sun aspects for marriage

[rk555]

I have 3 aspects to sun: sun conjunct mercury at 0 34' degrees, sun square mars at -1 27' degrees, and sun sextile saturn at -3 28' degrees.
I am trying to figure out which of these aspects was my first marriage(in 2001 ended in 2003) and which one is my current relationship. My current relationship partner is an aries, he also has sun sq. mars in his chart and sun sextile saturn.
I have attached progressed chart(1st) and his (2nd). I appreciate any help! Also can I determine from the degree's of ts sun aspects the year in which I will get married? I know its not anytime soon, intuitively I feel 2 years from now.

[astrologer50]

I have 3 aspects to sun: sun conjunct mercury at 0 34' degrees, sun square mars at -1 27' degrees, and sun sextile saturn at -3 28' degrees.
I am trying to figure out which of these aspects was my first marriage(in 2001 ended in 2003) and which one is my current relationship. My current relationship partner is an aries, he also has sun sq. mars in his chart and sun sextile saturn.
I have attached progressed chart(1st) and his (2nd). I appreciate any help! Also can I determine from the degree's of ts sun aspects the year in which I will get married? I know its not anytime soon, intuitively I feel 2 years from now.

Regarding marriage -- Unfortunately, there is no set formula or signature, although others may disagree, apparently horary and vedic seem more confident in this area
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...08&postcount=2 (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum...08&postcount=2)

What most books don’t tell you is that the Seventh House rules the First marriage. If there is another marriage, it is shown by the Ninth House. How about a third marriage? A description of your third marriage (if any) is found in your Eleventh House. You see how this works? Start with the 7th House as the 1st marriage and go counterclockwise around the wheel, skipping every other house, to see all other marriages. Some people (like Elizabeth Taylor who has eight marriages) have to go completely around the wheel!
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/AngularHouses.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/AngularHouses.htm)

Your question would be suitable for a horary question, IF you follow the basic rules
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/faq.php?faq=horary#faq_horary_astrology_boards (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/faq.php?faq=horary#faq_horary_astrology_boards)


T Saturn conj Venus can suggest a poss break in relationship or work situation and could be feeling unloved and/or 'tests' and as venus is already square to saturn suggesting emotional withdrawal.
Your prog venus is conjunct natal uranus now - this can cause sudden disruptions and upheavals in relationships and someone wanting more freedom and independence
Your prog mercury is conj Neptune in 1st house causing misunderstanding, confusion and illusions when dealing with others

Also, T Pluto is now conj natal moon --not good :crying:
"This is a period during which profound changes affect your emotional well being. You may experience difficulties with the women in your life, or your mother, trying to control you and your relationships. Sometimes this transit indicates the death of female relatives, particularly the mother. Because there is often a lack of support, you must become very resourceful. The overall theme for your life at this time is learning to let go and becoming independent. Watch your health in general, particularly problems with your stomach or digestive tract."
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/transits/pluto-cj-moon.html

Additionally, your moon is a singleton ie: only planet in earth and warrants further research --
Singleton planets
“If a planet happens to be the only one in an element, quality, or house type, that planet is a Singleton and it can funnel all of the “energy” of the horoscope. This planet is often the most important one in the horoscope. In other words, if you just interpret the position of this one planet by sign, house, and aspect, you will get to the “heart of the horoscope”. The effect is the same as if that planet were the only one on one side of the chart.”
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/13.0Singletons.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/13.0Singletons.htm)
http://www.astrologyclub.org (http://www.astrologyclub.org/)
http://en.mimi.hu/astrology/singleton.html (http://en.mimi.hu/astrology/singleton.html)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-2334.html (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-2334.html)
(There is a book out by Shirley Lyons Meier, "Elemental Voids, More than Meets the Eye", which gives a good discussion of missing elements.) The Inferior Function can be a source of great motivation and creative expression.
http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/singletons/intro/singleton_intro.htm (http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/singletons/intro/singleton_intro.htm)

Lack of elements http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18077 (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18077)
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/elements.html (http://www.astrology-numerology.com/elements.html)
http://www.astrology.aryabhatt.com/Astrology_Elements.asp (http://www.astrology.aryabhatt.com/Astrology_Elements.asp)
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/EmptyElement12.1.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/EmptyElement12.1.htm)
http://www.astrologyclub.org/article.../inferior2.htm (http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/inferior/inferior2.htm)

Also, T Neptune is opposing natal Saturn causing depressions, crushed dreams, fantasies, and a major reality check (saturn) --

So there are few things pointing to a possible break in a relationship here, what is the current state pls? Are you sure this is the right time to be asking about marriage?

