When Will I Hear From Her?

[D-Rok]

I moved this from Horary to Communications -- figured it would be more applicable:


I want to know when, and if, I will hear from my ex-girlfriend. She and I are currently not speaking, as she's in Vegas at the moment, though I have a feeling I haven't heard the last of her. I'd like to know a rough time when I may hear from her so I won't be caught off guard at a bad time.

I drew up a horary at the time it states. Please let me know what you think. Thank you.

[Spicadilly]

Moon is void in your 1st, either nothing to worry about or no she won't call. All angles are cardinal so you should know pretty quickly. One thing, Moon in Leo h1 will trine her Jupiter her 3rd house ruler so a communication but something has to change in your attitude (I think cos the Moon is in your house, your personality) for it to happen, maybe displays more leonine traits.

[D-Rok]

Spicadilly,

Thanks for your insight. Couple of questions though:

Nothing to worry about -- what does that mean (also curious about the Moon being void...)

You say a communication *might* happen but I will need to change something in my personality? I mean right now I'm really angry and really hurt by the whole thing.

Any other thoughts on this chart/event?

[Spicadilly]

Sorry i couldn't say much. Moon void in a horary chart means the answer to the question is usually no as the answer or no there is nothing to worry about X matter meaning it will be positive. Google it, you will find loads.

I doubt she would want to hear from you angry so yes being good hearted, positive, sunshine like a Leo could help hence the future trine between Moon (you) and Jupiter (her 3rd ruler = communication). Also it is the Mon applying so you are the one making the call. Sweat your anger in the gym for a few weeks and grab the phone, what is the worst can that happen? Good luck!

[D-Rok]

Huh. Interesting...

Though I hate to admit this, but I really don't want to be the one to connect back to her. She cheated on me, lied to me, etc., in the first place. Why wouldn't she be the one to call and apologize or something? Why should I give her that satisfaction of being the one to come crawling back to her? It just doesn't seem like the thing I would do :s

Unless, of course, that is the particular thing I would have to change about my personality. Granted I've had nothing but absolute anger and hatred towards her -- I really, really would hate to change all that rage into some gentle forgiveness. How could anyone expect someone to forgive such a cold act so...easily?

[Olivia]

Moon (you) is void of course, and separating from a non-received (positively hostile) square to Saturn (her), which probably shows the Very Nasty Breakup. Saturn is detrimented in Cancer, which is where the Moon is.

Jupiter isn't her, it's your exaltation ruler. The astrological reason you want to call and scream at her is that Merc, natural ruler of communications, and ruler of 3 (communication) in this chart, is applying by conjunction to Jupiter in 1 degree in the 10th house.

You WANT to take action, you WANT to tell her what for.

Is it wise? No. Can you avoid it? Yes. Give it a week and the worst of the tension/desire to do something stupid should pass. Jupiter and Mercury are both peregrine in Aries, denoting anger and the inability to do anything productive about it - about to oppose Saturn in exaltation - her - she would only make you feel worse. And they're in Saturn's fall to boot. Jupiter is also ruling 6 and 8, which are evil houses in the chart - if you take action, you will get hurt.

Just let it go. You can't win this one, you can only get more hurt and angry, and it isn't worth it.