View Full Version : Uranus in 7th house = no longterm relationships?
Vagabondgirl
02-23-2010, 05:33 PM
Ive always wondered about what kind of negative influence uranus in my 7th house might have in my life. Im already married and divorced, at the age of 22-24 so it kind of speaks for itself:P And now I have a new relationship (almost for 2 years). My last relationship ended after 3 years, and alot of misery.:devil:
I Heard that Uranus also was a singleton in my natal chart, being the only planet in Sagittarius and with one aspect from Sun (sextile) and a terrible square from mars:(
I think that the uranus in 7th house means that I dont like stable relationships and that I have unortodox ones. The sagittarius 7th house means that I have relations with foreigners and/or longdistance relationships, which is true for my current relationship!
Do you think I will switch partners many times during my life? I have a bad feeling about this sometimes...
I feel that my current relationship is going fine at the moment. But I never know with myself, things tend to change quite fast in my life.
docker
02-23-2010, 06:34 PM
Hello. Uranus can give you emotional unstable, divorce in your relationships or marriage (as u did), different appearance, eccentricity and taught behavior. Contracts which can break fast.
Mars square Uranus can lead you in a publicity without quality (careful with this). Gives you an aggressive and stressful character. An advice for this aspect is that you should gym a lot, to express with a different way your energy.
But also can gives you a chance to be famous for a discovery. Usually you will have lots of unexpected events in your second part of your life (30+).
:) Docker
Vagabondgirl
02-23-2010, 07:29 PM
Thanx alot:happy:
I started to gym right now, but it gives me more energy, I was kind of lazy and low in energy before...
hmm, cant relate to being stressful and agressive as a person. Im the least agressive person you can find! Maybe stressed at times, when pushed very hard or something. Eccentric when drunk only I think, haha.
I can relate mostly to the divorce thing and distance/foreign relationship.
But on the other hand Ive had a couple of crazy unstable people in my life previously, like unpredictable people with psychological problems.
That they suddenly act in some aggressive way (because of their personality and not mine, or a combination). Seriously love hate relationships with some of these people. Maybe a combination of sudden uranus (and strict saturn aspecting my moon, venus).
Mostly it was during childhood and teens. It was kind of traumatic episodes for me, but Ive almost forgotten about them since it was long ago. Its different now because Im not in this "Little child" role anymore.
Oi, I dont think Im suitable for something famous, sorry:innocent: Im rather shy in public!
Unexpected events = bad events or?
docker
02-23-2010, 08:13 PM
Wow! Your analysis is great. You noticed me that some things that I was believed, you told me that these are from the people that you meet and not from you. I missed this important detail. I would like to discuss this, or a different part of your chart.
Thanks a lot!
Docker
Vagabondgirl
02-23-2010, 09:31 PM
OK:)
Yeah, because this is the planet of the 7th house it probably has most effect concerning relations to others.
Maybe I overanalyze:whistling: Virgo moon and Mercury/pluto conjunction in scorpio:wink:
Also I have Saturn near the 7th cusp, that perhaps also is somewhat problematic? But it has an orb of 6-7 degrees and its in the 6th house. What do you think?
astrologer50
02-23-2010, 10:46 PM
You have calculated your chart using the default on astro.com of placidus and I use Equal House system and am a modern astrologer. Lots of people that come into Astrology get their free charts calculated at www.astro.com (http://www.astro.com/) and the default ‘house system’ used is Placidus and think that’s just the norm and all that there is……..BUT that is just the tip of the iceberg. You can change the default on astro.com in Extended Chart selection to Equal house and a few more.
Throughout the forums but mainly in natal astrology there are two main branches Placidus (unequal size houses) v Equal House (whereby each house is same size) but lots more……. For more information on these go here.
