Uranus in composite and synastry

[Libra20]

I've read differing interpreation of Uranus in relational, that either it means that it won't last/end abruptly or that it means intensity. In looking at the charts of people (especially in the composite charts) I know, it seems to me that Uranus contacts to personal planets (especially conjunctions, squares, oppositions) indicate that the relationship won't last. I've also experienced this first hand when a brief fling I had that had tons of Uranus to personal planet aspects in the composite started very intensely and ended very quickly and abruptly. The one composite chart I looked at with lots of Uranus aspects, but resulted in a current, long term marriage, had Venus conunct Juno and the Vertex on top of the descendant. So, I think these aspects mitigated the Uranus aspects.

How do you guys see Uranus affecting relational charts, especially the composite?
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[eonechoes]

Well in two composite charts of relationships that I didn't expect to end so quickly I'm finding many trines and quincunxes between personal planets and Uranus.

In the composite chart of the relationship I'm currently in Uranus is sextile Sun and Mercury. I wonder what this means. Any insight on sextiles?

[Libra20]

Interesting that you found that trines also lead to quick endings. I would have thought that it would mainly be squares, oppositions and conjunctions (especially to Venus or the Moon). Were there other indications of a quick ending in these charts? I looked up on astro the sextile to the Sun and Mercury. Their descriptions of these aspects seem to support my assumption, that it is the challenging aspects that leads to sudden change. Do these descriptions seem to fit your current relationship?

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Sun Sextile Uranus

The sextile of composite Sun and Uranus indicates that this relationship will seek out a path of its own, defining new standards of behavior and changing your thinking. While most relationships are very much restricted to the two individuals involved, this one will be open to contact with others, almost as if you must share what you have with as many people as possible. If it is a sexual relationship, therefore, it will be quite open and free. A friendship with this configuration will constantly challenge and stimulate the world- views of you both and of those around you.

And the more you allow this exchange, the better the relationship will be. Don't allow laziness or fear of experimentation to let this partnership fall into conventional patterns. To do so would be to weaken something that should be a highly stimulating and creative experience for both of you.

Mercury Sextile Uranus

Mercury sextile Uranus in the composite chart indicates that this relationship will have a stimulating effect on both of you. Your conversation and exchanges have a vital, alive quality that is not found in many relationships. When you are together you enjoy going out and finding new experiences, particularly intellectual and mental ones.

This aspect works to best advantage in any kind of business or professional relationship that requires intellectual creativity and innovativeness.

In a personal relationship, this aspect can help prevent you from falling into ruts and thereby help your relationship to stay alive and vital. It also is a good indication of basic intellectual compatibility, which is good in any personal association
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[Neptune Rising]

Sun Sextile Uranus
I had this and Venus sextile Uranus in a brief and intense relationship, and it was quite open on his part. The more I tried to confine him to myself, and try and control the relationship, the more restrictive and worse the relationship became, until it all exploded in on itself very abruptly, so we were both free!

I'm currently seeing someone with composite Juno opposite Uranus. I have the feeling he will not be the person I'll be marrying :D It seems more the spontanious, enjoy it while it lasts and learn what I can from it type of relationship.

We also have Moon almost exactly trine Uranus - but have no idea what this means except this will never be a 'conventional' relationship.

Neptune

[Libra20]

Neptune,

Interesting.... From what you and eonechoes have experienced, it seems that even the trines and sextiles of the personal planets to Uranus can lead to an abrupt ending. You do have a great attitude towards your current relationship :D Enjoy!

Here's from astro.com for Moon Trine Uranus. It does seem to fit...

The trine of the Moon and Uranus in the composite chart signifies that both of you must be free in your emotional expression in order to bring out the best in this relationship. Even the relationship itself may take on very unusual forms. You should have the courage to deal with each other in different and exceptional ways. Otherwise you will have wasted an opportunity for growth.

By the same token, this relationship is likely to have a strong consciousness-altering effect upon both of you, changing your attitudes about your own and your partner's emotions. Your world-views and philosophy of life may very well be changed.

Certain attributes of a conventional relationship, such as stability and predictability, may not exist here. Yet despite the unpredictability, there will be much of value. And the more freedom you allow each other within the structure of this relationship, the more you will get out of it.
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[Neptune Rising]

By the same token, this relationship is likely to have a strong consciousness-altering effect upon both of you, changing your attitudes about your own and your partner's emotions. Your world-views and philosophy of life may very well be changed.

