Relationship help!

[ramsye]

My boyfriend and I broke up last month -- can someone take a look at the charts I am uploading -- my birth chart and our relationship chart -- and tell me what you see? I Do you think there are chances we will get back together? Any help will be much much much appreciated. Thanks in advance.

[Dakota]

Hi Ramsye - I am very new at chart interpretation so please take my observations with a grain of salt.

When looking at your natal chart, it seems like Neptune in the 7th can give you the tendency to deceive yourself about others in a romantic sense. Prone to over-idealize partners. It also looks like you have a couple of Saturn squares which make relationships difficult - Saturn square Venus and Saturn square Pluto.

The composite chart seems to again have Neptune playing a role. Neptune is squaring the moon and the ascendant. It makes me believe that again distorted perceptions are playing a role in this relationship.

As for reuniting, I'm not sure what configurations would suggest that, if any.

I'm sorry that you have been hurt/disappointed in this relationship.

Any one else more astute at chart interpretation care to add any insights?

[ramsye]

Thanks so much Dakota.
Does this mean that all my romantic relationships will be difficult in the future? Is there any way to minimize the effect of the saturn squares?

Anyone else have an input about being reunited with my ex from the composite chart? Thanks a lot!

[rahu]

hey ram
could you post you dob and his,
i can't really make out the details you posted
rahu

[ramsye]

Hi Rahu,

I messaged you, but here goes:
Mine: 2 March 75, 11:00 am, Madras, India
His: 30 May 1976, 8:30 pm, Mexico city (DF)

Thanks a lot! Let me know what you make of chances of reuniting etc.
Best.

[ramsye]

Oops! Just a correction. I learned from my mom last night that my time of birth is actually 10:07 (don't know why I thought it was 11?!)

so my DOB is March 2, 75 at 10:07 am in Madras, India.

Thanks again.

[rahu]

hi ramsye,
first the favorable stuff.mars/uranus conjunction opposed to venus,strong emotiomal/sexual attraction,moon trine venus and sextile to mars,all aspects indicating a loving attachment and a steadying influence in relationships.sun/jupiter conjunction is also an indication enjoying each others company and as jupiter rules marriage ,it is a favorable infleunse for longterm relationships.
now the other side . saturn is square the otimistic sun/jupiter conjunction,this aspect,with saturn in the 5th,shows extreme hesitation on his part.it can indicate that when things are going good ,problems arise.the mars/uranus conjunction shows he is always going to feel tied down in the relationship.this aspect is good for a passionate relationship but it rarely leads to longterm .on a darker side the uranus/pluto midpoint is square to saturn as well as opposed to jup/sun.this is a can be a symbol of oppression or even violence in the relationship.also mercury is opposed to pluto and the moon/uranus midpoint.this is not a good sign for openess and can show the possibility of violent arquements.