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/House_(astrology)#Description (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/House_(astrology)#Description)
http://www.astrolozy.com/article19.asp (http://www.astrolozy.com/article19.asp)
http://www.skyviewzone.com/birthinfoforms2/housesexplained.htm (http://www.skyviewzone.com/birthinfoforms2/housesexplained.htm)
It's only with study and research will you be able to assess where your planets are deposited and in which houses... thus see which 'glove fits'
Just look at those heavily skewed houses, so in Equal mars and venus are in 4th moon & sun in 5th and mercury, pluto and saturn in 6th and lastly Jupiter in 9th house.
Your uranus is indeed a singleton and only planet in fire, but to compensate in Equal house you have 3planets in fire houses--
Singleton planets
http://www.astrologyclub.org (http://www.astrologyclub.org/)
http://en.mimi.hu/astrology/singleton.html (http://en.mimi.hu/astrology/singleton.html)
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/13.0Singletons.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/13.0Singletons.htm)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-2334.html (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-2334.html)
(There is a book out by Shirley Lyons Meier, "Elemental Voids, More than Meets the Eye", which gives a good discussion of missing elements.) The Inferior Function can be a source of great motivation and creative expression.
http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/singletons/intro/singleton_intro.htm (http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/singletons/intro/singleton_intro.htm)
Lack of elements http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18077 (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18077)
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/elements.html (http://www.astrology-numerology.com/elements.html)
http://www.astrology.aryabhatt.com/Astrology_Elements.asp (http://www.astrology.aryabhatt.com/Astrology_Elements.asp)
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/EmptyElement12.1.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/EmptyElement12.1.htm)
http://www.astrologyclub.org/article.../inferior2.htm (http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/inferior/inferior2.htm)
Uranus in 7th
"By a miscellany of means, Uranus removes the partners should dependency develop. The principal targets of Uranian activity are the partnerships made in a person’s adult years, although the primary relationships of childhood may also be affected. As this placement of Uranus is so often found in charts which indicate that past life experience has been characterised by dependency, then it is often the case that a person with Uranus in H7 experiences much loss in his life as a consequence of repeating this way of relating."
http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoundation/BookKarmaHouse7.htm (http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoundation/BookKarmaHouse7.htm)
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/temples/h7.html (http://www.skyscript.co.uk/temples/h7.html)
I have Uranus in 7th opp Asc is my chart ruler and conj Sun/moon midpoint - so square to both in other words. I have been married 3x but the last one married twice and divorced twice.
To me the 7th is 'other people' who seem to want their freedom and independence, not so much me. I have stellium planets taurus in 4th and am very placid and laid back, but also have a well aspected pluto their to.
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=22573
this thread may interest you.
The mars square uranus is basically occasional bad temper or bit accident prone..
If you go to the main AW homepage, go down to bottom left and find the search box, put in any natal aspect, such as this Neptune square MC -- I am limited to quoting just 100words (forum rules) but you can click on link to read the rest
"The square will be felt as an inner tension: you are torn between the search for freedom and a deep need to feel safe and secure. This is a clash between the familiar patterns of the known and the siren call of the potential of the unknown.
This is likely to be felt as a fear of commitment and risk. Whilst you will be attracted towards greater freedom, with the possibility of creating a context where you can be more fully yourself, the likelihood is that you will resist the impulse."
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/astrological-aspects/mars-square-uranus.php
The ruler of 7th is Jupiter and placed in 9th does suggest a possible foreigner or someone who is into philosophy, higher education, religion, the law, travel, journalism etc.
Both your moon and venus are challenged by square to Neptune, which is emotional and romantic rose tinted glasses and disillusionment. Buy hey you may have enjoyed the illusion, but when eventually the glasses slip and you see these people for who are what they are, sometimes you over idealise partners, romance probably too sacrificial
With both luminaries in 5th house of Leo, romance, love affairs, children, creativity, self employment are all possible interests for you.
Only slight problem is Gemini Asc and Libra sun (along with pisces) are all restless, procrastinating and indecisive signs....