Certain attributes of a conventional relationship, such as stability and predictability, may not exist here. Yet despite the unpredictability, there will be much of value. And the more freedom you allow each other within the structure of this relationship, the more you will get out of it.

That's brilliant Libra20, many thanks! So true as well. I definately feel the that I have changed for the better through knowing this man. Its definately not a stable thing so I've learned to find stability in myself.

I was looking at composite chart with a male friend I've known 8 or so years. There is Uranus weakly trine Saturn, and inconjunct Sun. It is a much more stable relationship between us. Something I feel I can settle into.

In fact, its interesting to look at Uranus between all friends to see how the different energies interact!

Neptune

[MarieBrizard]

Hi Libra, a similar thing to NeptuneRising happened to me shortly. Synastry revealed Uranus EVERYWHERE, and not so much in Composite but also present in Composite. Uranus accents, as far as I know, are separation and on-off, and........ there u go. As with NRsing the more I wanted things to go deeper, the more resistance I encountered, and also, it was a very unconventional rship (typical Uranus). SIIIIIGH...... am very sad as it was electrical! But harsh aspects to Uranus seem to be separating, such as Sun opp Uranus and Mars sq Uranus, which I had. I am still torn, but will take it philosophically and let the stars dictate how it will go on... Unfortunately I am not a carefree-happy-go-lucky kind of partner and cant cope with the instability of it all so I had to end it, Regards, Marie

[Erickaf]

what about uranus rising in composite? i have studied composites and i studied 3 divorced couples in my family none of them had uranus rising, but lots of hard aspects to uranus yuck! anyone have experience or information on uranus rising specifically in scorpio?:confused:

[MarieBrizard]

I dont know about uranus asc in composite, but assuming asc is important this uranus accent would have some effect on the rship.
I have the following uranus in synastry with a guy i feel strongly about and would be happy to know what u think about them
asc conj uranus
venus opp uranus
sun opp uranus
merc opp uranus
moon trine uranus

Thanks a million, marie

[mdinaz]

Uranus in composite to personal planets relate to how quickly things move, how much freedom is required in the relationship, how conventional/unconventional it will be, and how quickly it could possibly end. In one relationship we had Uranus trine the Sun, and the relationship started and ended very quickly, lasting about 5 months. In that five months I think we went through 10 years of marriage. It was a positive relationship, but had its purpose. My ex and I were married for 6 years, and had Uranus square Moon and Pluto square moon in the composite. We knew each other for several years before getting together, and are still friends after the divorce and interact. The Uranus/Pluto squares to the Moon indicate a karmic relationship based on the past-life problems, which it certainly was, and the relationship did revolve around some freedoms and areas requiring more flexibility.

[lexia523]

hi everyone
this uranus plannet has a lot to answer for yes? lol

i have a stellium in aqu (sun merc venus) in 5th house
-so i find uranium relationships comfortablefor me. ( distant, inquiring, unpredictable) sums me up actually lol

i do have that keeping a man at arms length yet wanting to give love and recieve it all in a casual (5th house) manner
okay so thats where i have problems in past relationships..

1 day many years ago i met a man it was instant uraniun kaboom!!!
trans uranus was exact 25deg aquarius conj my sun and as it turns out his venus to.. so my sun his venus conjunted the trans uranus..
I first thought it would be a short lived affair but instead turns 7 years in may..:) .. we do have some powerfull astro connections to i might add.

we do have a uraniun type relationship where we both feel comfortable in, it wouldnt not have worked if either him or i had a different makeup (astrological chart)

so im thinking a uranus relationship is not just about quick love affairs that change our every core after comming out of one, its about the type of relationship you will have, now it also depends on what is in your natal. as with us we have itin each of us to need distance to grow outside of each other and yet we are loyal to one another too.
but if you have a natal chart that needs closeness ane the other person has a different type of chart (needs) thats were u will get the combustion of the relationship as one will want more and the other will run..

Im a big believer in looking to your natal to see what your capable of recieveing and giveing..

[Neptune Rising]

1 day many years ago i met a man it was instant uraniun kaboom!!!
trans uranus was exact 25deg aquarius conj my sun and as it turns out his venus to.. so my sun his venus conjunted the trans uranus..
I first thought it would be a short lived affair but instead turns 7 years in may.

