Mother passed away, major transits, help!

[evangeliana]

I have been suffering for 6 months, my mother got sick, and she passed away 4 days ago, 20/07/2012, I feel awful, and feel that I won't be able to get over it. I always believed that she will be ok, and I'm alone now, everyone that I know is around me nowadays and wants to help me,why does it have to be like this? Here is my solar returns, first one is 2011/2012, second solar return 2012/2013,and third one natal,transits and progressions.Will I be ok?What will be next?is there a sign about my mother's death? I had started a relationship before my mom passed away, I don't know what will be about him, I trust him, I believe in him but don't know what to do... Thanks and please reply.

[evangeliana]

any ideas?

[erinj]

i have to go back to work but I and my mom will look at your charts and get back to you. lost my grandma feb 16 and it gets easier. you are grieving and it takes a while there are better days ahead will follow up in next day or so.

[evangeliana]

i have to go back to work but I and my mom will look at your charts and get back to you. lost my grandma feb 16 and it gets easier. you are grieving and it takes a while there are better days ahead will follow up in next day or so.

thanks, I'm looking forward to hear from you, and anyone else?

[Peregrine_Moon]

I'm sorry for your loss, Evangeliana. I will look at your charts tonight and tomorrow and tell you what I see.

For now, though, I'd like to urge you to take comfort in the presence of your family and friends. Let them take care of you. Don't spend too much time worrying about how you will manage or how long it will take before you feel better. Grieving takes a long time in many ways, and rightly so. Why should we "get over" the loss of those who have been deeply important to us? They are not replaceable like a broken teacup or some spilled salt. I believe that we don't get over loss, but we learn to accept it, integrate it into our lives and ourselves, and to move forward without denying the critical value of the one who is no longer with us in this life. You will feel better, in time. You will. Trust in that.

[evangeliana]

any ideas?