Worried about my buddy

[pisceskitty]

I got an email from my friend last night. It seemed really weird. He's feeling lonely I think. I'm wondering is my friend really depressed?

July 23
5:47pm
Brooklyn, ny[kings county]

[Summery Joy]

I got the ASC at Sagittarius 23:15. You are signified by Jupiter in Scorpio technically in the 11th house. This is quite descriptive of your interest in your friends status.

His significator is Mars in Virgo in the radix 8th house (turned 10th). His significator has just changed signs. It was just in its own term and face in the last few degrees of Leo, now it's peregrine in a sign that is know for guilt and depression.

The significator of a psychological problem of his would be Venus, the ruler of the turned 12th house (radix 10th).

Venus receives Mars by triplicity while Mars anti-receives Venus.

The last lunar aspect is a conjunction with Mercury Rx, the ruler of the radix 7th and 9th (his turned 9th and 11th).

PF is in the radix 12th house, the co-ruler of psychological status.

Hmm. I see exaggeration. Yes, he is feeling down these days, but for some reason it's blown out of proportion. Either he exaggerated in his email to you or you over reacted to what he said in the email... or maybe both!

He believes his problem stems from his love life (or the lack thereof), but it's not really that bad. While he may be focusing more on work to "forget" his problems, he should be focussing more on getting support from friends, looking at the bigger picture and pray/meditating/seeking peace in his spirtual life/reconciling any higher powers he believes in.

Here's a question for you. This chart shows you to be too interested ot too emotionally involved (Sag rising, Jupiter in Scoprio, Pluto Rx in 1st house). Any particular reason? I'm asking because I noticed that the ruler of his turned 5th house (romance) is Jupiter (your significator) and the almuten is Venus (his psychological problem). Is this a co-incident or is there a chance you're involved in this somehow?

Don't worry though. Everything will work out ok if doesn't let himself believe that he is a victim and doesn't let himself get guilted into pleasing or serving other people. Friends support is also important.

[pisceskitty]

Hello,

At one point, we were involved romantically. He decided he wanted his freedom, and didn't want anything serious. We're still best friends. I worry about him alot. He's now "dealing"[that's how he phrases it] with this new young lady, that he says he doesn't trust, and that won't commit to him. Then he says he doesn't really want a commitment anyway! I'm really confused. I just listen, and keep my mouth shut. He's usually this really cheerful sag kinda guy:) ..but the email seemed depressing for [I]him.[I] He says he doesn't get depressed!

[Summery Joy]

Is it possible that you give us the data of when he sent that email? Your email accont will probably tell you when you received it, which was like a few seconds after he sent it. Translate the time to his time zone and use his location (not yours). This will give us the event chart of when he sent the email. This event chart could give clues on how honestly he was expressing his feelings in that email.

[pisceskitty]

Greetings sorehearted,

Sorry i'm responding late. I think i deleted that email he sent me:eek: but, I did save one that he wrote that felt...anxious. I love him dearly, and the break up was very painful. He had revelaed to me in May that he had been intimate with this youg lady while we were together. I still try to be his friend, but it's very hurtful, and sometimes it bothers me when he asks me advice about her! I just do not get it.

He has been going through some emotional things anyway. Waaay before he met me[in my opion] The little hopeful angel i have sitting on my shoulder would like to think that a few years from now, he will "come around" I know this sin't the case, but it's nice to dream. Here is the time/date for another email he sent me.

July 21st 11:12 AM
Bristol, PA

This man is such a mystery to me. I suppose that is why I was drawn to him in the first place.

[Summery Joy]

Well, the point of the event chart was to see if he was lying about anything. An event chart of another email that I know nothing about cannot help with your horary.

However, I did construct a chart for it. Are you sure you gave me the time according to his time zone, not yours? If you did, then the ASC is in Libra at 1:55.

None of the angles are in fixed signs. The Moon and it's dispositor are not fixed. If he was delivering news in that email, or was gving you a piece of information, be careful. There's a good chance he wasn't being completely honest.

Now before we wrong the guy, I'm going to ask you one more time; are you sure you gave me the data of his location and time zone?

[pisceskitty]

Yes it is. I closely looked at the email. Goodness...I have libra rising! It was most definitely sent on that day, and at that time. He lives in bristol pennsylvania. I live in new york city. So there's not a time difference.This is interesting..my sister told me that she feels he is using me emotionally. I will check the email once more to be sure. I'll be right back.......

[pisceskitty]

Ok, im back. Yep it's dated Friday, July 21st @ 11:12 am. It was sent from his location in Bristol, Pennsylvania.I looked at The chart on Astro.com. I really do not know how to read Horary charts, so your advice is truly appreciated sore. I just want him to be ok, and at the same time, i'm thinking I should move on with my life. In this particular email, he was apologizing for how things went down, and asked if we could still be friends. He's like this code that i'm trying to crack. He's a Sagittarius/Gemini moon[like me]/and Scorpio rising. He also has his Venus in Sag, Neptune/Mercury conjunction in Scorpio in the first.

[Summery Joy]

A blend of Sag and Scorpio? I have my own experience with that. Good luck!

[pisceskitty]

:eek: UH-oh