Hi Lexia and all!

Thats a lovely story. Reading this I thought back to when I met my boyfriend the first time. His Sun is conjunct my Uranus, at 1 degree Scorpio. We met as the transiting Sun was conjuncting his Sun/my Uranus, that was in late October 2005. We split up for over a year and got back together last year in April sometime, I think it was when the Sun was opposite that same point.

Its certainly a very unusual energy, I can describe it as enlivening and awakening. He is one of the few people that encourage me to be myself and follow the dreams that I have. And I do the same for him. Everyone else seemed to have their own agendas for me to follow, maybe my Neptune rising leads people to project their things onto me.

Mmm interesting, I'm curious now what this October will bring.

all the best
NR

[lexia523]

hi neptune rising
you know im neptune rising also right? (and in scorp)
People initially think im either mysterious ( dont mind that)
or i would be a harsh person to live with... (what do they know right)
it just so happens im the compleste opp as im an aquarian with leo moon.
What is yr rising in?
my friend stopped seening me to a couple of times (due to our circumstances i know why) anyway when uranus went into pis i thought ohh noo its going to be off again.. but its progressed inot our comp sun an the 7th house so its actually been better for us.
I know how u feel about october approaching .. but i feel its got more to do with other plannets affecting the uranus also.. (its not just about one plannet).. so i dont think u guys got anything to worry about here.

I have a theory transiting plannets such as uranus aspecting your natals or prog or even the comp.. may not be ideal for the relationship at that present time.. and when u get back with the partner you can draw up another chart and find that its actually progreesed into something better.. like fate,s hand giveing yous a break so to speak.. xx

[Neptune Rising]

Hi Lexia

Ah another Neppy rising! Im Sag rising, Nep in Sag, people also think I'm mysterious, or they have to take a closer look which sometimes annoys me when I feel like being private. Also almost all of my friends/past boyfriends are from abroad, and the few from the UK spend half their time travelling.

The composite is weird. When my boyfriend and I got back in touch last April, transiting Uranus was conjunct the transiting North Node, and both these conjuncted our composite South Node! Bizare!

If I was looking at this composite not knowing the two people, I would have guessed that transit Uranus conjunct the comp South Node would have brought about a seperation as that is usually associated with that planet.

I must admit, the seperations we have had have not felt like seperations, its like we never really left each other, just needed time to evolve in some way and regain independance so we could come back together individually stronger and interdependant rather than dependant or too independant. A tricky balance.

best wishes,
NR

[lexia523]

same thing nep rising
the seperations were not arguments nor partings, just felt like there were things we were doing but was a little busy to see one another at the time.
now is different though... the whole relationship is different. have u seen what uranus is doing to your comp?

[Moulin]

Uranus rules my 7th house so my relationships always start with a bang and go out with a bang.

I think Aquarius on 7th must be the worst DC ever!!!! It is so disruptive and the only thing to do is go with the flow of it's energy and let relationships just 'be', otherwise you get into real trouble :)

[lexia523]

I love your outlook moulin xx

[Neptune Rising]

have u seen what uranus is doing to your comp?

Yes its quite interesting. Composite progressed Uranus is at 8 degres Libra, conjunct my natal Pluto and just around his nadir. Transformative changes, inspirations, maybe for society.

I'm watching a funny aspect in my progressed chart, Jupiter/Venus conjunct. Our progressed Moon will conjunct this around June/July this year. Composite progressed Sun/Mercury is also sextile my prog Venus/Jupiter. I'm watching the transits this summer to see if they activate anything here.

No Uranus transits involved but its interesting to look and compare the progressed composite and natals, they really tell a story.

NR

[MarieBrizard]

Gosh i cant believe it! Girls i am also sag rising with neptune on the ascendant. Was actually reading this thread more carefully and i found that we share similar charts...Hmmmmmmmmm.. About uranus and aquarius... how do u get on with them? i have never actually had a good rship of any kind with aquas, just absolutely absent, nor good or bad. suppose this has nothing to do with the fact that uranus in synastry does strange things to rships, but, overall i find aquas too bizarre and happy go lucky, maybe i am more the thougtfull kind... or like this kind of people... actually i am with a pisces man but my heart still aches for a rship with an aries... SIGH..... Any advice?

