Will he contact me soon

[GeminiStarr]

We were suppose to go see a movie, he invited me and then I just didn't hear from him again. it's been 11 days exactly lol I kno it seems a lil crazy to be counting days but this was so weird, if I didn't contact his brother and find out that he was ok i would of thought something bad happened. I have no clue why or what to do about the situation. Which is prolly shown by the moon in the 1st house. He just stop contacting me out of the blue. We spoke everyday almost. Thru text and twitter. I believe there is a problem with his phone (the number I had anyway) but I kno he has another phone + number he can contact me with but hasn't. So I'm wondering will he contact me soon? If this chart shows why he has been MIA I would love to know that also. It's been bothering for the past 2 weeks. Like how do you not even think of me or to contact me? Smh Thank you to anyone that helps me out :-)

Me- Venus in 6th house, moon in first
Him- Mars in my 7th and his first.

He is at almost the exact same degree as mercury so I'm hoping that's a good sign maybe I will get some form of contact soon?

I dont know if I'm reading the aspect grid wrong but I dont think we have any applying aspects. So does that mean nothing will happen and we will have no contact or something else?

Question: do you read the BQ aspect in horary?

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[GeminiStarr]

He contacted me today...so weird. I was holding out on asking this question and trying to be patient and the day I decide to ask he calls lol

[DiDi]

he is mars going about his own business doing his own thing and jupiter who rules mars is in his 5th house of fun.
He could have just been out with the friends Do you know if he is looking for something casual or a relationship?

His 3rd house of communication saturn is not connecting with your 3rd house of communication the moon but your signifer venus was going towards his communication saturn and now is going forward again...
So a change of mind with the situation of a date there.


In his house we see the sun... his 11th H of friends and himself mars and mercury who just past him. mercury relates to his 8th house and 12th

I think he has other things going on in his life right now.

[DiDi]

you put this up as i did mine... so what did he have to say for himself?

[GeminiStarr]

@DiDi he said he lost both his phones and somethings he couldnt get into right now has made him become MIA. I personally believe he is confused on casual or relationship. His lifestyle calls for casual but I believe he has deeper feelings for me. He is the type to choose business over pleasure.

[GeminiStarr]

you put this up as i did mine... so what did he have to say for himself?

He text me from a mutual friends phone first and tried to say "hello babe, do you miss me?" so I text back who is this? and he says his name so I just call the number. He answers the phone without me saying a word and says that He knows he has been MIA and that he lost his phones then I asked where he has been. He said he couldnt talk about it right now but it was something serious. (Who knows) That he didn't forget about the date and what have I been up to and how I was doing.... blah blah blah

I'm not sure if he is pulling my leg or not but part of me says ok and the other says this is bull **** LoL

[DiDi]

yeah I think the sun and merc in his house has some clues.. also connected to secrecy his 12th

Up to you, no harm done right now unless he keeps it up... Im my experiance these types dont change, so you have to be the type to be ok with it or walk away.., thou keep that in mind and pay attention to his actions not his words.....
just saying from someone really burnt and plenty of friends the same situation.:tongue:

have fun, let go what isnt fun

[dr. farr]

(Following is not in accordance with standard horary delineation and uses whole sign house format)

Going beyond the specific question, and attempting to obtain a bit of insight into the dynamics of this relationship:
-querent "chases" the quesited (she chases him): querent = Taurus (with exalted Moon therein, = exalted emotions?) = Venus; quesited (him) = Scorpio (sign on 7th whole sign house) = Mars: Venus flows toward Mars ("she chases him") Also querent's emotions (Moon in Taurus) flow toward Venus, but are in opposition (by sign) to his (that is, to his signifying sign, Scorpio)
-his romantic-oriented feelings? 5th from 7th = Pisces = Jupiter significator; Jupiter is self-contained (in its domicile) = his "feelings" are under his own control; he "knows" how to handle "romance" (at least he believes he knows how to do this)
-querent's romantic-oriented feelings; 5th from the chart asc = Virgo = Mercury significator; Mercury partile conjunction with Mars (querent's feelings "conjunct" him); notice too that Mercury is in its detriment, while Mars is in its elemental-affinitive sign (fire/Sagittarius); and what disposits Mercury (querent's romantically oriented feelings re to him)? Jupiter, and Jupiter represents HIS romantic-oriented feelings and his outlook on romance in general-and Jupiter is in its own domicile...which means??...Jupiter is stronger here than Mercury; indeed Mercury is approaching a square with Jupiter; his feelings are not bound up with the querent, but the querent's are bound up (Mercury conjunct Mars) with the quesited and disposed (Mercury disposited by Jupiter) by the quesited.

To me this chart hints that the querent is more "interested" in the quesited than the other way around; and that the quesited knows (or so it seems) how to play "romance games" to obtain and keep "the upper hand" in romantically oriented relationships...

[DiDi]

exactly.... dr farr:smile::annoyed:

[Vista]

We were suppose to go see a movie, he invited me and then I just didn't hear from him again. it's been 11 days exactly lol I kno it seems a lil crazy to be counting days but this was so weird, if I didn't contact his brother and find out that he was ok i would of thought something bad happened. I have no clue why or what to do about the situation. Which is prolly shown by the moon in the 1st house. He just stop contacting me out of the blue. We spoke everyday almost. Thru text and twitter. I believe there is a problem with his phone (the number I had anyway) but I kno he has another phone + number he can contact me with but hasn't. So I'm wondering will he contact me soon? If this chart shows why he has been MIA I would love to know that also. It's been bothering for the past 2 weeks. Like how do you not even think of me or to contact me? Smh Thank you to anyone that helps me out :-)

Me- Venus in 6th house, moon in first
Him- Mars in my 7th and his first.

He is at almost the exact same degree as mercury so I'm hoping that's a good sign maybe I will get some form of contact soon?

I dont know if I'm reading the aspect grid wrong but I dont think we have any applying aspects. So does that mean nothing will happen and we will have no contact or something else?

Question: do you read the BQ aspect in horary?

http://i46.photobucket.com/albums/f133/Hovawifey/astro_2gw_35_will_he_contact_me_soon_hr_75429_3102 0.gif


I think he might be a little busy with someone else. His 7th and 5th from the 7th are pretty highlighted. I just went through a similar situation and actions speak louder than words. I think he is full of **** about losing the phones. There's the Internet right? He could have emailed you, reached out to you on Facebook, Linked in, or stopped by your house, ect. Do you see what I am saying? Didi is right, these types don't change.

[GeminiStarr]

That's pretty accurate lol thank you Dr Farr.

I was wondering if I can ask a favor of you. Can you take a look at our natals together. I'm not sure what kind of chart I would have to pull up. But I would love to see what it says about him and our potential in a romantic relationship

[GeminiStarr]

I think he might be a little busy with someone else. His 7th and 5th from the 7th are pretty highlighted. I just went through a similar situation and actions speak louder than words. I think he is full of **** about losing the phones. There's the Internet right? He could have emailed you, reached out to you on Facebook, Linked in, or stopped by your house, ect. Do you see what I am saying? Didi is right, these types don't change.


This is very true. I was thinking the same thing there were so many ways to get in contact with me. I think he knows I have stronger feelings and he has the upper hand. Like Dr Farr pointed out. I've been told this by friends. Dr Farr always wow's me with his accuracy. But it is my fault, I gave him the upper hand so he thinks he can tell me anything

[DiDi]

just a note.. go into the natals to do the natals:happy: