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Arijana
07-17-2010, 02:14 PM
So, I got this new...well I wont say job but place I need to be every day, for a certain amount of time,and luck has it I'm the only female and there are about 50 guys,and they all..don't look really friendly lol
They sort of took a..guardian type of care for me the first day but yeah since I'm gonna be seeing them every day and I'm the only girl there ( kind of makes me nervious ) I was wondering will they grow to like me or...?
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Arijana
07-17-2010, 09:09 PM
I'm very new to horary even though I try to read things online to help me get it..But I'm the Jupiter in 4th right? would that make them Pluto,since the asc is scorpio?
dr. farr
07-18-2010, 05:20 AM
(Following is not in accordance with standard horary delineation)
In the horary tradition I follow:
-you = 1st house = Scorpio = Mars significator
-them = 7th house = Taurus = Venus significator
so...
+Venus chases Mars = + testimony that they like you
-the actual job is represented by the 6th house = Aries = Mars significator (again), and Venus still chases Mars so the attitude of co-workers in the job is benefic
-however, Venus is weak because of being in its Fall, so the indication is that whether the co-workers like you or not is of not much consequence (relative to you and the job)
But from the above testimony, I would say the answer is "yes, they like you"
Additional note: the experimental Walis Magic 8 Ball method says definitely yes:
-in that method the 7th would be taken as significator of the question = Taurus = Venus = a yes answer by the 8 Ball "rules'"...
Arijana
07-18-2010, 08:36 AM
thanks Dr. far:joyful:
It's true,it isn't of much consequence and normally I wouldn't ask a question like this since generally I don't care wheter someone likes me or not ( my scorpio hehe ) but this is the first that I'm surrounded with all guys,and a larger number of them so I was wondering how would they recieve the only girl
DanaRenee
07-21-2010, 07:38 PM
Hello here is my intake, you/mars, them/venus both are in your 3rd house of comm, and their 9th house of Philosophy, they are conjunct, which i would say that you have some of the same things to talk about, possibly like, however, mars and venus both conjunct saturn, delays, I think you do not feel completely comfortable in communication with them and may even avoid doing so while with them? The moon in the 9th house/yours, and their 2nd house opposite saturn in your third, would say to me that you should avoid conversations involving earnings with them, for i see that for you will be quite an emotional.(They probably make quite a bit more that you, even doing the same job:crying:) With pluto in your first house and retrograde I would wonder if this job is really in your best interest, it may mean you should look for other employment:wink:. Plus pluto will be squaring venus, power struggles, not good for a working environment. With mercury being in det/fall, and in your 4th house of endings, this really could not be a good situation for you! They will make you feel that they are more knowledgeable and have more work experience. Please let me know what happens:happy:
Arijana
07-21-2010, 11:31 PM
thanks for the reply Dana:joyful:
You are right,I do not feel comfortable talking to them and I don't try to,true as well,they make me feel..out of place,not really my type of crowd and I try not to get too friendly with them...since for one I do not like it when someone is overly chatty with me the first time they see me,so I try not to do that to others but rather mind my own bussiness and let others be at peace :) I also don't want them to not respect me,and somehow I feel if I would get too friendly they wouldnt take me seriously.
It is true,they do act superior to me,rather,patronizing,the place is a gym:wink: and they call me ''little girl'' since I'm very small and take on the '' we are so big and buff and you poor little thing are so tinny'', I know they don't mean anything bad per se,but...it kind of annoys me a bit.
DanaRenee
07-22-2010, 02:21 AM
I am sorry to hear that they act that way toward you, isn't it amazing how much these charts are sooo right on sometimes? Maybe you will beable to find a better place to join that will be more comfortable:happy:. You deserve it! Best of Luck:happy:
Arijana
07-22-2010, 10:53 AM
Yeah,kinda scary lol
though I dont mind them being that way :)
I know they dont mean anything bad by it,they are just puzzled since Im tinny and that I am there with them lol
I won t leave the place :) I kind of view it as a challenge,and dont like to run,they are ok so far,its just that I find it amusing they thing just because Im small I have to be this fragile thing
Arijana
07-22-2010, 01:02 PM
forgot to ask,do you maybe see some protectiveness from their side to me? since that how they behave in a way:joyful:
dr. farr
07-23-2010, 03:31 AM
forgot to ask,do you maybe see some protectiveness from their side to me? since that how they behave in a way:joyful:
Yes: in the reference horary, "they" are Taurus, the Bull-and signified by Venus ("the mother"); and aren't these guys "big bulls" (not bullies, but BULLS)?
Arijana
07-23-2010, 03:27 PM
omg...yes they are :devil: It is a gym,so they are all very big and buff,about the protective over me I havent felt it full force lol,but I do notice that they act caring towards me,giving me little nicknames and kind of being the guardians for me.
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