No planets in my 7th house?

[iawtcc]

I have no planets in my 7th house. Does this mean I will not marry?

[IleneK]

I have no planets in my 7th house. Does this mean I will not marry?

Hi, iawtcc,

Having no planets in the 7th does not preclude marriage.

The 7th house is influenced also by the planet that rules the sign on its cusp, and the aspects to that ruling planet. The traditional ruler of Pisces is Jupiter, and your natal Jupiter trines your Moon to the exact degree, so this bodes well. It also makes a sextile aspect to your natal Mars, so there is easy flowing energy to the 7th house ruler.

Also, even if there are no planets natally, planets will transit your 7th, activating it. And lastly, and perhaps most importantly, your North Node, your destiny, your life's calling is positioned in your 7th. So it is quite possible that you may marry with no planets in your 7th house.

Cheers,

[iawtcc]

Thank you IleneK for your answer, it really shed some light!
Best wishes!

[IleneK]

You are very welcome.

[terrybgood]

my main concern is you even meeting or talking with people. its seems you have neglected this area of life. Small talkk is very important. Can you tell me why you have a tendency to be a lone ranger or not keen on making some friends??

[persephone5]

Everybody has at least a couple houses unocupied even if you include north node and chiron. God help us if it meant we wouldn't marry or get a good job or have decent friends because of it! I would be doomed in that case haha. I only have 3 houses occupied using the placidus chart method and 4 using whole signs. And for the record. I am married with nothing, not even chiron or NN in my 7th. My husband has nothing in his either :-p

I should add, I wasn't counting chiron and nn...I never know if I should!

[IleneK]

Everybody has at least a couple houses unocupied even if you include north node and chiron. God help us if it meant we wouldn't marry or get a good job or have decent friends because of it! I would be doomed in that case haha. I only have 3 houses occupied using the placidus chart method and 4 using whole signs. And for the record. I am married with nothing, not even chiron or NN in my 7th. My husband has nothing in his either :-p

I should add, I wasn't counting chiron and nn...I never know if I should!

If North Node, our life's calling, is in a house, then it is definitely to be counted.

[persephone5]

If North Node, our life's calling, is in a house, then it is definitely to be counted.

Well, I never know when to count it or not because people focus so much on planets that they almost never seem to mention nn at all. Sometimes people mention chiron but it seems nn in particular gets left out. I've never identified much with it so I tend to ignore it too. I'm not saying I should, just that I tend to.

My nn is in the 12th house.

[IleneK]

Well, I never know when to count it or not because people focus so much on planets that they almost never seem to mention nn at all. Sometimes people mention chiron but it seems nn in particular gets left out. I've never identified much with it so I tend to ignore it too. I'm not saying I should, just that I tend to.

My nn is in the 12th house.

Well, I think I did not speak as I would have wished and I am sorry about my tone. I really wasn't saying that you must count it, only that it is really important.

But it is true that folks don't talk about it too much and I certainly did not pay attention to it until I felt comfortable in my understanding of the planets.

[iawtcc]

my main concern is you even meeting or talking with people. its seems you have neglected this area of life. Small talkk is very important. Can you tell me why you have a tendency to be a lone ranger or not keen on making some friends??

I don't understand your question really. I can talk to people real easily. I have a small amount of close friends (max of 6). The rest are people I work with or hangout with friends of friends. My main issues are getting hurt, being used, and meeting fake people. I sometimes think I'm good at seeing people for who they are after meeting them for a few mintues (whether they're negative, etc). I've think people are too harsh to judge as well..so showing my true colors can be hard.

[iawtcc]

If North Node, our life's calling, is in a house, then it is definitely to be counted.

I've had my chart read before and no astrologer has brought up NN. The astrologer I went to told me she sees me with no children, and not marrying in this life time..which sadden me greatly. Another astrologer read my vedic chart and said he sees marriage after september 2013. My chart has leo in juno which means I can be "in love with love". Your answer made me happy :)

[IleneK]

I've had my chart read before and no astrologer has brought up NN. The astrologer I went to told me she sees me with no children, and not marrying in this life time..which sadden me greatly. Another astrologer read my vedic chart and said he sees marriage after september 2013. My chart has leo in juno which means I can be "in love with love". Your answer made me happy :)

I think the possibilities for you are certainly much greater than "no children, and not marrying in this life time." At least I cannot see that in your natal chart.