Hope this helps
docker
02-23-2010, 11:15 PM
Ok. Lets talk about your Saturn. Saturn is in 3rd decanate of Scorpio. Is the Ruler of the decanate. Methodological and very deep analysis mind. You invest these capabilities in your work area. Lot of energy there, because you create your chart with Placidus system. Did you try to use equal house system? Saturn gives u command capabilities and duty. Very strong personality. Good capabilities to be charge in big business project. I think Saturn is far from Sag. I don't think that took some influence from Sagittarius.
The midpoint 5 30' in sag, Saturn/Uranus is in 7th, opposition your Asc gives you the sudden separation. This is the connection between 6th and 7th through your Asc opposition. Could also mean that you have all this interesting-weird things or people through your work (incoming of work). BUT Jupiter is here to help you. Jupiter makes a sextile with this midpoint. Jupiter is in the first decanate in aquarius. Also Jupiter makes a Q with saturn. Jupiter rules the Aquarius sign, also Uranus. So Jupiter is the disposer of Uranus and Saturn. Fascinating! This is so close to opposition your ASC. What channel! Please tell me what is this that you feel when thing is happening? Is this rule hole of your life?
Docker
Vagabondgirl
02-23-2010, 11:36 PM
Thanx for your input;) It was interesting.
Yes, I feel my dependency decreasing in this period of my life, especially after my divorce and after Ive been abroad several times to study. And my mum leaving me as a small kid also. I always change my closest friends after a few years, and the same goes for boyfriends, husband and that kind. Im starting to feel safe as long as there are other people around me, no matter who they are really. I think I get close to people quite fast, because Im used to this change now.
I told my dad and boyfriend that I couldnt guarantee that me and my boyfriend would stay together after my education for example. Because I painfully experienced getting married in a hurry and then suddenly deciding to divorce. But they didnt understand, they want it to be forever I think....
I must have some uranian traits in me after all then, although the planet is in 7th house. It aspects my sun. Ofcourse I learn more from these dynamic and constantly changing personal relationships. So its not necesseraly only a bad thing!
docker
02-24-2010, 12:03 AM
Oh! I couldn't interpreted with so much force or scale of eccentricity. You text helped me a lot to realize exactly which indicators gives these result. Thanks again.
I was thinking. This eccentricity is a kind of distortion in these area. This distortion appears in your chart cause of unequal system house. Is it coincident? What do you think?
Docker
Vagabondgirl
02-24-2010, 12:07 AM
Hmmm, What do you mean exactly?
That the interpretation youre talking about is wrong because of the 2 different systems of placidius?
Vagabondgirl
02-24-2010, 12:12 AM
OK, I found it: here is the equal house chart:rightful:
docker
02-24-2010, 12:15 AM
In this observation I realize that Placidus is a perfect house system for you. Yes I take back the first thing I said. I'm sorry. I never before interpret such chart. I can realize it now. I know now!
Docker
Vagabondgirl
02-24-2010, 12:21 AM
Ah, ok. Its so strange to see these planets in totally different houses. I have to change my oppinion about my whole chart then....:happy:
docker
02-24-2010, 12:37 AM
:) Hope helped an learn new things. Thanks a lot!
docker
02-24-2010, 12:48 AM
If we admit that this system house is correct for your country, we will suspect that this kind of distortion could be in every people who lived there. We know some eccentricities of other countries. Especially in the North. Can you tell me if there is eccentricity in other people in your country? Maybe they translate eccentricity in their family for example, in business or anything else!! Just a thought!
Docker
Vagabondgirl
02-24-2010, 12:51 AM
Eccentric = being strange or different right? haha
Not all people are eccentric or have the uranian influence. Or do you mean that because of the big houses they have alot of energy in one place if we use the unequal house? Hmm, hard to say. Would have to analyze charts individually. Not sure if I understand the question:wink:
docker
02-24-2010, 12:57 AM
You are right! not eccentric just different. Better word thanks!