Your partners chart really needs changing to Equal house system as 1/7th are almost 90' square which is ridiculous:rightful:

[rk555]

HI astrologer 50,

I am attaching the equal charts....the relationship is up and down right now. yes it is emotional upheaval, as he just changed his mind about having children in the future, he is against this now and asking me to choose between him or wanting a family. On top of that, we have other problems, mainly my anger.
I am finding it difficult to make a decision because I really love him and that is causing alot of stress.
I do realize marriage is not in the cards this year, but I was hoping possibly next year or 2012?
Thanks for your help!

[astrologer50]

Your anger issues can be assessed by mars in cancer which tends to interfer with family matters square to libra mercury, which is to forceful at speech and argumentative.
then mars square sun = wilful

"competitiveness and a "me-first" attitude with those who have Sun square or opposition Mars in their natal charts. The fighter persona is most apparent in youth, when the child is described as a "bundle of energy", or it is remarked that he or she "can't sit still". The abundant energy generated by the hard aspects (especially the square) between the Sun and Mars is hard to direct in childhood. Later in life, ideally, those with these aspects have learned to channel some of their excess energy into productive avenues--perhaps through career, sports, or any area where competitiveness is considered an asset. Nevertheless, people with these aspects can meet up with more than their share of conflict, and they can most certainly rub people the wrong way."
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natal/sunmarsaspects.html

"You drive yourself hard to achieve your ambitions, and you carry out every task with much enthusiasm and energy. You may display anger and brashness. Sometimes you need to develop patience and forethought to avoid conflicts in your life. This aspect produces much physical energy, but often these energies are spent in a precipitant fashion."
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/sunaspects.html#susma

Now when Transiting Uranus moves into Aries it will oppose your natal venus, which is classic divorce aspect and someone wanting more freedom and independence

"Upsets and change in your love relationships is the key issue now. A shift in your romantic and sexual energies at this time causes changes in love relationships.
+Your value system may receive a challenge from a new independent streak that wants to break away and try new things. You may not appreciate the urge to upset and change things that is trying to assert itself. This leads to tension."
http://www.cafeastrology.com/uranustransits.html

[rk555]

I have uranus opposite natal venus until May 2013. Does this mean my romantic life and possible chances of having a relationship leading to marriage are pretty much slim because of this transit? 3 years is a long time to wait!

[byjove]

I have uranus opposite natal venus until May 2013. Does this mean my romantic life and possible chances of having a relationship leading to marriage are pretty much slim because of this transit? 3 years is a long time to wait!

I had TR Ura conjunct. natal Ven a few years ago...all I can say, and I'm not thrilled about this...my interest in who I dated...fluctuated...constantly...wild horses couldn't have kept me with one person for very long...and I experimented...

Though, there are various factors to be taken into consideration. And an opposition will challenge you in different ways. Have you read up on articles on it? Café astrology have decent TR analysis.

"Uranus transits opposition Venus

*Love relationships at this time go through a lot of changes. It is difficult to say how things will end up when this astrological influence is over, but they are guaranteed to be different. Your relationship may undergo a kind of rebirth, or you may separate from each other.

+A time during which you could be unappreciative of much of your life, especially your standards and value system. Freedom and independence come to the fore, possibly provoking independent and unusual behavior in you. You may not be appreciated for this."

http://www.cafeastrology.com/uranustransits.html

[astrologer50]

I have uranus opposite natal venus until May 2013. Does this mean my romantic life and possible chances of having a relationship leading to marriage are pretty much slim because of this transit? 3 years is a long time to wait!


"This transit is about the inherent conflict between individuality and freedom and your need for relationships to make life meaningful. Your social situation is likely to change radically at this time. Sometimes the people that you normally associate with will suddenly all move on and you may be surrounded by strangers. It is not unusual to feel "estranged" and have a hard time trying to fit in. If you are involved in a love relationship, it may be an on-again, off-again type of arrangement, or the two of you may be involved in a long distance relationship, where you see eachother only infrequently. Stability in relationships is hard to come by."
http://www.astrology-x-files.com/transits/uranus-op-venus.html

astro use 10' wide orb approaching 10' exact and 10' departing.

I use 1' approaching 1' exact and 1' departing...
1st week April 2011 first direct hit
26 Oct 2011 retrograde hit and most important
last hit last week Jan 2012 --