[persephone5]

Well, I think I did not speak as I would have wished and I am sorry about my tone. I really wasn't saying that you must count it, only that it is really important.

But it is true that folks don't talk about it too much and I certainly did not pay attention to it until I felt comfortable in my understanding of the planets.

No worries. I didn't think that you meant I must count it or anything, I was just explaining why I didn't :-)

[Cloverskies77]

I have no planets in my 7th house. Does this mean I will not marry?

Having no planets in a house only means you have nothing to work on in that house. You do have your true node in the 7th house though....in pisces. I also have my true node in the 7th house and I have been married for many yrs. North node in the 7th house means that you will perfect the art of relating to other people on a one to one basis. You will learn about the balance of giving and recieving through close relationships such as marriage, best friends, or even business partners. Diplomacy can become your strongpoint. With the north node in the 7th house chances are good for working on relationships that may include marriage. Pisces is in the 7th house so you may meet artistic or highly spiritual types of people. You'll have an extraordinary need to be needed. I really wouldnt worry about not marrying :smile: Good luck.

Cloverskies :cool:

[iawtcc]

Hello cloverskies!

Thank you for your answer :joyful: I'm relieved to hear I will not be alone forever. I've be single for quiet sometime now, and I was starting to think I would not meet anyone in this life time (even though I am still considerably young).

Another thing that had me worried was the astrologist I went to a year ago told me I would not marry in this life time nor have children. Everything she toldl me was negative. It really hurt.

I have been going through a growth since 2009. I ended a very rough six year relationship with a man who was very abusive and controlling. I began to question life in general. The way people think, their reactions to certain situations, and how harshly they judge. The down that I have been experiencing for the past three years does not seem like it wants to end. I've changed the way I look at things, and how I deal with issues. I now voice my opinion when something bothers me or I feel like I'm being used. Where as before I would keep my mouth shut because I didn't want to hurt someone's feelings. I weeded out the negative, fake, and unreliable friends and kept those precious to me close to my heart.

I've learned to listen to my intuition in any situation, and refuse to get close to people who I think are not right. It has been a long road, and it's hard but at the same time very freeing.

I am happy where I am right now, but not fully there yet. I grew up a lot, matured, and learned how to stand on my own two feet. North Node being in Pisces is about learning spirituality. I definitely opened my eyes to a spiritual belief, and I think more people should.

I asked someone if I was in my Saturn Return because of the way I've been feeling, and the "growing up" I've been dealing with...even though I know Saturn Return isn't until someone reaches between the ages of 29-31.
They told me this: Transiting Pluto did, however, recently move conjunct to your Neptune in your 5th house. This is often a disillusioning transit, peeling away Neptune's layer of illusion, particularly here in the fifth house ruling romance and leisure. That might be the transit that had you down. And it looks like you mastered it. Remember, what Pluto removes, we didn't really need anyway.

Very interesting!

I guess why I was so stuck on thinking I would never find someone is because I have Leo in Juno. I guess I'm "in love with love" and was told "I fall in love with unobtainable" people.

Any-who! Sorry for talking your ear off, just something I wanted to share. Again, thank you for your answer..it was greatly appreciated :lol:

Best wishes!
Iawtcc

[Cloverskies77]

Iawtcc,
Glad to hear that your in a better place now and out of a bad relationship. My sister also has Pisces in the 7th house...and has gotten out of a 7 yr bad relationship as well. Pisces in this house can bring you spirtual, artistic, compassionate people BUT,,,you have to be careful because it can also bring you every science project you dont want. Such as people who drink, drugs & being deceived by people,,,,because Pisces ruling planet is Neptune. Neptune the planet of deception,delusion,addiction, illusion,confinement,abandonment and spirtual enlightenment. So threre is a positive & negative side of Pisces,,,you just need to weed out people who wont be good for you in a relationship with this placement. Its not surprising that you asked about marriage because your Sun sign is Libra and libra is all about relationships and partnering. Libra loves to be in love. My rising sign is libra as much as im a Sun Aquarius,,,,my libra rising makes me want serious relationships.
You mentioned about saturn return they usually hit at about age 27yrs-30yrs and after that it will be 57yr-60yrs. Nice to hear that you are realizing you deserve better in your life, sometimes its better to be single and happy,,,than be in a unhappy relationship & everyone deserves to be treated well by their partner & so do you. Best wishes & hope to see you around the forum :)

Cloverskies