[lexia523]

hi marieBrizard
i get on with aqu great.. (IT TAKES ON TO KNOW ONE) Applys here lol

i am sun merc and venus in aqu, and yes its distant, but the heart is not nor the words said, im notthe touchy feely type and hate being with men that are makes me want to run a mile. it feels stiffeling to me and like they have no self control somehow, remember this is just how i feel because of my aqu plannets and my uranus in my 11th house means also a tie to aqu,
i have one huge problem i have a leo moon, so im conflicted i love giveing out attention and love and geiving pressents.. i have always idolised my partners and i tend to attract the aries men a lot. its good for me as my pro sun is in aries and conjuncted my man when we met. he also has aqu venus wich is why we are comfortable with each other and it works.

You say
"maybe iam more thoughtfull and kind??"
the most kindest honest and loyal people i know have had lots of aqu plannets and they are the humanitarians remember.
sure they are detached but there actually deeper than u think, they just dont seem to show it the same way say water signs do. thats why we are all diff, im glad u havent been with any aqu its obviously not right for you.

post your natal chart up in the appropriate area and we can all look at it, after you have a go at it yourself , just read the guide lines first.

Neptune rising.... do keep us all informed what happens in june july, im eager to know to :p

[Neptune Rising]

Hi marieBrizard, I'm so glad there are a few of us out there, neptune risings! I'm curious to see what your Moon sign is. Mine is Pisces and I always fall for water sign men, they are the ones that really impact my life, two Scorpios and a Cancerian, I almost forgot the Piscean man I lived with it seems another lifetime ago! The current one is 1 degree Scorpio Sun.

My progressed Sun is about to enter Pisces, so that will trine my Uranus/his Sun. I don't know what that will bring.

I don't know any Aquarians. I went out with one once but it never got beyond platonic. I've got Mercury conjunct Venus in Aqua but I just don't draw Aquas into my life.

Llexia I will keep you posted, I haven't the foggiest what on earth will happen!:D

NR

[MarieBrizard]

Lexia my moon is also in Leo and believe me my best and strongest rships have been with fire signs, but mostly too heavy... The pisces bloke i am seeing now is soooooooooo easy........ just what i needed after a turmoil-ish rship with a fiery aries...

Maybe you trine well with aquas, i am just saying cause my sis has moon in aqua and is head over heels with a leo moon...

I was 7 years with a Leo and he has definitely been the man of my life so far.

Any tips on how to post a chart? I am a bit lost still there, Thanks girls

[MarieBrizard]

Lexia sorry am going to search 4 guidelines to post chart, had overread that bit of yours, marie

[MarieBrizard]

:38:

Girls i have posted my chart in the main astrology forum 4 everyone to comment if they wish........ Looking forward to hearing from u!

[barbh]

Hi Moulin
I too have an Aquarius DC, but I don't get that 'going in and out with a bang' thing in relationships. Look to your Saturn to get more info about your relationships. Where is it, and what are it's aspects? Mine is square Venus....hence lots of heartbreak and always feeling not quite good enough or pretty enough.....whatever! I seem to do best with men who have trines to my Saturn. I have Uranus rising though, so my freedom/indepence issues do run deep!
barbh

[Moulin]

Thanks Lexia - it took a lot of pain to get that outlook! :) xx

I love your outlook moulin xx

[normak]

Current guy and I have composite Moon Square Uranus as the only aspect to Uranus in our chart. I'm thinking, either that means we have enough other positive aspects to outweigh the one Uranus aspect, or that one Uranus aspect has special significance :(. Apparently, Uranus Square Moon means an "unstable, unpredictable relationship that may suddenly start and stop, etc."

[DiDi]

could mean that yous are emotionally distant with one another. dont despair though as it could just mean that once you both are comfortable with one another yous will open up more.
or that is what you both have to concur together?

