Flapjacks
05-09-2007, 07:19 AM
Hello! I have a question about the synastry between my close friend/lover and myself. I've studied astrology quite a bit, but it's always good to get other's opinions... I am still very much an ameatur.
I am involved with a young man who plans to move to Japan in two years. We became friends almost instantly three years ago, and he meant to keep it at that, but the relationship proved to be more, and now I'm wondering what may happen when he does finally leave. We have become very close emotionally, despite his inhibitions and concern for 'leaving' me when he travels to Japan (my Moon falls in his Ninth house, ha).
But the thing that makes me wonder about it is this: Our houses overlay almost exactly ontop of each other, with our outer planets and Mars all in the same place since we were born about two months apart. In both our charts, our Seventh house (partnerships) falls in the sign of Sagittarius (long distance travel), and Uranus (sudden change) also resides there. In our composite chart it is the same, except the Moon also falls into the Seventh house as well. Composite Uranus also positively aspects the composite Sun and Mecury, which sit in the Fourth house (home, endings)...
Initally I thought, "Yeah that makes sense, Uranus, sudden changes, travel: when he leaves the partnership will end, and he'll probably marry over there or some such thing." But it intrigues me that I have the same aspect in my own chart. Maybe I'll go on a seperate path that also deals with long travels and partnerships, or is it possible that I might tag along with him (probably wishful thinking there)? Does anyone else have an idea of what these aspects might suggest, or what other aspects I might want to look at to get a better idea of how this might go? Perhaps I am looking at this from the wrong angle, even... so any input would be appreciated!
Oh, here is our info if anyone would like:
Me
July 21, 1986 EDIT: (2:10 am) Denver, CO
Him
September 6, 1986 (11:15 pm) Pasadena, CA
I am involved with a young man who plans to move to Japan in two years. We became friends almost instantly three years ago, and he meant to keep it at that, but the relationship proved to be more, and now I'm wondering what may happen when he does finally leave. We have become very close emotionally, despite his inhibitions and concern for 'leaving' me when he travels to Japan (my Moon falls in his Ninth house, ha).
But the thing that makes me wonder about it is this: Our houses overlay almost exactly ontop of each other, with our outer planets and Mars all in the same place since we were born about two months apart. In both our charts, our Seventh house (partnerships) falls in the sign of Sagittarius (long distance travel), and Uranus (sudden change) also resides there. In our composite chart it is the same, except the Moon also falls into the Seventh house as well. Composite Uranus also positively aspects the composite Sun and Mecury, which sit in the Fourth house (home, endings)...
Initally I thought, "Yeah that makes sense, Uranus, sudden changes, travel: when he leaves the partnership will end, and he'll probably marry over there or some such thing." But it intrigues me that I have the same aspect in my own chart. Maybe I'll go on a seperate path that also deals with long travels and partnerships, or is it possible that I might tag along with him (probably wishful thinking there)? Does anyone else have an idea of what these aspects might suggest, or what other aspects I might want to look at to get a better idea of how this might go? Perhaps I am looking at this from the wrong angle, even... so any input would be appreciated!
Oh, here is our info if anyone would like:
Me
July 21, 1986 EDIT: (2:10 am) Denver, CO
Him
September 6, 1986 (11:15 pm) Pasadena, CA