could you help me?

[ninive]

please, could you help me in finding my way? I need some opinions, because I don ' t know if mine is correct. Is it true gemini sun, asc pisces, is empty? I mean gemini is it only good in giving and taking, and getting informations, or also in thinking and feeling by itself? what about this guy leo 20 august 1973. Do I love him? thanks for all ur answers! my data is 09 june 1981 H. 01,15 am Italian time.

[wilsontc]

Ninive,

Italy is a BIG country: where EXACTLY were you born (city/town name)? Also, Gemini modifying Sun

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Gemini (thinking, also talking) modifying Sun (self-expression); a person with this combination expresses themselves by talking.

Pisces modifying Ascendant

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Pisces (spirituality, also confusion) modifying Ascendant (self); a person with this combination may be spiritually-oriented but confused about who they are, particularly at creating a boundary between the outside world and themselves.

So let's take a look at your questions. No astrologer can TELL you whether or not you love another person, only YOU can decide that. An astrologer can indicate whether there are challenges to the relationship and what can be done to work through them; or indicate whether someone will be helpful to them or possibly harmful, but only the person themselves can decide whether they love somebody else. So if THAT'S all you need, then you already have your answer! ;)

It's helpful to get other people's opinions, but always remember that YOU have the final say! ;)

For more about learning basic astrology see:
http://www.geocities.com/wilsontctc

Explaining,

Tim

[ninive]

hi tim, you were so kind! I thank you! I have forgotten writing my complete data, I mean the city I was born is Palermo , Sicily. 09 june 1981 h 1, 15 am. Italian time.

I would like to ask to find my way, because as you have understood this interpretation of my chart is very important.

I think it can help in comprehending different truths about me. Who am I? who are the others around me. Early I was only considering the sun sign, but now , I red enough posts, and I start knowing there is not only this. I have to learn to be myself with me, with my desires, and with others. but I have to know who am I. Which instruments I have to use? astrology or not? could you read my natal chart? what does it say, what concrete things? I would like to verify, not because I don' t trust u, but because I need different opinions. and this is important.
Am I so empty as my sun sign could say? only giving and getting information? Am I so confused to me and to other's opinon?

I have not considered certain sort of people in my life, because of their sun signs. Now I have to stop in doing this, and I thank u because of your comprehension!!
ninive

[wilsontc]

ninive,

Astrology is a LOT more complex than Sun signs, but it is not so complex that it is not easy to understand, once you understand the symbolism in the chart. For example, because most of your planets are on the right side of your chart, you focus on OTHER people and on their needs. As you correctly suggest, this complete focus on others can cause YOU to get left out of your focus!

With Neptune (spirituality, also confusion, illusion) conjunct (energy is combined with) Midheaven (outer world), you have a spiritual approach to the outer world, which can be confusing, because it breaks down the barriers between yourself and your outer world. Deciding what is "out there" and what is "in here" can be challenging.

With three planets focused in the 7th house (relationships), relationships are important to you. And with Pluto (transformation, also control), you have the ability to either control or be controlled by your relationships. With this placement of Pluto it is VERY important that you work to create your OWN control in the relationship: as mentioned, if control is not gained it is frequently used against you.

You have a Kite (strong focus) focused on Leo (self-expression, also dating, hobbies, performing arts) modifying North node (future goals) in the 5th house (self-expression, also dating, hobbies) near the 6th house (daily work), so you may tend to do "daily dating" in which your hobby has become dating others. If you enjoy dating, by all means continue, but you also might like to pursue other hobbies or maybe get into acting of some sort. With Neptune conjunct the Midheaven, pretending to be different characters (acting) may come very natural to you. Perhaps acting in local plays or other performances.

You have a Grand Square (stong focus) between the Active house cusps (edge of the houses), indicating that it is very important for you to take action in your life. The house cusps are all in Learning signs, indicating that your life activities are very much a learning experience.

Overall in the chart there is a balance of challenges and easy energies to help you "ride out" those challenges. So take action in learning more about astrology (I already gave you a web site which you can look at! ;) ) and take control of yourself and your world.

Explaining the basics,

Tim

[ninive]

hi Tim,
I really thanks you for explaining basics. I agree with you, I have to focus more on myself than on the others. I thought my relationship with this leo guy could go on, because of a sort of compatibility, but it doesn t go.
I mean he doesnt love me as I do. he respects me, and feels phisical attractions but nothing else.
when you say daily dating, is it about love? Do you mean I love meeting others every day? How can I learn in focus on myself? u have suggested acting in local plays or other performances can help me.
these house cusps indicate I have to learn a lot! that s one way to me to know myself as better as I can. Do u mean this?

thanks a lot,
ninive!

[wilsontc]

ninive,

when you say daily dating, is it about love? Do you mean I love meeting others every day? How can I learn in focus on myself? u have suggested acting in local plays or other performances can help me.
these house cusps indicate I have to learn a lot! that s one way to me to know myself as better as I can. Do u mean this?

You have strong self-expressive energy in your chart, which means there is an interest in expressing yourself to others. One way we can express ourself is to go on dates, another way is to do performances in some way or another. I was suggesting that with a tendency toward illusion in the outer world (Neptune conjunct Midheaven) you might enjoy purposefully creating your own illusions through acting, in which you pretend to be someone else, either on stage or on film.

In addition, your nature is to be around others, but when around others it is important YOU be in control. YOU decide who you want to see in a relationship and who you DON'T see. Take control over your relationships with others so you feel more personally "in control" of yourself and your life.

Finally...have fun! Your urge to express yourself is partly about an urge to go out in the world and have a good time with others. So enjoy life...and let go of those people who only want to hold you back in life!

Explaining,

Tim