Moon/Pluto Energy in relationships

[Lion o ness]

Can someone explain the moon/ Pluto energy to me please...
Me and this guy have a lot of moon/pluto going on..

His 1Sag moon sextile my 0Libra Pluto
His moon in his 3rd my 9th, his pluto in his 2nd my 7th

My 14Leo Moon sextiles his 16Libra Pluto
my moon in my 6th his 12th cusp/ my pluto in my 7th his 1st.

In the Composite we have Moon conjunct Pluto in Libra. In the 4th house

I know other factors come into play, but for right now Im just trying to understand these moon/pluto aspects. Since it seem's to me a major theme.

[Claire19]

Moon sextile Pluto in the composite I take it??

Good for transformative emotions and also healing wounds. Good effect on each other in this way in that you have strong survival instincts together. Intensity but without the controlling manipulative energies of Pluto and Moon that would come with a square, opposition and conjunctions.

However by themselves we cant say a lot as the whole charts have to be viewed overall.

[Lion o ness]

Moon sextile Pluto in the composite I take it??

Good for transformative emotions and also healing wounds. Good effect on each other in this way in that you have strong survival instincts together. Intensity but without the controlling manipulative energies of Pluto and Moon that would come with a square, opposition and conjunctions.

However by themselves we cant say a lot as the whole charts have to be viewed overall.

The sysnatry is a both way Moon sextile pluto..
The composite is Moon conjunct Pluto..

[Lithuel]

My ex, with whom I was together for 3 years, had his Pluto conjunct my Moon with a 1 degree orb in my 1st house, his 10th. There was an enormous amount of subconscious bilateral emotional manipulation. But in addition, our composite Pluto (in comp 12th house) squared our Venus, Mercury, and Mars. Where the Pluto energy was coming from, I don't know, but I'm wary of intense Pluto aspects.

I think a sextile would be a lot easier to handle for the synastry, but I wonder how the composite conjunction plays out.

[Lion o ness]

My ex, with whom I was together for 3 years, had his Pluto conjunct my Moon with a 1 degree orb in my 1st house, his 10th. There was an enormous amount of subconscious bilateral emotional manipulation. But in addition, our composite Pluto (in comp 12th house) squared our Venus, Mercury, and Mars. Where the Pluto energy was coming from, I don't know, but I'm wary of intense Pluto aspects.

I think a sextile would be a lot easier to handle for the synastry, but I wonder how the composite conjunction plays out.

Well I guess its kinda of backwards, the way its been playing out.. When we are in contact with each other, I feel the sextile.. Its and easy energy I dont worry about him going away.. Im really comfortable...

When we stop talking to each other (cause yes it is a swing of back and fourth) is when I feel the conjunction... I know I just have to have him back in my life... I feel miserable w/o him... So much deep pain... We didnt talk once for 3 months.. I was a mess... It felt unbearable.