[normak]

Well, it's definitely proving to be an unstable relationship (from my point of view). He can be very immature and does not know how to be emotionally available. Lately, I have been talking with him about "needing a break" from us. I am not emotionally stable at all, and have been very insecure with him. Unfortunately, his influence on me tends to be more negative than positive, since he can be careless with immature comments about superficial things, rather than trying to connect on a deeper level. His Saturn is squaring my Sun in synastry; that could have something to do with it. Either way, I find that I am seriously considering whether to stay with him or not lately. He assures me that he will wait for me no matter what I decide, but I am not sure I want to deal with the superficial criticisms and offhand immature comments. He is a Virgo with Moon in Gemini (Venus in Cancer), so he can be very affectionate, but very emotionally guarded and superficially critical at crucial times where I really need emotional support. I kind of feel like I'm being kicked while I'm down sometimes. I have Sun in Sagittarius, Moon in Scorpio (Blech) and Venus in Aquarius.

Also, our Uranus placement in the composite chart worries me. The only aspect we have to Uranus is Uranus Sq. Moon, but it is also placed in the 8th house in Scorpio (!):(. This worries me because of an interpretation I read that said that having this Uranus placement in composite indicates that the relationship will end suddenly. It didn't even state that this placement could contribute to a long-term relationship. The interpretation basically seemed to imply that the relationship would inevitably end, in a sudden fashion. Kinda bummed me out to read. Any thoughts?

[Polo]

It seems to me that the trines and sextiles are good at introducing new things into your life. But the conjunction, square, and opposition seems to make people come and go. The movement in the relationship is jerky.

[Gwenyhfair]

Ah, I see URANUS!

There´s this relship that bothers my mind, and guess what, lots of uranus aspects.Composite: uranus conj moon, nep, jup, trine sun and mars and square venus & merc.

It´s a strange composite half trines half squares (one opp) and then lots of conjunctions.

We broke up kaboom 5 months ago after a symbiotic period. I really wish we could go on more detatched. :rolleyes:

[Streetsky]

Well, it's definitely proving to be an unstable relationship (from my point of view). He can be very immature and does not know how to be emotionally available. Lately, I have been talking with him about "needing a break" from us. I am not emotionally stable at all, and have been very insecure with him. Unfortunately, his influence on me tends to be more negative than positive, since he can be careless with immature comments about superficial things, rather than trying to connect on a deeper level. His Saturn is squaring my Sun in synastry; that could have something to do with it. Either way, I find that I am seriously considering whether to stay with him or not lately. He assures me that he will wait for me no matter what I decide, but I am not sure I want to deal with the superficial criticisms and offhand immature comments. He is a Virgo with Moon in Gemini (Venus in Cancer), so he can be very affectionate, but very emotionally guarded and superficially critical at crucial times where I really need emotional support. I kind of feel like I'm being kicked while I'm down sometimes. I have Sun in Sagittarius, Moon in Scorpio (Blech) and Venus in Aquarius.

Also, our Uranus placement in the composite chart worries me. The only aspect we have to Uranus is Uranus Sq. Moon, but it is also placed in the 8th house in Scorpio (!):(. This worries me because of an interpretation I read that said that having this Uranus placement in composite indicates that the relationship will end suddenly. It didn't even state that this placement could contribute to a long-term relationship. The interpretation basically seemed to imply that the relationship would inevitably end, in a sudden fashion. Kinda bummed me out to read. Any thoughts?

Normak i UNDERSTAND YOU TOTALLY!
I have venus in fiery aries house 11, moon in sagittarius (conjunct uranus) the man i loved was a leo with a venus in cancer and a stellium in gemini.

I have a stellium in libra (house 5) and sagi (house 7).

I understand you totally about offhand comments that you wish would support you and end up being so self centred and child like that you feel like having a fit at him then crying for not being understood.

Uranus is opposition Venus in our composite, i LEFT, then when i wanted to come back he had found someone else.
But I knew he loved me... and i loved him, we have something deep with pluto in our synastry.
I broke up and stopped all contact on a day when pluto was transiting square my natal mars.


Gemini... never again. Can't depend on that. And i'm a free spirit but that was too much.

[Vagabondgirl]

I have Mars square Uranus (in 7th) in my natal chart. So everyone my age will aspect my chart like this badly in synastry:/ Sun is sextile Uranus though, so maybe helps a little.

