Too late or maybe a late bloomer?????

[Vanillaventi]

:p When will I have a love relationship or marriage, I've never been in a real long term relationship and wonder if theres any hope for me. My birthtime is 7/27/1960 15:26, Oakdale California, PDT, and what will he look like??? How old??? Very curious if in the cards for me, my aunt just got married first time at 52 years old last year??? Maybe too late or I'm a late bloomer!!! Thanks so much, I'd be so curious what my chart indicates, I am at this time interested in someone. Sincerely Deb:o :o :o :o :p

[2rainbows]

Your relationship/social houses 7 and 11 are empty and this is still the case now in your progressed chart so you may have to figure on how you can change to change your social circumstances. Your natal chart is very busy in the 9 house and in the 8th house in your progressed chart. What do you do for work?
well wishes,
2rainbows

[Vanillaventi]

Dear Delboy, How on earth did you get that????? It fascinates me!!!!! Please explain, how can you tell that??? Sincerely Deb:D Thanks for response!!!! ;)

[Lin]

Deb,
In your natal chart you have Neptune square your Sun and Uranus square Mars.
This is important as follows: The Sun is your true authentic being, and Leo is the sign of creation, love and risk. Neptune is the planet of fantasy and deception. You are very suspicious of love, and don't know how to tell if someone is really interested in the real YOU, or how to tell if you are really in love. Neptune prevents your being "clear" about these things. This is a big issue and if you read enough about this aspect it will really sink in.

You have Saturn in Capricorn, and it's pretty unhelpful in your chart. It's opposition to Merc, which means you had a father who was either distant or uninterested in you, or couldn't show his interest. There was a lack of useful communication. The father is the first love of the female, and we get a lot of our "laws", many negative, from our parents intacting, either with us directly or with each other (role models for marriage.)

Uranus square Mars shows a long term "anger" with men in general. This can come about directly or indirectly. It certainly can keep you from "taking the plunge" into the risky waters of romance and "love." Love is trust, and you just don't trust men in general. You would probably go for a man who is "weaker" than you in some sense, but then, unfortunately, you might not respect him! This conundrum is why you haven't "fallen" yet. To "fall" means to trust, and you can't.

There's hope for you, though, through therapy and self help, etc. But you must accept the premise that you aren't married because you haven't wanted to be...not really. It's a rough problem, because it takes work to fix.

Not having seen your Aunt's chart, I can't say why she didn't marry till her 50s. Some women just don't want to ever be mothers and waiting till they are too old to bear children is one way to definitely avoid it. Just guessing.... that may be all wrong... but I've seen it.
LIN

[Claire19]

I have never wanted to marry and I am 60 and a Leo. I never wanted children, that was the main reason. However never say never. I had more than a few lovers.....

I think that you wanted your freedom, to travel and develop your own philosophy on life. There may have been a broken romance or upsetting conditions that put you off. THis could have been a religious difference, a cultural difference or someone met in school which started and ended suddenly or was an infatuation.

Also the Nep Square Venus, too idealistic and deception and disillusion as a result. There could have been someone met during college, whilst travelling abroad I feel. There is a possibility of a Martian type man, a fire sign, Leo or Aries that you meet during your everyday work or whilst attending to health matters or even your pets. However your Mars is not well aspected and there could be violence and conflict involved. I can see with the Moon and Mars transitting your 7th house that you have the desire for a relationship. You have Moon sextile Venus transitting but this is not enough to marry. We need to look at our nodes and also the other person's chart to see the possibility of marriage. I dont honestly feel this is the time to marry.

Are you a teacher or lecture of some kind. Involved in education!!!!

Claire