View Full Version : Should I get together with my ex?
08-02-2006, 03:32 PM
My ex bf and I recently broke up and I had already started moving on. He now wants to try again and get back together. I have very mixed feelings about this - any insight would be greatly appreciated!
Thanks so much!
San Francisco, CA
08-02-2006, 04:41 PM
I don't think so.
Your significator is Mercury in Cancer in the 11th house. His is Saturn (5th house ruler) in Leo in the radix 12th (his turned 8th).
Mercury has just turned back to direct motion after some time in Rx motion. It has minor essential dignity by term and face and major accidental dignity by being in the 11th house. It is anti-received by Satun by fall.
The Moon is not only in the 11th house but is also disposited by the ruler of the 11th house, the Moon.
Saturn is a natural malefic. It has major essential debility by detriment and major accidental debility by being in the 8th house. It is peregrine, but received by Mercury by term.
There is no applying aspects between Mercury and Saturn. There's no collection or translation of light either.
The last lunar aspect is a trine with Mercury in the 11th house.
It seems that you are doing better than he is in the post breakup relationship. You had some really terrible timme, but yu are now over the worse part and almmost ready to move onn. You still have som feelings for himm, but since your breakup you have not been so emotionally dependant on him. It's like your're not that much in love with him anymore, but some residues of the old memories are still there in your heart. But you have been doing well for a while, possibly by the support of good friends. You have started to gain more confidence in yourself without him.
He on the other hand is not doing well at all. It is likely thathe expected to get over it before you, but the opposite happened. He is also likely to be mainly in detriment because you are doing so well. However, his feelings for you are not positive and pure. It seems like he wants you back to gain control over you or to satisfy his ego. But hooking up with him again will not do you any good. You have learned what yu have learned and now you are better off away from him. It would be better for you to focus on yourself and your friends for a while.
There will be translation of light by the Moon in the future by a square to Saturn and a trine to Mercury. There's a chance that someone (a friend of yours or a partner of his) may interfere in this issue causing more tension than mediating, if mediatingis the point.
08-05-2006, 04:20 AM
Thank you for your interpretation - most things you said feels accurate. He does seem pretty sincere with his feelings? Not sure if any additional information can be derived from the chart?
08-05-2006, 09:13 PM
All I can tell you is that feels pretty weak/vulnerable at the moment, which is probably why he misses you/wants you back.
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