Lilith conjunct venus in synastry.

[pisceskitty]

Hello,

What does it mean when a mans' solar arc. Lilith is conjunct a woman's solar arc. venus? I read somewhere that this can indicate the "other" woman type of situation.

[Wave]

Hi,

as far as I know this aspect is about the woman's lesson (Venus) of having to resist the temptation of the man (Lillith). This aspect shows a lot of magnetism and attraction between the two parties...the problem with this synastry aspect is that it is usually the so called 'forbidden fruit's' type of attraction.

Wave.

[Venuslure]

What if you have it both ways with someone, a double whammy so to speak, would it make the relationship even more taboo like on both ends? I mean how does that work out exactly?

[Starwalk]

Not so much a reply but another synastric 'incident'. I have Venus and Mars conjunct (1.5 degrees) in third decanate Cancer in the 12th. house. I have met someone who has Lilith in his 2nd. house exactly conjunct my Mars. To add to this my Lilith third decanate Sagittarius in the 5th. house is conjunct (5 minutes) his Uranus in the 7th. house.

I cannot find any in depth asteroid Lilith interpretations anywhere, not even for natal, never mind synastric...any suggestions...he's driving me crazy. The only 'taboo' as such would be a fairly substantial age difference, beyond that we are both single.

[Venuslure]

That seems to be the case, it's usually the planet person who recieves the lilith person, and in turn responds. Last time I had this aspect with someone it was his lilith square my Venus, and he just about drove me insane with desire for him. I agree that the attraction is very powerful and hard to resist, it's almost as bad(or good)as Pluto contacts.

[mdinaz]

Never paid much mind to Lilith in the chart until this thread. I went back and looked at some data - my current sweetheart has my Lilith exactly square her Uranus (within one minute) and her Lilith is near my MC trine Sun/Node within one degree. My ex has Lilith trine my Uranus/Pluto within a degree and my Lilith is conjunct her Mercury, sextile Neptune and trine Uranus. There's definite magnetic attractions between me and both women and both have some scandal or taboo associated albeit for different reasons. I'll have to pay more attention to that in the future when looking at other charts.