There is someone I know that has Venus/Mars/Uranus with me in composite in tight conjunction. Both he and I have mars square uranus in our natals, and mars conjunct venus in opposite signs. I feel there is some strange energy between us. Some chemistry of some kind.... Never understood it quite:)

[karenbeth47]

Uranus is with Jupiter at the moment,expansion in a different unorthodox manner.
With Uranus, expect the unexpected, it's radical change. It;s also a part of you!
by the sounds of it, that you are disowning.
Neptune with Chiron, in Aquarius.
Needing to grow past the experience of past hurts.
(First be aware of how they affect you)
All well and good in theory.So hard in reality!
In a positive way, don;t let the past hurts hold you back from relating in an honest and open way with others.(cos you won.t get away with it) Pluto in Capricorn, Saturn in Libra.
The negative, is repeating the pattern.
Just my view,
Karenbeth47

[Kenoshamaensa]

This is a little old now, but I wanted to bring it back out because it talked mostly about Uranus aspects to personal planets, but I was wondering about them to the "middle" planets, Jupiter and Saturn, or things like nodes. I've had a weirdly "on-again/off-again" relationship with a fellow, and in our composite we have Uranus opposite Jupiter/N.Node/Chiron, and quincunx Saturn. But no involvement to personal planets or Asc/Desc/MC/IC. Incidently we have pretty strong Saturn involvement with Moon and Venus in composite and synastry, and a near-exact Sun-Venus conjunction (with looser Mercury) in composite. So these things seem to hold us together. But I'm curious about the Uranian effect even on the "middle"/social planets? I've always assumed it played out less ... personally. But I did find this discussion interesting. (And yes, we have a somewhat "atypical" relationship, and yes, he's younger than me.)

(Incidently, in his natal chart, he has a Sun-Uranus conjunction in Libra/11th, and in mine, I have Uranus setting on my descendant. I do try to pay attention to natal placements when looking at composites, if the planetary energy has "play" in the native's personal life.)

[Ariesish]

I was going to start a topic about Uranus aspects, but I saw this one so I guess I'll post here.

I've been reading Uranus aspect interpretations and I'd like to know more about people's experiences.

What's the most Uranus aspects you've had in synastry with someone? How long did that relationship last?

What would a double whammy Uranus aspect be like? Like a Moon conjunct Uranus.

If you've had a "Uranian relationship" that ended how do you feel about the person now?

[DiDi]

wellI had met and dated 4 men in a row.. 1 i married all had there moon in virgo conj my virgo uranus/pluto conj

all had different relationships with them
Im aquarian myself and the
1st one i married so 9 years there we were not uranus like
2nd one everything he did he wanted me with him
3rd one had a very close bond with....

but here is the key

1st one was scorpio sun conj my asc
2nd was a libran sun
3rd one a aqu like me

so you see the types of relationships i had with them didnt involve uranus at all.

[Ariesish]

Were there any saturn aspects that you thought made a difference?

[DiDi]

1st one... no I really to this day cant work that one out... think it was a karma thing thou as i was left to raise my children from him alone... (but loving it)

2nd one he had 29deg aqu saturn conj my 25 deg aqu sun
I was just looking at his chart now and he has uranus and moon conj that may have made him more aqu in some personality traits as it was in his asc too. .. interesting one that.. i happily walked away from that relationship.


3rd one he had 29deg taurus saturn lol:andy:
in my 7th H and square my sun.

so yes looks like saturn was at play

the love of my life i spent 9 years with thou had his saturn 28 gemini nicley trine my sun.
but we had lots of other nice placements also.

[Claire19]

I've read differing interpreation of Uranus in relational, that either it means that it won't last/end abruptly or that it means intensity. In looking at the charts of people (especially in the composite charts) I know, it seems to me that Uranus contacts to personal planets (especially conjunctions, squares, oppositions) indicate that the relationship won't last. I've also experienced this first hand when a brief fling I had that had tons of Uranus to personal planet aspects in the composite started very intensely and ended very quickly and abruptly. The one composite chart I looked at with lots of Uranus aspects, but resulted in a current, long term marriage, had Venus conunct Juno and the Vertex on top of the descendant. So, I think these aspects mitigated the Uranus aspects.

How do you guys see Uranus affecting relational charts, especially the composite?
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If you mean composite charts when you say relational then the birth times of both parties has to be exact to have an accurate one. It shows THE relationship and particularly how others view it. I dont use Vertex in composites but Saturn has to be strong for endurance. However just because a marriage is long doesnt mean it is good necessarily.
I agree that with Uranus connecting to personal planets that it can lead to sudden events, quick on and off events and out of the blue shocks and surprises. It leads to excitement, infatuation and a sense of freedom and not wanting to be bored. Everyone is different and we can only generalise..conjunctions are not necessarily challenging and can have positive effects.

