Is he serious? Very confused here

[mikkolover]

Hello,

I am still a novice, but am looking for some clearer answers. The events occurred last Friday 27th of April after 11 pm (GMT +2 hours). I had a one night stand ( I am married- I am Cancer, 7.17.77 born at 1:39 pm, GMT -8 hours- california ) with a gemini ( 6.4.81 born in GMT +2 hours - finland).

He is in a relationship, and I am married to a pisces (3.6.72 born GMT +1 hour- the Netherlands). We were married 7.12.1998 in GMT - 5h - tennessee)

Above mentioned Gemini and I slept together 1 time, October 9 or 10th 2006 (GMT +2 hours).

He and I have not seen eachother in all that time, but 2 chance meetings. I must emphasize I have no intention of leaving my husband, and nor does he in leaving his girl. We had an amazing time. An instant connection and were very natural together.

I knew it was more than just sex for him, as he talked about it earlier. For me, it was a mistake, but a wonderful one.

We told our partners immediately at his initiative and thendidn't have contact until april 27th.

This night he met with me and my husband and some friends, and we started talking. In the beginning he emphasized it was all a big mistake still and that he still isnt forgiven by his girl.

He said we were selfish and it was something he could never do again. Later, he revealed to me that he has been totally in love with me for over 2 years and that he can't stop thinking about me. We kissed and made tentative plans to meet again. He revealed much in the hours that followed. That if the situations were different he'd marry me in a second, and that he feels so lost.

The night ended with me in a very confused place. I didn't expect to be there frankly and didn't know what to think. The next day I got a text from him saying it was all drunken talk and I should forget all those idiotic plans made- it's never going to happen again. He was hostile and cold and I haven't heard from him since, and probably won't again.

I wasn't surprised as the guilt has hit him pretty hard from the morning after, but at the same time I've been thrown for a loop. Having not thought of him for months, I am suddenly feeling something I don't necessarily need or want right now.

Is this just typical gemini behavior or is there something I am missing? Does he indeed feel something for me and is just too scared to do anything?

Any advice is appreciated. Thank you,

[jjj]

Hi Mikkolover,

your story touched me, I didnt calculate your charts as I do no have time right now, but I am Estonian (so nearly Finnish:) by nationality, and I can confirm that nordic men usually do not talk about feelings and if he told you those things, a polar bear as he is, obviously he has feelings for you. In vino veritas. And Geminis are very sensitive and not superficial at all.

Jan

[tikana]

HELLO

this is horary board not synastry!

wrong board!

Tik

*** btw, Jan, I was in estonia in 89 and signed a petition for Estonian freedom *****

[Sweet Stars]

They don't even say romantic things unless they are into you. I am a Gemini. Looks like he cares about you but the timing is off.

[mikkolover]

Thank you for the positive remarks and for taking the time to read it. I do appreciate the replies. And it does help, so thank you!

I don't care for the tone however of tik. I am new to these boards, and to astrology, and this seemed to fit. You should be ashamed for being such a mean hearted person! Nice karma you are setting yourself up for.. :-)

[jjj]

Hi again,

as I am a bit ill, I stayed at home and I run your charts. I am a beginner, so do not take my input very seriously. I seems to me that your astrological compatibility is much more powerful with your husband. The synastry and the composite with your Finnish lover didnt seem very significant. But wait, maybe some senior member also says his opinion.

Smiles and courage,
Jan

[Atruism]

HELLO

this is horary board not synastry!

wrong board!

Tik

*** btw, Jan, I was in estonia in 89 and signed a petition for Estonian freedom *****HELLO?

This is a friendly astrological forum not a place for idiotic rudeness!

Wrong attitude!

Atruism

*** btw, everyone, I was just thinking that some people are so naive *****

On behalf of all the decent, positive and helpful members here mikkolover... I would like to welcome you to the forum. This is a great web site and there are a lot of marvelous / intelligent people here that can help with a wide range of topics. Please do not let one member's impolite actions make you think that you cannot benefit from enjoying what is on offer here :)