My question has to do with the distortion on your chart. We can try to analyze the same chart with the equal house system. I 'll try to do that to see the results! What do you think?
Docker
Vagabondgirl
02-24-2010, 01:08 AM
Yes, I will have to look up my new houseplacements. But think I will do it tomorrow.
What do you think of this new placements. Like jupiter in house 9? Is it a better placement than house 11? My 5th house changes completely, from barren leo to more fertile libra with moon on cusp and sun in 5th. Before I had no planets in 5th house. But I care alot about having kids for example.... So maybe it is more right? Not quite sure.
Moulin
02-24-2010, 01:14 AM
Equal house system does work better i find.
Play with yours and see how you like it :)
Then just read up the interpretations by house
http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoundation/BookKarmaHouse1.htm
astrologer50
02-24-2010, 07:51 AM
Ah, ok. Its so strange to see these planets in totally different houses. I have to change my oppinion about my whole chart then....:happy:
In my post 6 I interpreted your chart using Equal house system and am pleased to see you recalculated your chart :biggrin: :biggrin:
That's the whole point, I live UK and even at this latitude placidus moved my planets two whole houses which was totally unacceptable and I could not identify with those placements at all
Amongst other things, astrology is a wonderful tool for understanding yourself and others better.....enabling us to make better choices in life as we become aware of how our behaviour influences what happens to us through the law of cause and effect. Astrology does not reliably predict the future.......But it can provide an excellent insight into the psychological make-up of people, enabling us to accurately predict their behaviour and it's resultant effects
If you intend to learn about astrology, you will need to begin with a natal chart, it need not necessarily be your own, but many choose to begin this way, in an effort to better understand their own life journey, and purpose. Astrological natal charts are as individual as a persons ‘fingerprints’ depending on where (latitude & longitude) and time of birth.It is important to get your *time of your birth* as this is the most important information.
Here are my personal recommend beginners links to focus upon Natal charts:-
I hope that you come here and want to learn about astrology and join in with exchanges. There ever expanding Education forum here and lots more to explore. http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12556 (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=12556) http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TOClessons.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/TOClessons.htm)
http://wilsontc.stormloader.com#continue (http://wilsontc.stormloader.com/#continue)
http://www.cafeastrology.com/natalastrology.html (http://www.cafeastrology.com/natalastrology.html)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/astrology-lessons.php (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/astrology-lessons.php)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/inner-outer.php (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/learn-astrology/inner-outer.php)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Planets_in_astrolgy (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Planets_in_astrolgy)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astrological_sign (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astrological_sign)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astrological_aspect (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Astrological_aspect)
http://www.skyscript.co.uk/aspects2.html (http://www.skyscript.co.uk/aspects2.html)
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natal_astrology#Aspect_patterns (http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Natal_astrology#Aspect_patterns)
There is a 'plethora' of information on AW, espec in the 'stickys' at the top of every forum, our Education forum and Recommendations forum to. Plus we have a good search feature, bit like google using keywords --
shaggy
02-28-2010, 02:33 PM
uranus's dignified in sag & jupiter in aqua
saturn in scorpio's conjunct desc.
ur need for an aquarian partner's strong. it doesn't hve to mean divorce followed by another divorce.
it just means u hurried into the previous marriage which of course is uranuss' speciality
if it wasnt ur decision to divorce ur x,ur saturns' a binding force.
this uranian fellow can be some1 with strong uranian qualities. unconventional relationship doesn't mean living relationship.
how about marrying a widower/divorcee?
i read somewhere dat juno points out to what kind of partnerships u'll be having.
some1 wid juno sq uranus has high chances of divorce but the same person with a trine to saturn will be quiet stable.
i've libra juno sq uranus but trine saturn & i check out guys in my bf's absence(he knows)but don't do anything more dan dat.
a lady with pluto in the 7th was never happy b4 she met d love of her life who has sun conjunct pluto.
