lonliness and death?

[talonator]

Just wondering where to look for something that may explain isolation or loneliness in a chart. Also anything that may indicate death of several family/friends? I do not want this to sound too ominous but am just curious as I see a pattern in my life but can't seem to figure it out in my chart.

My only guess would be my 12 h or house of karma in Virgo, which could relate to solitude? As for the death of so many loved ones thorough my life, I am not too sure, I wonder if it is in my house placement as well.

Any ideas would be great!

[Ebenia]

I do not have opinion about loneliness this time, BUT I will say that you have Venus in Gemini in 8th house and Moon in first degrees of Cancer. Maybe from around 10 years ago Pluto has been opposing your Venus and after that hussle, it has now reached to make opposition to your Moon in Cancer, which could mean a death of a female (probably mother) in one's life. Venus opposition Pluto could mean death of a friend, obviously. Also Pluto is reaching in nearby years your IC, which could mean big things for you, since you have Mercury and Sun in Cancer too.

[Nexus7]

I had expcted to find a strongly-placed Saturn in your chart, maybe a hard spect between he luminaries or the angles to Saturn, bt what does emerge as a possibility for expereincing loneliness does come from your Jupiter/Uranus conjunction in the 12th, and its close squares to your Moon. I thought your Moon ws inlate Gemini, not Cancer, and Mercury is close to your IC.

I wondered how easy it is for you to sit still long enough to expereince intimacy with other people. Could it be that you are sometimes too 'wired' and/or busy to really be still long enough to experience much closeness?

Do you get frustrated because other people sometimes seem a little 'slow' for you?

That would be where I would look afor any posible reasons for any loneliness.

I do not think itis productive to perse too much for 'death' themes in the chart, which smacks a litle too much like the more falalistic kind of fortune-telling. However, the Moon square Urnaus may hint at spearations and uprootings that comeout of the blue.

[talonator]

Thanks for the info, my moon is actually in gemini too(see attached wheel & chart)? Would that make a difference say maybe a male death instead?

[talonator]

Nexus7, wow yup you got it with the weird, busy/restlessness. I find that has been a challenge for me in a lot of relationships and even me. My solution is to seek out like-mindedness and lacking that I try to draw a diplomatic attitude from my asc(Libra).
I understand what you are saying about the fatalistic concerns with looking at death in charts. Just curious why in my group of friends most of them have never experienced a death of a close loved one or have just recently, yet myself I have encounter this since the age of 7 onward? My curiosity and restless mind look for patterns a lot! (Virgo/Gemini) influence I guess.

Thanks!