[Claire19]

I have Mars square Uranus (in 7th) in my natal chart. So everyone my age will aspect my chart like this badly in synastry:/ Sun is sextile Uranus though, so maybe helps a little.

There is someone I know that has Venus/Mars/Uranus with me in composite in tight conjunction. Both he and I have mars square uranus in our natals, and mars conjunct venus in opposite signs. I feel there is some strange energy between us. Some chemistry of some kind.... Never understood it quite:)
Yes there may be sexual excitement but Uranus doesnt like to be everyday and routine and this can kill a relationship.As you say it is only one aspect and others can mitigate it in a positive way.

[Claire19]

1st one... no I really to this day cant work that one out... think it was a karma thing thou as i was left to raise my children from him alone... (but loving it)

2nd one he had 29deg aqu saturn conj my 25 deg aqu sun
I was just looking at his chart now and he has uranus and moon conj that may have made him more aqu in some personality traits as it was in his asc too. .. interesting one that.. i happily walked away from that relationship.


3rd one he had 29deg taurus saturn lol:andy:
in my 7th H and square my sun.

so yes looks like saturn was at play

the love of my life i spent 9 years with thou had his saturn 28 gemini nicley trine my sun.
but we had lots of other nice placements also.
Always and without fail Saturn is at play in a long term relationship of any kind. It can keep people together even when unhappy and it has to be some kind of karmic lesson or debt I feel. There is often a strange sense of loyalty and duty despite other problems.

[Munch]

I replied to a similar thread recently. My personal experience with Uranus (I have it Singleton sextile Mars in Aquarius and parallel my moon) is that if Uranus is not present in a big way, relationships don't work for me.

My longest and best relationship is the one that I am currently in and my partner has Uranus conjunct his natal sun and we have it as part of our large first house stellium. Uranus is great in my book, but I also have a motto that expresses my Singletong Uranus in Scorpio.

The only constant is change.

I guess because I know on a fundamental level that nothing is meant to last forever, I don't put pressure on anything to try to make it stand the test of time. I just live in the moment with him and vice versa. It works out very nicely for us and who knows, maybe we'll be together until death do us part but at some point we shall part. That is inevitable.

On a side note, this relationship was very gradual in development. It went from being co-workers to friends to lovers and finally evolved into an actual partnership over the course of about 2 years. It was so gradual that we just ended up picking a day to be our anniversary because there was nothing defined in regards to when it became 'official.'

[DiDi]

On a side note, this relationship was very gradual in development. It went from being co-workers to friends to lovers and finally evolved into an actual partnership over the course of about 2 years. It was so gradual that we just ended up picking a day to be our anniversary because there was nothing defined in regards to when it became 'official.'

I find that very aquarian and one I prefer over any other type of getting to know someone... in fact anyone who comes at me and wants a rel straight away I run from... I need time to ajust and keep my independance.

yep saturn is allways at play in lone term relationships or ones that teach us something we are supose to go through.. good/bad and the ugly
merry christmas everyone

[tokyo.lights]

Hmmmmm :sideways: In synastry me and my guy have no aspects between Venus & Uranus....but in composite Venus is opposite Uranus by less than 6°. Stability and consistency really aren't part of our relationship's vocabulary, funny considering our composite Sun, Mercury, Venus and Mars are in Taurus.

And with transiting Uranus about to aspect both our Venuses I'm not holding my breath for the next 2 years. He has Uranus in his 7th house anyway.

(http://www.cafeastrology.com/composite/venus_uranus.html)
"it might seem that when one partner is feeling needy, the other partner either bolts or isn't around"

haha how did they know?:pinched:

[Optimistic Approach]

I'm all too familar!

I met him and felt an instant attraction; it was electrifying. We exchanged numbers and sort of felt into this routine of calling each other at night, and we would talk endlessly. Whenever we were out with friends, we would all meet up and hang out together, and it was like we were alone in a crowd at times. There was an incredible sense of comfort between us, despite the fact that we never discussed our relationship status. People knew us. You couldn't mention one without the other coming to mind.

