View Full Version : Should I give up on her?
08-01-2006, 02:32 AM
I really, really, care about this woman, and I don't know how she feels. we used to be very close friends but for the past couple years I haven't put much effort into maintaining a friendship because she was in a relationship and I didn't want to interfere (partly cuz it's very easy for me to fall for her). In the past month, I've tried to reach out to her and restore our friendship and maybe more, but after what seemed a pretty promising start, it seems now that she is not interested in remaining friends, much less anything else. I can't stop thinking about her and was considering sitting down with her soon and telling her everything that's been on my mind, but I don't know how she'd react, and I have a feeling that she isn't going to be very receptive. :(
07-31-06, 10.28pm EST Arlington, VA
I'm sorry I don't know how to do those charts everyone else seems to have...
08-01-2006, 08:17 PM
It looks like her signifcators are all separating from yours BUT is she married to someone else?
08-01-2006, 10:11 PM
The ASC is too early and the Moon is VOC. A VOC says nothing will change, status quo, the expected will happen. But the early ASC says that the matter is still premature and/or new and more changes are about to take place, which is not what you are telling us since this is an old story.
Are you sure that the time and date that your have provided are accurate? If you are then I advise you not to do anything for now and wait for changes. I dared to look at the chart and it seems that, at the moment, she won't be romatically interested in you. A possible reason why she's cold on the friendship too is that she's busy with other stuff (possibly another man) in her head.
08-03-2006, 01:42 AM
thanks for your guys' thoughts!
she hasn't mentioned another guy, but she may still be hung over on her ex (they were in a *really* serious relationship for several years and then he cheated on her)...
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