synastry question re: mars and saturn

[sita]

i'm looking at the synastry between my boyfriend and my charts and i noticed this green dotty line between his mars and my saturn. what relationship does this indicate? is this what a quincunx looks like? or is it an opposition? i have been very uncertain with this relationship from the start (moon opp neptune) and am just wondering if this green line means i should shed my illusions now and rightfully freak and bail before my pending seventh house saturn return in leo (love) kicks me in the heart and the face and the core of my soul? things aren't good with us and we fight, but i can't tell if its the soulful kind of "not good" that needs to be pushed through and learned from, or the kind of stupid "not good" that is going to turn our lives into an unmaneageable hell. any ideas, please? i feel the time to decide is upon me.

[wilsontc]

Sita,

Yes, the dotted line your talking about is a quincunx, indicating a need for adjustment between his structuring of things (Saturn) and your actions (Mars). In doing comparisons between people it helps to first look at how the "personal planets" (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, Mars) interact with each other. In your chart with your boyfriend, your Moon (home, also emotions) squares (energy needs to be combined with) his Mars (being, also anger) and his Moon squares your Moon. This indicates that you both react emotionally to the other person's actions. You also have your Mercuries (thinking, also talking/daily work) square, indicating that you may each be fighting to "get your point across" to the other.

If you decide you want to continue this relationship, these two issues will have to handled between you, with both people making more effort to see the other person's point of view. That will take a lot of work and there are no guarantees. If this stress between you has become "an unmanageable hell" then it may be best to break off the relationship now before it becomes worse.

Suggesting,

Tim

[sita]

tim,
thank you for responding so immediately to my post. you've helped me clarify both tonight and once in the past. it seems that hard medicine to swallow becomes tolerable with your counsel. thank you. i'm taking your interpretation for serious consideration,

sita