Family Compatibility Question? & Is my daughter's Moon conjunct Pluto concerning?

[Satine]

I have been studying the Natal charts of my husband, daughter and I to try and learn what our charts have to say about our family dynamic. So far I have learned that my daughter's chart seems to indicate a good relationship with her Dad, and the Astro.com sites kid report indicated that my daughter loves and admires me, but I'm concerned about the Moon conjunct Pluto aspect of her chart. I love my daughter more than anything in the world and I want to have an amazing and close relationship with her as she grows up. Is this Moon/Pluto aspect concerning at all? Or is there any advice on how I can be a better mother to my daughter and a better wife to my wonderful husband? Thank you very much!

Also I apologise that I do not have a birth time for my husband. I understand if that makes it difficult to read his chart.

Thank you again for any insight or advice that you can give.

[Cosmiccradle]

Why not try a synastry, combine or composite chart, that should tell you alot.

[Satine]

Thank you! :smile: I'm an astrology newbie and I didn't realize that I could do that! Thank you for the heads up!

[Tamara]

i have the same aspect-moon conj pluto(only in scorpio). i do believe that you wanna have close relationship with your daughter, i think pluto brings that deep and intense feelings, my mom has been all her life overprotecting and deeply loving me, but at the same time she`s been very controlling, possessive and jealous and i thinks it`s due to that aspect. in your case there is capricorn into play so i think some power plays would still stay but maybe you must try not to be very strict and conservative towards her(capricorn moon). well, it`s just my opinion and i must add that only one aspect isn`t enough of course and making sinastry would be better:)

[Satine]

Thank you so much for the advice!!! :smile: And I'll post a new question with a synastry chart.

[Cosmiccradle]

Thank you! :smile: I'm an astrology newbie and I didn't realize that I could do that! Thank you for the heads up!

I suggest you do combine or composite, that is taking two and making it one whereas synastry is comparing two.

Synastry= A's Pluto con B's Sun

Composite= A's Pluto + B's Pluto / 2 (this is also used for the cusps and all other points.

Combine= A's long/lat and birth time + B's long/lat and birth time / 2

You're welcome, the pleasure is mine.

[Satine]

Thanks again! :smile:

[Cosmiccradle]

Thanks again! :smile:
What is important is what type of contacts you make with each other via the Moon.

Included is a synastry of you and your daughter. If you so wish it I will do a combine and composite for you. But I'm not sure if my program does both. I will check if and when you ask.

[Satine]

Thank you so much!! :happy: And yes, that would be wonderful! Thank you!

[Cosmiccradle]

Thank you so much!! :happy: And yes, that would be wonderful! Thank you!

It doesn't seem possible to make a Combine chart, however I'll look into it for you tomorrow. It's late here, worked the whole day and i'm a little tired. I'll see you soon enough, and you got some stuff to work on. Take care.

A day later, I've checked all the calculations, it seems the Davison chart is the Combine chart, so from left to right you have Coalescent (harmonics), Composite, and Combine, and you already have the Synastry. Good luck let me know it you need anything.

As for her Moon/Pluto which is indeed a hot spot in her chart, although I question how hot, seeing as it is placed in the third house, between two signs I see that the balance lies more in a friendship relationship with her than a mother/daughter relationship where your roll, communication, education and friendship is the key to the balance in her whimsical Pluto/Moon within your contact. It is essential that you use your weight from the 11th house, on her Pluto con Moon. Your Mercury, Mars and Neptune can influence her Pluto and thereby create buffer for her Moon/Pluto. I suggest that this is the place to look the hardest.

But this is glance work, to do you and your daughter justice I would have to take more time which I do not have, I am merely pointing you in the direction that I would be looking.

[mrlibsco]

I just posted a thread on that exact same topic,

http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=24209

I just happened to be browsing when I found your reply to this post. I understand what you are talking about when it comes to having Moon conjunct Pluto in Scorpio. First of all with the Moon in Scorpio, and having a mother that is controlling.

[AriesJupiter]

I don't personally have any of these aspects, but I've researched a lot about the Moon in particular, so I think I have some advice...
First of all, my boyfriend's Pluto is almost exactly opposite his Moon, so that too is supposed to be a powerful influence- maybe a manipulative mother or intense. I want to tell you that in my experience with him, he has deep, intense feelings, and very much needs loyalty, truth, and security, and deep love... so be sure to understand your daughter will probably need these things too. He is afraid of abandonment or betrayal, and such... and picks up on all subtle undertones... so don't think you can keep secrets from these people or try and manipulate them! They will fight back, and be hurt by you...
Also, I used to have a best friend with her Moon in Scorpio (I don't know her birth time, but her Pluto is also in Scorpio) and she was also very intense, capable of deep love & thoroughly understood the hardships of life without complaint. I would say these Pluto/Moon aspect people are "tough" in an emotional way, but also sensitive and need deep, true support.
The fact that your daughter's Moon is in Capricorn suggests that you may expect her to be very responsible at a young age, maybe expecting her to mature or grow up fast. My ex-boyfriend had a Capricorn Moon, and from my experience of him, he needed a lot of structure and practicality. His mother indeed raised him to be a self-sufficient young boy... due to circumstances, as well, I find. (she was working all the time)
So, with all of these combinations, I would say... be sure to give her deep, supportive, unconditional love ALWAYS... always make her feel that you are faithful and loyal to her feelings, and that you will never abandon her, or stop loving her for any reason. Also, make sure that you comfort her, and let her feel relaxed, because of her structured Capricorn Moon which may feel restricting or depressing at times. She needs to feel comfortable, accepted, unconditionally loved, and supported... with room for mistakes, forgiveness, room for growth, freedom, trust, sensitivity & understanding...
That's just my two cents. I appears you love your daughter very much and wish the best for her, or else you wouldn't be asking this question! So it seems you are on the right track... :smile: