him or not???

[dumdumgirl]

so i got a numerology readin in september, and was told that something would happen in november
..and i already had a boyfriend...i thought it was impossible unless it was a particular guy who lived
so faraway...and it did happen with that particular guy...i got a tarot reading this month...i think the women was more of a con artist...
she told me a few things that seemed true but stilll
she told me that particular guywas the one...yes things looks really negative wit h him rigth now, he is dealing with his ex ..maybe they are back together ect
i feel ridiculous
now ...i really feel i could fall in love with him really easily...intensely and everything, but he wont let me.yet he still plays with me.i dunno..
my aunt also gave me a tarot reading and saw him,but she is just a beginners..and i dunno i know al those things do not tell the true but i dunno
i am discouraged.i never been in love and i guess i wont be.
i really feel i could with him, he prolly does not care.

[Pisceanfool]

Don't think you wont ever love... the tarot readings are very true when you are willing to take them seriously and use your intuition. I would say if hes "the one" then you will both make more of an effort(not saying you're not), he might just like to play games also. Not sure what exactly you want from this thread, maybe you can post both your charts.

[dumdumgirl]

i just have mine..well i dont know how to post it
i was born
february 26th 1982
in Agen france at 11.19 in the evening

i dont know for him
well i know he was born i think january the first 1978 Hell A

[dumdumgirl]

i guess this is my chart
http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3;btyp=w2gw;cid=oc3fileV0fK0X-u1175492382&nhor=1

i was born the same day as johnny cash how romantic

[Pisceanfool]

Sorry but i'm not sure where "Hell A" is but a great site for charts is http://www.astro.com/cgi/genchart.cgi?&cid=ix6file8jpRMe-u1163876440

Edit: nvm but can you show his chart?

[dumdumgirl]

sorry LA
so this is his supposed chart..i dont know what time he was born though i just put 2 in the afternoon

http://www.astro.com/cgi/chart.cgi?rs=3;btyp=w2gw;cid=oc3fileV0fK0X-u1175492382&nhor=2

[Pisceanfool]

I am still fairly new to synestry, but you guys do have some pretty good synestry. You dont form many aspects but you have many planets in good signs for some "chemistry". Astrology cant really tell the future exactly but i wouldn't say hes "the one". You both have libra stelliums and venus in capricorn, which is also his sun. You both also have tension between Venus/Mars indicating some relationship issues, possibly wanting what you don't need. And the biggest thing i noticed your asc is conj his dsc(and vise versa), the 7th house cusp is a good indicator of attractions. You also both have bowl charts meaning general imbalance, however very good for learing from life and experiences. All of your energies are on the same side of the zodiac, not sure how this will relate to your "chemistry". I would think you would want "the one" to balance you out a bit.

Anyway i hope this helps a bit maybe someone with more experience will comment.

[dumdumgirl]

...yeah..I dunno..thank you very much it helped me understand a bit how to read a chart..
the thing is i dont know exactly what time he was born and this would be important for his rising sign. However his venus does not changewhatever the time is.
We both broke up with our ex at the same time. he has a lot of trouble dealing with her now and try to fix it...

[dumdumgirl]

'the one' was the word of the lady reading the cards...
iguess i am an idio wanting this guy who obviouslyjust wanted to use me

[Pisceanfool]

'the one' was the word of the lady reading the cards...
iguess i am an idio wanting this guy who obviouslyjust wanted to use me

I hope this is not based on what i said because i am still young and inexperienced both in relationships and Astrology. Conjunctions are the strongest indicators of synestry, and you guys both have alot of your energy in the same side of the zodiac so this could mean your great together. The only thing is that your planets are at different sides of the signs so they dont actually form aspects. I would offer this, however, dont be so rushed into finding your "true love"(or whatever term you prefer) it will happen when you need it (although you may want it badly we dont always need what we want). Even the bad things in life are for a reason, we continually get the lessons we need. Look at things in your life and see what lessons you need to learn, try to be objective (use your Aquarian Mercury i know you cant be as dumb as you seem to think). Your Aries moon can make you very impatient and impulsive, you are still young. Also you may want to read about the moon opposing mars if you havn't.

By the way, we have just about exactly conj. venus's and the same almost the same sun. I know that from my experience the capricorn desires are not quite so great with the Piscean needs. You may feel like you want love NOW, but have patience (i need to learn this as well). Learn the lessons from Saturn and Capricorn. And again you may not be as unintelligent as you think, if people always tell you that then don't listen to them. Your mercury conj the IC and your planets being at the bottom of the chart makes you in your own world. Heck, people used to think Einstein was stupid! But i really dont know you other then in terms of your chart. I am also guessing English isn't your first language.

Anyway, i hope this helps:) . Take what you want and leave the rest.

[dumdumgirl]

..no english is not my first language. but i am very pessimistic.it is not that i want to find true love.but i really feel an energy from him, i dont know how to explain this. though he is a capri, he is very high in temper and get very easily angered i noticed..so maybe some fire somewhere.he always is in conflict with somebody.he is very artistic.self centered.encline to earthly pleasures.attracted to illegal substances and things like this.he gets by in everyday life even if always in need of money.