Will this one break my heart?

[saggie_gal]

Me:

http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cjvefilew041nY-u1166456252/astro_w2gw_01______hp.49403.31703.gif

Him:

http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cjvefilew041nY-u1166456252/astro_w2gw_04_jared_hp.49437.32357.gif

I have no birth time for him though.

It's weird bc with him it seems to be the opposite of most guys. His ACTIONS make me think he cares a lot, but he never says anything (unless he's been drinking and I don't take that to heart). It's only been 3 months since we started dating, but I'm already starting to fall for him and it scares me since I'm not sure if he is feeling the same way. I know he's attracted to me, but is there more? Can you tell if he feels a connection to me also or is it one-sided with me getting hurt in the end?? PLEASE HELP ME because I am almost ready to walk away to spare my feelings getting deeper. Thanks so much!!!

[saggie_gal]

With no birth time I'm not sure if his moon is in scorp OR in sag and his ascendant is all wrong lol

[rahu]

hi saggie,
looking at the composite chart of this relationship,mars is square to venus showing a strong emotional and sexual attraction.but it goes down hill from there.pluto is opposed to venus which means it is all about sex,as pluto is a very selfish planet and takes away any love that venus brings.the moon is opposed to saturn showing a distance between you two and uranus is square both these planets forming a T square.this aspect is a major breakup aspect,it indicates that there is little chance that this will turn into a stable loving relationaship.the saturn/neptune midpoint is conjunct pluto indicating that there is often drugs or alcohol present when you are intimate.this also can mean that he will lie to you just for sex.the pluto/uranus midpoint is square to the saturn/mars midpoint.this shows that he has a tendency to be violent if he doesn't get his way.this is a very bad aspect as it indicates that you will probably be hurt physically as well as emotionally if you don't cut it off.
rahu

[saggie_gal]

Thanks so much Rahu! I appreciate your input, even though it isn't exactly what I wanted to hear :-)

So you can get all that info without even having his proper birth time?? It's strange because he doesn't seem violent at all (then again, it's only been 3 months) and I see no red flags (yet). Thanks for all your help!

[2rainbows]

saggie,
said without looking at details,
you've been around the block a few times, what are you thinking with this guy? it is my opinion, the worst relationships are built around flesh.
come on saggie, you deserve better and can do better,
2rainbows

[saggie_gal]

Thanks 2rainbows. Yeah, I agree about the worst relationships being built around flesh, but it seems to be based on a lot more. We spend a ton of time together and the funny thing is, he doesn't seem to want it nearly as much as me! LOL So even though things have been great so far, you guys really think I should move on? I mean, synastry isn't 100% right???

[2rainbows]

you said he only talks when he drinks. how much does he drink?

[saggie_gal]

He actually talks a whole lot - it's just the really mushy lovey stuff that comes out when he drinks. LOL He doesn't drink during the week but on a few weekends I have seen him drink quite a bit. I have been a little concerned about this bc I definitely don't want to be with an alcoholic, but must admit, I too am drinking more with him to calm my nerves. For some reason he makes me really nervous. He said he drinks more with me too, so I don't know.

[2rainbows]

yes, there are couples who have the ability to wind up each other's nerves. the last thing either should want is to drive each other to drink. you are both better off with one who will calm the airs, not stir them up.
just from his astro pic, he has a fairly colorful 12th house.
plus the age difference rubs me a bit the wrong way,
unless it is completely for sexual reasons, (again a bad idea to build a relationship on) age differences are hard to deal with.
i see red flags,
2rainbows

[saggie_gal]

Thanks so much 2rainbows! :-) I am still very new to this astrology stuff, but I can't get his correct house placements without a birth time right? So can we know that his 12th house is colorful?

Do you think 6 years is that big a difference? All my friends are his age, so I don't even notice it (I am young for my age and he seems older).

[2rainbows]

in april and for quite some time uranus will be conjuncting your ascendant, this type of transit will likely insist you be single. so if you want your sex fling for another bit, go for it, but tell him so. uranus craves freedom,
we are not free with someone else.
2rainbows

[mwright]

unless you are both absolutely committed to being in this relationship FOR THE REST OF YOUR NATURAL LIVES, chances are it will end, which will probably hurt.

that said, you both have a tremendous opportunity for growth - together and separately.

if you pick up some of your friend's cancerian traits, you can become more aware and appreciative of your own emotional needs.

once you can become truly sensitive to your own feelings, you can extend some real sensitivity to you partner (that's what he needs).

ultimately, if the relationship ends in heartache, you will realize that it's not because of your mate - it's because you're only human.

[Atria]

Me:
http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cjvefilew041nY-u1166456252/astro_w2gw_01______hp.76037.19686.gif

Him:

http://www.astro.com/tmpd/cjvefilew041nY-u1166456252/astro_w2gw_04_jared_hp.76049.19886.gif

I have no birth time for him though.

It's weird bc with him it seems to be the opposite of most guys. His ACTIONS make me think he cares a lot, but he never says anything (unless he's been drinking and I don't take that to heart). It's only been 3 months since we started dating, but I'm already starting to fall for him and it scares me since I'm not sure if he is feeling the same way. I know he's attracted to me, but is there more? Can you tell if he feels a connection to me also or is it one-sided with me getting hurt in the end?? PLEASE HELP ME because I am almost ready to walk away to spare my feelings getting deeper. Thanks so much!!!

Hello , I am new at this forum but older than you, you are like my daughter and we always look at the natal charts of the boys around her, I dont like the conjuntion of mars with saturn, is destructive or self destructive, sometimes indicate depression if that goes to oneself,and sometimes indicate cruelty, but we dont know the time so we dont in what houses are the planets presents,and i cant say where is exactly this conjunction disturbing, but you say that he drinks, so that began to worry me, and the squares of venus and neptune to mars -saturn made more negative this conjuction adding the opposition neptune- venus, so venus is in bad cosmic state, when venus is touched by saturn venus became more colder and mars squaring neptune is also not good, depends on the determinations, the presence in houses and his determinations, where they go by aspect or goverments, be very alert and care yourself. Dont fall in love til you know him well. Best wishes

[Belgianmoonguy]

You don't know the time you say, so we don't know if he has a powerful 12th house...
Anyhow, someone born on the 25th June can't be bad at all :38:

You say you want more sex then him... somehow i can believe that...
You have Mars conjunct Moon (ruler house 5) in Aries and Sun in a fire sign... Venus (ruler house 8) in Capricorn... So ruler house 5 and 8 in signs with a strong sex drive

He has Mars in Virgo conjunct Saturn... talk about restrictions in sexual matters, could lessen his sex drift and Venus in Gemini... expressing his urges more verbally... could talk you into heaven
And you say he says mushy stuff while drunk... with his Venus opposed to Neptune, i can believe that...

Anyhow... it could have potential, if it is what you want for the moment... as long as you don't make any long term plans... but I don't want to imply you don't have a future together, i always say 'seize the day'

Enjoy