A couple years go by and I knew he was it for me. I wanted more, and when I finally got it, we crumbled. I wasn't used to having him as my official bf; it was a huge adjustment. He caught wind of some rumor, and we had a long talk before coming to the conclusion that we should take a break. He's still in my life now, and he has tried to get back together with me quite a few times, but our timing is terrible. He changed me in some big way, and there will always be this special quality about us that can't be touched.

Uranus in our synastry:
his Uranus conj my Moon
Uranus opp Venus
Uranus sextile ASC

Composite:
Uranus trine Mercury
Uranus sextile Mars

We also have some heavy-duty Saturn ties, both in synastry and composite.


That same day we broke up, his friend ended up giving me a ride home because we lived close to one another. He was also going through a break-up. I knew his ex and told him if he needed someone to talk, he could call me. Later that night, he calls me and we just began talking about everything under the sun, including our relationship issues. I don't know how it happened, but it did- we hung out a few times and it got serious between the two of us. I didn't understand any of it, I felt compelled and it was just so out of my character! It was kept secret at first because of the circumstances, but I hated hididing things, so I can clean and feelings were hurt. It sucked. I cut ties with a lot of people to be with him. The relationship was explosive. Sure, there were some great times and we bonded on a deep level (we were practically obsessed with one another), but nothing about us being together was entirely healthy. Saturn kept us bound, Pluto: heavily involved, and Uranus didn't like when things got comfy. He brought up marriage with my parents and it just shocked me! We were on/off for 2 years 'til I finally decided to put an end to things once and for all. I got rid of EVERYTHING & ANYTHING to do with him. It's hard to imagine that we were ever something... I really can't see it now.

Synastry him-me:
Sun Trine Sun
Sun Sextile Neptune
Sun Conjunction Pluto
Sun Trine Midheaven
Moon Opposition Mercury
Moon Square Mars
Mercury Trine Mercury
Venus Conjunction Saturn
Venus Conjunction Uranus
Mars Sextile Sun
Mars Square Moon
Mars Trine Neptune
Saturn Trine Mercury
Saturn Trine Venus
Uranus Opposition Jupiter
Pluto Semi-square Venus

Uranus in the composite:
Sun square Uranus
Moon conjunct Uranus
Mercury trine Uranus
Venus square Uranus
Mars opposite Uranus
Jupiter trine Uranus
... :pinched: that pretty much sums it up LOL

[Munch]

This is a little old now, but I wanted to bring it back out because it talked mostly about Uranus aspects to personal planets, but I was wondering about them to the "middle" planets, Jupiter and Saturn, or things like nodes. I've had a weirdly "on-again/off-again" relationship with a fellow, and in our composite we have Uranus opposite Jupiter/N.Node/Chiron, and quincunx Saturn. But no involvement to personal planets or Asc/Desc/MC/IC. Incidently we have pretty strong Saturn involvement with Moon and Venus in composite and synastry, and a near-exact Sun-Venus conjunction (with looser Mercury) in composite. So these things seem to hold us together. But I'm curious about the Uranian effect even on the "middle"/social planets? I've always assumed it played out less ... personally. But I did find this discussion interesting. (And yes, we have a somewhat "atypical" relationship, and yes, he's younger than me.)

(Incidently, in his natal chart, he has a Sun-Uranus conjunction in Libra/11th, and in mine, I have Uranus setting on my descendant. I do try to pay attention to natal placements when looking at composites, if the planetary energy has "play" in the native's personal life.)


This is great! My man also has a Sun/Uranus conjunction and I have moon parallel Uranus and Uranus is Singleton in my chart. He is younger than me by six years as well.

For us, I see our Uranus (teehee) as a 'glue.' We need our Uranian energy to stay together. It's interesting like that. This relationship is the longest and healthiest one either of us has ever been in. It's rock solid.

[fullmoonlibra]

And what about Uranus conjunct South Node, and on the other hand Saturn/Pluto conjunct South Node (opposite Sun/NN) in synastry?
In composite Uranus is part of T square Venus - Uranus - Mars (focal).
Quite confusing with Saturn involved.

[fullmoonlibra]

And what about Uranus conjunct South Node, and on the other hand Saturn/Pluto conjunct South Node (opposite Sun/NN) in synastry?
In composite Uranus is part of T square Venus - Uranus - Mars (focal).
Quite confusing with Saturn involved.

Does anyone has an idea? Please :sad: ??