types. this might lead to vicious circle which makes it hard to distinguish what exactly we want. i am ot saying that this is the cause you have doubts. on the other hand, although their might be signs of for example dependancy it is hard to say whether the person actually want to depend on someone or to have a partner who would depent on you.

since people we attract can be signified by our descendant i say you can see what type of men you tend to gravitate to. but unfortunately you chart is expired...

you must have some dreams about a perfect man, i'd say go with it since no astrology can be as accurate as you heart. :)

S

[champagne truffle]

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[Sagmoon]

i wouldn't speak with authority to what your match should be. i think people that have particular appearances, whether material, being a millioner, or psychological can still harbour many different characteristics inside or else. so to be attracted to a particular type because of his status would be inappropriate. to suggest that person should posses a particular talent is narrowed to the same level of 'judgement' i guess. to know who the person trully is you would need to get to know him for some time. so my answer would be is that when you meet him (he can be anyone) you will like him because he's going to fullfil you in some way..

once you meet someone you can always look at synastry to see where you might experience advantages or disadvantages in a relationship.

hope that helps:)
S

[champagne truffle]

you are so right.

so very much so.

i'm just impatient and am not meeting anyone i like too much...

so advice for me then is non-astrological..? --- it's my heart i should listen to... well, it's not working properly clearly else i wouldn't be asking others what is good for me! lol. thanks tho.

[champagne truffle]

hello astrologers. let's see. i

[FishNChips62]

I think if you gave me your birth details instead of your chart (b/c I need to know the aspect configurations...they're the most important for this sort of thing) we'd be much better off in my ability to tell you about the type of men you're likely to attract.

I can give you some tips, though. For now. If you want to find the visibly clear patterns of the kind of men you attract or even are attracted to (might be a little more difficult) I suggest going to Starmatch.com and seeing if any of the men you've attracted or are attracted to have a 11 compatibility rating with you. If you've got at least 3, I think, and are able to see how these people are similar, I think you've got yourself a good idea of the kind of manm you should be looking for. Sometimes what we are attracted to isn't necessarily what we should be looking for (or need..in other words). So there you go. Men with 11 compat ratings with you are what you should be looking for. And in my experience, even women with this rating for me and these men all have very similar qualities to me and not all that similar that it gets boring either..it just keeps me focused on the idea that I shouldn't settle for just a cute or good looking guy because there are fish in the sea that really are "my type" and really are "compatible" with me!

Love love love,
and good luck..
-Mabel =)

[champagne truffle]

HI Mabel thanks for writing; and sorry about my charts -- I don't know why they expire or don't show aspects. my chart data attached bellow.

I just went to that site you gave me but it's just too much information for me - too many people, too much details...I can't read through it!!! It's blinding. The design too.
Generally I like men who are different than me, I find it's more fun that way, even tho more challenging. But also I don't think I've ever met someone who's similar to me...?! Commitment issues- I don't think I have.
See what you can find.
Thanks in advance!
I look forward to your reply.

[FishNChips62]

You don't have to read through anything........All I said was "going to Starmatch.com and seeing if any of the men you've attracted or are attracted to have a 11 compatibility rating with you. If you've got at least 3 [men], I think, and are able to see how these people are similar [forget astrology, jsut look for obvious personality traits..you WILL find them, they got an 11 with you for a reason--they're all the same type of person, no matter what their sun sign, all the other factors in their chart add up--to be compatible with you, mkay?], I think you've got yourself a good idea of the kind of man you should be looking for."

Are you suggesting you can't go to that site do a compatibility report between you and another guy and find the part where it says the Rating they gave you because "it's just too much information... - too many people, too much details...I can't read through it!!! It's blinding. The design too." It sounds like an easy cop-out for me to do just do it for you (if there is anything i could possibly do for you..I don't think I can do anything for you, really, because I dunno the birthdates of the men you've attracted or are attracted to).

You can't read through it? That sounds pathetic to me. Lol. I'm sorry...You're gonna have to try harder to read through it..lmao. I just don't understand how someone could not read through something? Sift through the header of a ompatibility report to find a Number?? Are you serious. Ok, well good luck with that. If you have any real questions please feel free to ask me lmao.

If you really have a serious problem with it, though it does sound to me you just don't wanna bother with it, you can jus go to Astromatch.com ok. It's owned by the same makers of that site it's jsut you don't have to get a compatibiltiy report done..and there's no specifics like locations and birth time input into the Comaptibility Rating. All you do is stick in the birthdates and it spits out a Compatibility number. Remember you could either opt for an 11 in Love, or an 11 in all 3 categories for a person really really similar to and comaptible with you. Good luck..

[champagne truffle]

Sorry, we're not getting through to each other. For what is worth: I was trying to say I was too lazy to go through those matching sites: that they truly annoy me and very much dislike looking at them. (NRN) No Reply Needed regarding that. Rather, I was hoping you'd switch back the conversation to my chart - as per your request.

Sigh....

Also I'd like to RE TITLE this whole thread and ask for comments on my chart.
If that can be done, please let me know how, else I'd like to start a new post.

[FishNChips62]

Ohp, sorry, there's not much I can do for you inr egards to your chart, sweetie. I'm not too good with charts yet. Need more experience. Glad you were so understanding. :)
It just really ticked me off that you'd found something so simple so hard to do! but of course it was a rejection of the "dating site thing" in general. i understand. Though i still thought the reports they offer are still pretty cool and insightful. I'm hopeful one day you might get around to lookin' at em. But for now. Good luck, sweetie :) I wish you the best.. Maybe you're right maybe you should start a new thread. I dunno, tho, threads with lots of comments have a way of getting more attention, but also i think one major thing is that most people will not read thru all the comments and just be like ohhh. idunno or something or just ignore it lol ..if they don't ahve an asnswer (which is the most commno thing to happen with the topic of this thread). Alright well, so then there ya have it :) i suggest starting a new topic. :)g'luck.