Will he come clean?

[leslieleo]

I found out a secret of my boyfriend's and I have to confront him, but this will be extremely difficult and painful for both of us. Is there any chance that he might tell me on his own?

This chart has an early ascendant, but I hope this is readable.

I am Jupiter in Aries in the 4th house, he is Mercury in Aries in the 5th house. The 12th house is ruled by Mars, also in Aries in the 4th house.
Third house of communication is ruled by Saturn in Libra, which has an opposition to both Mercury and Jupiter.

I'm thinking this means he won't tell me on his own? :unsure:

Thanks in advance!

[dr. farr]

(Following uses astro-divination and is not standard horary practice; following uses whole sign house format)

Even for me, the ascending degree here is too early for reliable horary delineation by any horary approach (including the alternative Primary Ankara horary method which I mostly follow)

So, if you don't mind, I'll use 2 astro-divination techniques and see what they say (Note: if you want a horary delineation, re-ask this question again at a later time)

1) Walis Magic 8 Ball
-I would take the 7th house to signify this matter (him): 7th house under Gemini posits the South Node, which = a "no" answer by 8 Ball rules
-some might select his House of Truth (that is, the 9th house from his signifying 7th); if this were selected instead of the 7th, we find Aquarius on this house, which = Saturn which also = a "no" answer according to the 8 Ball

Therefore: by the experimental Magic 8 Ball divination the answer is "no"

2) Simple Lunar Divination
-a striaght sign (Sagittarius) is on the ascendant: - 1 point
-Moon flows away from Mercury: - 1 point
-Moon's next conjunction is with the South Node: - 2 points
-Moon's next house is a pivot (7th whole sign house): + 1 point
-Moon's next sign (Gemini) is a crooked sign: + 1 point
-Moon flows toward the Part of Fortune (@20Libra): + 1 point

Totals:
Positive = +3 points
Negative = -4 points
Net = -1 point
Divination: with a net -1 total, indications are a very weak "no" (probably not) answer to the question, although really this is almost a 50/50 (maybe) indication

Considering the 2 astro-divination methods:
+Magic 8 Ball says "no"
+Simple Lunar Divination gives a very weak "no" (almost a maybe)
...therefore I am going to say, PROBABLY he won't tell you on his own, without prompting from you.

[tikana]

He wont come forward

both of you are combusted here. He is in worse - merc retro - holding back
Moon void is not making things any easier.

my question to you is do you absolutely need to confont him? it wont do you any good.

T

[leslieleo]

(Following uses astro-divination and is not standard horary practice; following uses whole sign house format)

Even for me, the ascending degree here is too early for reliable horary delineation by any horary approach (including the alternative Primary Ankara horary method which I mostly follow)

So, if you don't mind, I'll use 2 astro-divination techniques and see what they say (Note: if you want a horary delineation, re-ask this question again at a later time)

1) Walis Magic 8 Ball
-I would take the 7th house to signify this matter (him): 7th house under Gemini posits the South Node, which = a "no" answer by 8 Ball rules
-some might select his House of Truth (that is, the 9th house from his signifying 7th); if this were selected instead of the 7th, we find Aquarius on this house, which = Saturn which also = a "no" answer according to the 8 Ball

Therefore: by the experimental Magic 8 Ball divination the answer is "no"

2) Simple Lunar Divination
-a striaght sign (Sagittarius) is on the ascendant: - 1 point
-Moon flows away from Mercury: - 1 point
-Moon's next conjunction is with the South Node: - 2 points
-Moon's next house is a pivot (7th whole sign house): + 1 point
-Moon's next sign (Gemini) is a crooked sign: + 1 point
-Moon flows toward the Part of Fortune (@20Libra): + 1 point

Totals:
Positive = +3 points
Negative = -4 points
Net = -1 point
Divination: with a net -1 total, indications are a very weak "no" (probably not) answer to the question, although really this is almost a 50/50 (maybe) indication

Considering the 2 astro-divination methods:
+Magic 8 Ball says "no"
+Simple Lunar Divination gives a very weak "no" (almost a maybe)
...therefore I am going to say, PROBABLY he won't tell you on his own, without prompting from you.

Thanks so much, I'm not surprised by this at all.

[leslieleo]

He wont come forward

both of you are combusted here. He is in worse - merc retro - holding back
Moon void is not making things any easier.

my question to you is do you absolutely need to confont him? it wont do you any good.

T

Thanks, this will definitely be hard but it has to be done. Unfortunately, it's something that affects our future and my own future as well, and also my emotional state. It's something that we have to discuss. We can't move forward with this secret hidden. It would be always haunting me now that I know. I have to be very sensitive to his feelings as we discuss this, and I don't intend on this being a big angry confrontation.

[tikana]

explains the combustion

sorry you have to go through such rough decision. Not easy one.. approach with diplomacy

best of luck

T

[dr. farr]

Suggestion: choose a favorable time for the confrontation:
-no Mercury retrograde
-no Mars conjunct, square or opposition to Moon
-no Mars/Venus conjunction, square or opposition
-Moon posited in a sign (passing through a sign) such as Gemini, Virgo, Aquarius, or Pisces, avoiding it being in Aries, Taurus, Leo, Scorpio or Sagittarius

[dr. farr]

Any update on this matter?