Vagabondgirl
02-28-2010, 02:51 PM
Thanx for your input:)
I see that my juno is conjuncting my mercury-pluto in scorpio:/ But I dont think its making any special aspect to uranus. Only square jupiter together with mercury and pluto...
My best friend is Aquarius with many planets there.
My bf has both venus and mars in aquarius:)
I was the one who regretted the marriage and wanted the divorce. It happened after going abroad...
Vagabondgirl
02-28-2010, 02:55 PM
Hmmm. My bf has T square with pluto square venus and moon, and I have mercury (ruler of my chart) conjunct pluto. Will I help him some way with his hard aspect then?
shaggy
03-01-2010, 02:25 PM
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/Juno21.3.html
try asking a horary qs.
virgo18
04-27-2011, 01:57 AM
Hello. Uranus can give you emotional unstable, divorce in your relationships or marriage (as u did), different appearance, eccentricity and taught behavior. Contracts which can break fast.
Mars square Uranus can lead you in a publicity without quality (careful with this). Gives you an aggressive and stressful character. An advice for this aspect is that you should gym a lot, to express with a different way your energy.
But also can gives you a chance to be famous for a discovery. Usually you will have lots of unexpected events in your second part of your life (30+).
:) Docker
Mars square Uranus.... You mean that it gives "bad reputation"?? In my case I have Uranus in my 1st house and it squares the ruler of my 7th which is in the 10th as well as Mars.
An astrologer told me that I have to gym a lot to take out my excessive negative energy. And I do gym a lot!
astrologer50
04-28-2011, 09:03 AM
uranus's dignified in sag & jupiter in aqua
saturn in scorpio's conjunct desc.
ur need for an aquarian partner's strong. it doesn't hve to mean divorce followed by another divorce.
it just means u hurried into the previous marriage which of course is uranuss' speciality
if it wasnt ur decision to divorce ur x,ur saturns' a binding force.
this uranian fellow can be some1 with strong uranian qualities. unconventional relationship doesn't mean living relationship.
how about marrying a widower/divorcee?
i read somewhere dat juno points out to what kind of partnerships u'll be having.
some1 wid juno sq uranus has high chances of divorce but the same person with a trine to saturn will be quiet stable.
i've libra juno sq uranus but trine saturn & i check out guys in my bf's absence(he knows)but don't do anything more dan dat.
a lady with pluto in the 7th was never happy b4 she met d love of her life who has sun conjunct pluto.
Yeh BUT Uranus is a singleton ie: only planet in fire element..
Singleton planets
“If a planet happens to be the only one in an element, quality, or house type, that planet is a Singleton and it can funnel all of the “energy” of the horoscope. This planet is often the most important one in the horoscope. In other words, if you just interpret the position of this one planet by sign, house, and aspect, you will get to the “heart of the horoscope”. The effect is the same as if that planet were the only one on one side of the chart.”
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/13.0Singletons.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/13.0Singletons.htm)
http://www.astrologyclub.org (http://www.astrologyclub.org/)
http://en.mimi.hu/astrology/singleton.html (http://en.mimi.hu/astrology/singleton.html)
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-2334.html (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/archive/index.php/t-2334.html)
(There is a book out by Shirley Lyons Meier, "Elemental Voids, More than Meets the Eye", which gives a good discussion of missing elements.) The Inferior Function can be a source of great motivation and creative expression.
http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/singletons/intro/singleton_intro.htm (http://www.astrologyclub.org/articles/singletons/intro/singleton_intro.htm)
Lack of elements http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18077 (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=18077)
http://www.astrology-numerology.com/elements.html (http://www.astrology-numerology.com/elements.html)
http://www.astrology.aryabhatt.com/Astrology_Elements.asp (http://www.astrology.aryabhatt.com/Astrology_Elements.asp)
http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/EmptyElement12.1.htm (http://www.bobmarksastrologer.com/EmptyElement12.1.htm)
http://www.astrologyclub.org/article.../inferior2.htm (http://www.astrologyclub.org/article.../inferior2.htm)
Also ruler of 7th in 9th house could suggest a foreigner or meeting someone special whilst travelling or in higher education even...
