Aquarius/Virgo 4 Leo/Aquarius: When Will It...

[champagne truffle]

Hi Everyone, I'm freshly registered and am eager to learn more about dissecting a synastry chart for myself & My Possible Soulmate, however I don't know where I can enter the natal data...? I'm an Aquarius with a Rising Virgo/ he a Leo, rising Aquarian.

If someone would direct me to the instruction page, or let me know how-to.. I'd appreciate it.

[wilsontc]

truffle,

Go to http://www.astro.com/horoscopes/ahor.asp , create two charts, and then choose "extended chart selection" to create a synastry chart.

Synastrically,

Tim

[champagne truffle]

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[wilsontc]

truffle,

The link works. As you know, relationships take work. No relationship is "the one"...each relationship has its particular challenges to work out.

In the case of this relationship there are many challenges involving the "personal planets" (Sun, Moon, Mercury, Venus, and Mars), which can indicate short-term excitement and long-term issues. There is also a very powerful opposition between your charts, indicating that you have a "tug of war" in some of your opinions...he wants you to agree with him completely and you want him to agree with you completely. Oppositions can take a lot of work to "balance out" the completely different ways you each approach things.

One helpful thing is that your North nodes (future goals) are conjunct (energy is combined with), indicating when you work in the relationship towards YOUR goals you are working towards HIS goals at the same time.

Relating,

Tim

[Draco]

Even better than Astrodienst, download AstroWin, and create a synastry there.

Astrodienst synastry charts are a bit of a headache to read. You can't switch them over one and other and the degrees of the planets are not displayed, making it hard work having to guess what is applying to or separating from what.

http://www.astrowin.org/astrowin.htm

[champagne truffle]

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[wilsontc]

truffle,

You said:
...we are very different indeed, with different outlooks and approaches to life, both set in our own fixed ways, however we instinctively and instantenously pick up on what the other wants/thinks, and further compromises are effortless...

You seem to understand what it takes to make a relationship work! :) BOTH people working together to balance out the issues. Some people want an instant, exciting relationship, get interested in the relationship when the challenges create excitement, and dump it when the challenges get to be too much. That is what I was referring to in my previous message.

At this point, I suggest letting go of astrology and simply being aware of each other's needs and desires. Talk about any problems either of you is having, work out your differences between each other, and continue to develop a loving relationship. As long as you can work with each other to structure a relationship together, you should be happy in this relationship.

Relating happily,

Tim

[champagne truffle]

thanks tim! but I do not know anything abour relationships i swear! :) I am a relationship dummy. but now I find myself in one that works magically...- through me, inspite of me, it's not me doing a thing, lol. i am beside myself. But I guess since I am able to recognize that I am aware, so you're right, I should just enjoy it as it is...
I am lucky, and paranoid (moon in cancer) and I want to know and analyze everything from every angle (my virgos). I'll try to leave astrology alone, but it's so much fun to me right now - gives me endless perpectives to overanalyze!
thanks again.

[lagosta]

yeah and i'm just a loser thats the true