overthetop10
01-22-2007, 09:00 PM
So I have this problem...
I'm recently single, and am really interested in a particular guy who sings in a group with me here at college. He and I flirt often, and we get along quite well as friends, though the problem is that I'm gay and he says he's not, though I've never heard him say that he's straight.
I was having a conversation with some of my female friends last night and they all commented that he has a reputation for not being interested in women. And as far as I've heard, there are a number of beautiful women who are very interested in him (I can't say I blame them; he's stunningly gorgeous and has the perfect body).
I feel bad about this, but I'm curious to see what astrology has to say about my being interested in him. I know his birthday and so cast a chart for a possible relationship with him (I had to guess at his birth time, so I calculated it so that his ascendant would be in Taurus, like me -- he is a singer and a taciturn but stubborn person, and this way at least the houses in the composite would closely resemble my own).
We would have a big ol' stellium in what would be my eighth house; Mars-Mercury-Sun-Venus-Neptune, in that order, within a fifteen degree radius, with Uranus close by, conjunct Mars & Mercury, and Jupiter on the other side conjunct Neptune & Venus. Oh, and this stellium includes the natal Venuses & Neptunes of both of our charts, and the composite Sun is within a degree of the Galactic Center and his natal Venus.
I don't know anything about transits to composite charts, but it seems like having transiting Pluto tightly conjunct both his natal Venus and the composite Sun from this chart is an opportunity for him, perhaps, to realize a different side of his sexuality?
Maybe a cautious advance is in order, quite soon? In the next few days we're both experiencing some friendly Venus & Mars aspects and his solar return is happening around that time...
I'm worried that I'm being crazy and misinterpreting our relationship as being something more than it has the possibility to be -- and honestly, astrologically, I have good reason to be unsure of my impressions or my chances for success with Neptune & Saturn squaring my natal Moon in the 1st and Sun/Saturn in the 7th.
Whew. Any ideas?
I'm recently single, and am really interested in a particular guy who sings in a group with me here at college. He and I flirt often, and we get along quite well as friends, though the problem is that I'm gay and he says he's not, though I've never heard him say that he's straight.
I was having a conversation with some of my female friends last night and they all commented that he has a reputation for not being interested in women. And as far as I've heard, there are a number of beautiful women who are very interested in him (I can't say I blame them; he's stunningly gorgeous and has the perfect body).
I feel bad about this, but I'm curious to see what astrology has to say about my being interested in him. I know his birthday and so cast a chart for a possible relationship with him (I had to guess at his birth time, so I calculated it so that his ascendant would be in Taurus, like me -- he is a singer and a taciturn but stubborn person, and this way at least the houses in the composite would closely resemble my own).
We would have a big ol' stellium in what would be my eighth house; Mars-Mercury-Sun-Venus-Neptune, in that order, within a fifteen degree radius, with Uranus close by, conjunct Mars & Mercury, and Jupiter on the other side conjunct Neptune & Venus. Oh, and this stellium includes the natal Venuses & Neptunes of both of our charts, and the composite Sun is within a degree of the Galactic Center and his natal Venus.
I don't know anything about transits to composite charts, but it seems like having transiting Pluto tightly conjunct both his natal Venus and the composite Sun from this chart is an opportunity for him, perhaps, to realize a different side of his sexuality?
Maybe a cautious advance is in order, quite soon? In the next few days we're both experiencing some friendly Venus & Mars aspects and his solar return is happening around that time...
I'm worried that I'm being crazy and misinterpreting our relationship as being something more than it has the possibility to be -- and honestly, astrologically, I have good reason to be unsure of my impressions or my chances for success with Neptune & Saturn squaring my natal Moon in the 1st and Sun/Saturn in the 7th.
Whew. Any ideas?