Neptune is more debilitated than Urarnus here in my mind. Neptune square venus - typical *rose tinted glasses* and unrealistic expectations in romance and finances.
Moon square neptune again emotional disillusionment, confusions, deceptions espec connected to mother and women.
Venus is in it's detriment in virgo - suggestions of being *too picky* and overanalysing romance poss rather than going with the flow. It it helped by conj mars (bossy mother) and moon.
have you read this thread
venus square moon
http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=24933&highlight=venus+square+moon (http://www.astrologyweekly.com/forum/showthread.php?t=24933&highlight=venus+square+moon)
this suggests that what attracts you to a person may not fulfil you emotionally
Lion o ness
04-30-2011, 12:41 AM
@ Vagabondgirl.. Your chart is very similar to mine, just different signs..
I have a packed 6th with both Uranus/Pluto in H7...
I love life just down right *****... :unsure: sighh.. boy do I have my issues.
Uranus in 7th
"By a miscellany of means, Uranus removes the partners should dependency develop. The principal targets of Uranian activity are the partnerships made in a person’s adult years, although the primary relationships of childhood may also be affected. As this placement of Uranus is so often found in charts which indicate that past life experience has been characterised by dependency, then it is often the case that a person with Uranus in H7 experiences much loss in his life as a consequence of repeating this way of relating."
http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoundation/BookKarmaHouse7.htm (http://www.dkfoundation.co.uk/dkfoundation/BookKarmaHouse7.htm)
This really fit here with me.. I was married for over 10 years and he was literally taken away.. Which caused the marriage to be over..
For me (I older now) this is what I have learned and how I handle it...
First I want to be in a commit relationship.. I need the love just as anyone does... But at the same time I need freedom to be me, and I also have to have that little voice in my head saying " your here because you want, you dont have to stay"
Basically I have to know I am free to leave.. I have to not feel trapped.. For what ever reason "marriage" makes me feel trapped.. just having that paper is torture. It says to me you HAVE to STAY.. NO MATTER what..
When I got married, thats what I did.. I gave my word and I stayed even though I didnt want to, and even though I was miserable... I made a promise so I stayed.. Plus I stayed for the "kids"
For me first no more kids.. lol... 2nd no more marriage.. I can live with someone, and be perfectly happy and not feel forced to stay.. Cause I know I can just "move out" if I need to... Im free to leave..
Another thing I have to do is work and have my own money... Because again how can you leave if you dont have money.... SO I keep my money seperate..
Plus Im keeping my independance. Which keeps me feeling free inside...
Just "knowing" I can walk away when I want is all I need to feel free..
When you feel that "stuck" feeling is when it all goes bad...
But I usually fall for guys that have a Aqua Mars, and they need their own space anyways.. So that works :) They arent clingy... :biggrin:
bittermoon
04-30-2011, 04:05 AM
I can identify with a lot of what you wrote, Lion o ness. There's some similarities in our charts, for sure.
I have Uranus in the 7th and I was married for 12 years. I've been thinking about it recently and I am almost sure I do not want to get married again, though I would definitely want another relationship... just not being married. I always hated the idea of being somebody's 'wife'.
I don't think Uranus in 7th means one is not able to have a long term relationship, but I'm pretty certain that this individual needs to have a lot of freedom within that relationship. Most of my relationships have been with very Scorpionic people, which suits my Sun and Moon but eventually my Gemini Venus and Aqua Mars feel suffocated and trapped.
Lion o ness
04-30-2011, 04:27 AM
Yes if I feel trapped Im so otta there...
