is this friendship over for good?

[Erickaf]

I just came back from a long vacation.
i tried to contact my friend when i got back home. she felt i 'blew' her off the summer. i was shock on how she felt. and confused. sometimes i feel it wasnt such a strong friendship as i thought it was.
so i ask horary is this friendship over?
i say yes, this friendship is deal as a door nail!
She is the 11th house Saturn in Libra exalted. she is a very late degree, suggesting she has already made her mind. she is soon going into aqurius though, still under the same planetary ruler, Saturn.
Saturn in the 6th, suggesting she felt she put a lot of work and effort in the friendship (we also met at work) and maybe even felt she gave too much. I am Mars in Libra, in detriment but in Libra. mars like saturn and wants to be freindly and not be peaceful (libra) about this. but there is not aspect between mars and saturn, no future.
moon is in libra soon will conjunct me, mars. i think this is positve actually. maybe not for our freindship but for me.
however mars (me) and moon is in the 7th house, what that mean? another person?




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[DiDi]

I think she is in her 8th H so she is worried about the friendfship or also thinks its over. 8th house matters
the 11th is 0 deg aqu so its early i feel as i dont think we go backwards here only forwards...

saturn and mars not a good combo but its in venus rulership so there is something there if you both wan it to..

you mars and moon have passed her showing the tension that has happened.

end of the matter is also the moon which has passed saturn so end of the matter is frustrated but i also think its up to you as to how things turn out.

[Erickaf]

oh i realized she is saturn very ealry degree, that is what i meant :biggrin:.
she once told she cute someone out of her life, a former firned a while back. now me, i am starting to wonder why is she so mean to her freinds. if she really valued our friendship she would understand and give me another chance. not like i was talking behind her back or something.

[DiDi]

I think unfortunatly some people rather cut others out than work on the friendship as its easier to them emotionally.

[Erickaf]

thanks for your input! maybe its just dead for now.

[DiDi]

I still think you have the choice to continue with the friendship if this is what you want.

[scorpittarian]

ur frnd = saturn
you = mars,moon

saturn's exalted.
mars in detriment.

mars & moon r in saturn's exaltation = you do like her a lot & wanna revive the frndship.
saturn in mars detriment = she has some issues with you.
saturn @ 5 libra = 5 days,weeks or months ago = she did lik u(not as much as u do) but now things hv changed.

mars @ 27 degree = change of sign = change of circumstances
since moon continues to lnger in libra(saturn's exaltation) ull continue 2 adore her as a frnd.

looks like its over for good.

[Erickaf]

ur frnd = saturn
you = mars,moon

saturn's exalted.
mars in detriment.

mars & moon r in saturn's exaltation = you do like her a lot & wanna revive the frndship.
saturn in mars detriment = she has some issues with you.
saturn @ 5 libra = 5 days,weeks or months ago = she did lik u(not as much as u do) but now things hv changed.

mars @ 27 degree = change of sign = change of circumstances
since moon continues to lnger in libra(saturn's exaltation) ull continue 2 adore her as a frnd.

looks like its over for good.
I won't say 'adore' but yes I will look back and cherish the times we were freinds. good times:happy: girls night outs...oh those were nice.
but its over now. and to be honest i have no desire to rekindle the freindship. i accept it now. i have natal uranus in the 11th, friends comes and go. she may pop in mylife again sometime but as of now, its pretty much over.