Ive been researching my Venus/Mars which is cancer/leo...
Only they dont reall fit so much... I dont like the clingy cancer... Dives me insane... im not clingy at all.. Fire men.. Idk just dont do it for me...
I have Mars sq Neptune and the Pisces Mars describes me well... I really chase the water men.. Especially Pisces... lol
I have Venus opps jupiter... The sag Venus also fits me well..
You can see the contradictions with Sag/Pisc Ven/Mars
Which I want the freedom and space and fun, but I want the amazing love story behind it.. :surprised:
ill never be satisfied... LOL
bittermoon
04-30-2011, 05:02 AM
Which I want the freedom and space and fun, but I want the amazing love story behind it.. :surprised:
That describes it well for me, too!
I'm also attracted to water men. Been with Scorpios and Cancers but never Pisces. They might be a good fit, as long as they provide some earthy qualities, having Virgo on the DC. Having said that, I met a double Pisces with a Taurus Mars and Venus and from what I've seen so far, his earthy qualities will probably start to bother me after a while.
Then again, it will probably take a special person to put up with me and my eccentricities :)
astrologer50
04-30-2011, 08:25 AM
I can identify with a lot of what you wrote, Lion o ness. There's some similarities in our charts, for sure.
I have Uranus in the 7th and I was married for 12 years. I've been thinking about it recently and I am almost sure I do not want to get married again, though I would definitely want another relationship... just not being married. I always hated the idea of being somebody's 'wife'.
I don't think Uranus in 7th means one is not able to have a long term relationship, but I'm pretty certain that this individual needs to have a lot of freedom within that relationship. Most of my relationships have been with very Scorpionic people, which suits my Sun and Moon but eventually my Gemini Venus and Aqua Mars feel suffocated and trapped.
For me it's *excitement* if things get to boring and routine and dull then what's the purpose? but on the negative side it can cause disruption and/or arguements to achieve this end, but recognising that excitement comes in many forms and the ART is to achieve excitement without too much disruption is still an art I am still practising myself....:smile:
When one has an angular Uranus, you are 'called upon' to do specific things in life. Often you are a Uranian teacher...meaning teaching a subject ...or teaching in a way....that is out of the ordinary, off the beaten path.
LovelyMissAries
05-05-2011, 12:02 AM
I too have Uranus in the 7th, although mine is in Capricorn I still feel that "OMG we're merging???" panic set in if I feel myself getting emotionally close to somebody. Also, reading this discussion board helped me realize the effects of Uranus I had in my childhood. My Dad was promoted in his career every 3 years causing us to move... RIGHT as I was just getting comfortable and planting roots (dependency). Very interesting!
astrologer50
05-05-2011, 08:33 AM
I too have Uranus in the 7th, although mine is in Capricorn I still feel that "OMG we're merging???" panic set in if I feel myself getting emotionally close to somebody. Also, reading this discussion board helped me realize the effects of Uranus I had in my childhood. My Dad was promoted in his career every 3 years causing us to move... RIGHT as I was just getting comfortable and planting roots (dependency). Very interesting!
Unless Aquarius rules your 4th house/IC then Uranus in 7th would not describe moving house every 3years, perhaps moon conj IC or MC or possibly uranus conj MC.:cool:
Vagabondgirl
05-05-2011, 10:11 AM
I too have Uranus in the 7th, although mine is in Capricorn I still feel that "OMG we're merging???" panic set in if I feel myself getting emotionally close to somebody. Also, reading this discussion board helped me realize the effects of Uranus I had in my childhood. My Dad was promoted in his career every 3 years causing us to move... RIGHT as I was just getting comfortable and planting roots (dependency). Very interesting!
I met someone last week with his saturn conjunct my uranus in my 7th house. I panicked a little when he tried to show affection and got "too close" in some emotional way. Even though it was just a one night thing.... Maybe Im turning more and more into the uranian type:P
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